Hey, I need your advice or help. Ive lost a good 11 pounds the past several weeks and felt so good. But I was at the supermarket with someone buying iced tea and they started going about how stupid I am because Im dieting but still getting things like iced tea. I get it because it makes me avoid soda and I only drink it once a week on fridays. I know there wrong but it makes me feel like I did everything for nothing.
Thread: Frustrated what do do
07-10-2009, 04:55 PM #1
Frustrated what do do
07-10-2009, 06:07 PM #2
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If I were you, I'd put that person in his/her place. Not really attacking, but telling him/her what you accomplished. Something that many people would be too lazy to even attempt in the first place. Losing the weight should definitely feel great, but people will always just judge you outright...whether it's in your face or behind your back.
Cliche, but don't let it get to you. People will always talk, and you can't stop most of them from blabbing, so just brush it off. You've come so far, and I'm sure the people you know and care about see the accomplishments you've made so far.
07-10-2009, 06:30 PM #3
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So you have a "cheat day" or food. Who cares? If you lost weight so far, why change whats working for you now? I wouldn't go shopping with this person if all they are going to do is put you down.I say fear me and fear death, too. You canít keep me on the ground.
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07-11-2009, 05:51 PM #6
[QUOTE=Rick1824;355486131]Be proud and feel good about what you're doing and what you've accomplished and are still accomplishing, and tell your chubby out of shape friend to mind his own business.
Wow, you guys sure help man, Haha thanks guys this really helps, he is chubby and out of shape I think he was just hating on me. But you know if you hear someone say that your fat or dont know how to diet and you know you did cause it has worked it just pisses u off. but thanks for the help it worked!
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dont let them stop you. ive lost 100 pounds over 3 years. i never stopped for any one. not my mom, not my dad, not any one at my weight loss group.
not my friends. not my family. not people at work. i havent even stopped when i do bad.
even when people tell me they dont like what ive done i usually just laugh in their face.
dont stop believing.Dont have negative thoughts. Remember your mantra.
07-12-2009, 11:49 PM #11
07-13-2009, 07:58 AM #12
Is tea bad???????? I guess if your loading it up with sugar or something. I guess I dont get it. I love tea and I drink it all day all summer long. I have a box of Lipton tea right here and the only thing that it says on the nutritional facts is potassium. No calories, no sugar, no sodium. Maybe I am missing something????
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