Misc I'm having Man Problems

[Sixtoo]

I'm so sprung up on this dude.

See for like 2 years we been all lovey dovey and have sex. We used to be inlove, but we never made if official. So he leaves and goes on summy vacation then he comes back 2 weeks ago and he's all "Bby I miss you I wanna see you I can't wait to taste your pussy again mmmm" So I'm like Ok cool.

We meet up and he's distant. We sit on my bed and talk and he starts all feeling me up. I tell him I'm not in the mood right now for oral or sex and he says "But I'm so hard please please. I miss your pussy I need it."

So I say ok and let him stick it in me and 30 seconds later he cums and acts even more distant. He always comes very quick like always under 1 minute and for 2 years I've never said anything. Sometimes I tell him the sex is very good. I just like him.

Now since the last time he barely returns my texts and he just acts so different compared to how things have been. What did I do wrong?

I'm starting to think maybe my ass just isn't big enough so it's no longer holding his attention. I overheard a phone conversation of his and he was telling his friend to call this girl and get with her because she has a big ol booty. Mine isn't ghetto or anything.

Do you guys honestly think that this could be part of the problem?

[Al_Pal]

absolutly. he will never love you cause your ass isnt big enough. sorry.

[Spaghettii]

Originally Posted by Al_Pal

absolutly. he will never love you cause your ass isnt big enough. sorry.

Or your rack...

But pics are needed to verify.

Al_Pal, if this woman is beautiful, I totally agree with you regarding my other thread.

[Hishiad]

Say wut???


Why would you want to be with a one minute man anyway?

[Sixtoo]

Originally Posted by Hishiad

Say wut???


Why would you want to be with a one minute man anyway?

Thats the thing. I don't even know why I wanna be with him right now other than he's REALLY good at oral. His dick aint too much of nothing and neither is the sex. It's always over before I can get into it anyway.

He's even kinda hella ghetto and poor too and I'm .. not. We come from opposite sides of the tracks but damn I'm crazy bout him.

I don't understand why. And now I'm not understanding why he's acting like I'm not good enough for him anymore by ignoring me. I haven't changed at all so I cn't help but think maybe he hooked up with a big booty ghetto girl while on vacation and now that's what he wants or something. I mean if he's still coming in like 30 seconds it can't be my vagina. The sex is still good to him obviously.

[Spaghettii]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

Thats the thing. I don't even know why I wanna be with him right now other than he's REALLY good at oral. His dick aint too much of nothing and neither is the sex. It's always over before I can get into it anyway.

He's even kinda hella ghetto and poor too and I'm .. not. We come from opposite sides of the tracks but damn I'm crazy bout him.

I don't understand why. And now I'm not understanding why he's acting like I'm not good enough for him anymore by ignoring me. I haven't changed at all so I cn't help but think maybe he hooked up with a big booty ghetto girl while on vacation and now that's what he wants or something. I mean if he's still coming in like 30 seconds it can't be my vagina. The sex is still good to him obviously.

You women never know what they want. -sigh-
I'm not even gonna bother giving you advice due to the fact you're just gonna ignore it.
After all, it's your dumb ass fault for putting up with his ****.

[BigE83605]

ur a FWB/booty call. u dont mean anything more to him.

[jason1986]

I would about bet he's had some type of sexual contact on vacation. Be it oral or sex, he's done something he's ashamed of.

[makavelicss]

Using u as a booty call!

[Sixtoo]

Originally Posted by jason1986

I would about bet he's had some type of sexual contact on vacation. Be it oral or sex, he's done something he's ashamed of.

True. Something def happened when he was away

I've always liked him a lot, but he knows I'm better than him and I've let him chase me but I always give in eventually because yeah I like him.

Now he's suddenly not putting in the effort anymore and it's driving me crazy. Now I'm feeling like I'm not good enough for him and I hate that feeling. It shouldn't be like this.

I don't understand why wht may or may not have happened has to do with me.

[nosferatu_]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

True. Something def happened when he was away

I've always liked him a lot, but he knows I'm better than him and I've let him chase me but I always give in eventually because yeah I like him.

Now he's suddenly not putting in the effort anymore and it's driving me crazy. Now I'm feeling like I'm not good enough for him and I hate that feeling. It shouldn't be like this.

I don't understand why wht may or may not have happened has to do with me.

Drop him like a bad habit. But you're not going to listen to this anyway. He's using you. Period. And your OK with that?



lol.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

True. Something def happened when he was away

I've always liked him a lot, but he knows I'm better than him and I've let him chase me but I always give in eventually because yeah I like him.

Now he's suddenly not putting in the effort anymore and it's driving me crazy. Now I'm feeling like I'm not good enough for him and I hate that feeling. It shouldn't be like this.

I don't understand why wht may or may not have happened has to do with me.

I agree that something happened while he was away.

Maybe he thinks its time you chased him instead, so he's withdrawing affection to make you wonder why, to drive you crazy and to make you put the effort in, rather than him chasing you all the time. We know guys do this, as I've read about it on here.

Did you actually ask him outright what's up? It's pointless trying to work out what the other gender is thinking, because we can't, as what makes sense to each sex makes none to the other.

[Liquid Snake]

Why don't you just do the obvious thing and ask him?

[no-mames]

if your hott i can help you...pm me some pics so i can diagnose the problem..

[wrenny420]

Originally Posted by Liquid Snake

Why don't you just do the obvious thing and ask him?

WHOA WHOA. theres too much sir. girls can't just come out and ask them. they have to play mind games first!

[BigE83605]

Originally Posted by Liquid Snake

Why don't you just do the obvious thing and ask him?

that would actually make sense so no fukin way

[Sach]

The day I beg a girl for sex is the day I turn in my man card permanently

[Sixtoo]

I did ask him.

His response was "Yo lil mama you know what I'm sayin I'mma keep it real wit chu. I got yo back for anything and if I didn't have no feelins for you I wouldn't deal wit chu period. But I done got ****ed ova by some females and I can't deal with a relationship rite now cuz dat **** juss aint workin you know what I'm sayin? 100 percent"

Which was ok whatever because we were never in a relationship to begin with and I wasn't asking him about one when I was asking wassup. For some reason hearing that he didn't want one freaked me out so I told him "Baby I love you I would never hurt you or **** you over"

He went back to ignoring my texts.

I don't understand what's going on here Do you guys really think he's over me or something and I should just let him go?

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

I did ask him.

His response was "Yo lil mama you know what I'm sayin I'mma keep it real wit chu. I got yo back for anything and if I didn't have no feelins for you I wouldn't deal wit chu period. But I done got ****ed ova by some females and I can't deal with a relationship rite now cuz dat **** juss aint workin you know what I'm sayin? 100 percent"

Which was ok whatever because we were never in a relationship to begin with and I wasn't asking him about one when I was asking wassup. For some reason hearing that he didn't want one freaked me out so I told him "Baby I love you I would never hurt you or **** you over"

He went back to ignoring my texts.

I don't understand what's going on here Do you guys really think he's over me or something and I should just let him go?

lol he's so gangsta, does he really talk like that?

Anyway he basically said "leave me alone for a bit" and you then told him exactly what he didn't want to hear, ie you love him.

No doubt he'll contact you again next time he wants sex. It's up to you what you do then. People will tell you not to, but that's much easier said than done.

[painman81]

Wow I went through your history and you are actually female.









and stupid.



Seriously, think about why you would act that way?

[ImFromDuval]

For the LOVE OF GOD PEOPLE

He has found some more interesting right now. END OF STORY

[momo5]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

I'm so sprung up on this dude.

See for like 2 years we been all lovey dovey and have sex. We used to be inlove, but we never made if official. So he leaves and goes on summy vacation then he comes back 2 weeks ago and he's all "Bby I miss you I wanna see you I can't wait to taste your pussy again mmmm" So I'm like Ok cool.

We meet up and he's distant. We sit on my bed and talk and he starts all feeling me up. I tell him I'm not in the mood right now for oral or sex and he says "But I'm so hard please please. I miss your pussy I need it."

So I say ok and let him stick it in me and 30 seconds later he cums and acts even more distant. He always comes very quick like always under 1 minute and for 2 years I've never said anything. Sometimes I tell him the sex is very good. I just like him.

Now since the last time he barely returns my texts and he just acts so different compared to how things have been. What did I do wrong?

I'm starting to think maybe my ass just isn't big enough so it's no longer holding his attention. I overheard a phone conversation of his and he was telling his friend to call this girl and get with her because she has a big ol booty. Mine isn't ghetto or anything.

Do you guys honestly think that this could be part of the problem?

[Sixtoo]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore

lol he's so gangsta, does he really talk like that?

Anyway he basically said "leave me alone for a bit" and you then told him exactly what he didn't want to hear, ie you love him.

No doubt he'll contact you again next time he wants sex. It's up to you what you do then. People will tell you not to, but that's much easier said than done.

Yeah he talks like that. I mean he's a wigger and all but he's the truest thug I've ever had in my life. I think that's whats so attractive about him.

You're probably right though. I'll stop texting him, I'll try to not even give into him but dang if he calls me again and is like "Baby I miss you lemme come stay wit chu n be yo n*gga" I'm going to give in and say yes. And then we're going to cuddle every night and have passionate 30 second sex. But in my heart all will feel right.

God whats wrong with me?!

He does this some times when his mama or his sister kick him out of their house. Or that one time his baby's mama had her friends jump him and steal all of his money and left him stranded and bleeding in the ghetto. Other times he comes over and stays because he wants to spend time with me.

Originally Posted by DJ-DuvalFLA

For the LOVE OF GOD PEOPLE

He has found some more interesting right now. END OF STORY

See no matter what though I'm better than she is. I know it and I wanna prove it. I want him to know he shouldn't **** around with anyone but me right now.

But I'm not even sure if that's the case though because he said "Baby giirl it has nuttin to do wit chu. You good, I'm juss ****ed up rite now n tired of deez bitchez"

[momo5]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

Yeah he talks like that. I mean he's a wigger and all but he's the truest thug I've ever had in my life. I think that's whats so attractive about him.

You're probably right though. I'll stop texting him, I'll try to not even give into him but dang if he calls me again and is like "Baby I miss you lemme come stay wit chu n be yo n*gga" I'm going to give in and say yes. And then we're going to cuddle every night and have passionate 30 second sex. But in my heart all will feel right.

God whats wrong with me?!

He does this some times when his mama or his sister kick him out of their house. Or that one time his baby's mama had her friends jump him and steal all of his money and left him stranded and bleeding in the ghetto. Other times he comes over and stays because he wants to spend time with me.



See no matter what though I'm better than she is. I know it and I wanna prove it. I want him to know he shouldn't **** around with anyone but me right now.

But I'm not even sure if that's the case though because he said "Baby giirl it has nuttin to do wit chu. You good, I'm juss ****ed up rite now n tired of deez bitchez"

well if your serious let him do anal sex on you. he might come back.

[Sixtoo]

Originally Posted by momo5

well if your serious let him do anal sex on you. he might come back.

I asked him if he wanted to do me like that a few days ago even though I've never done it before and he said no he hates anal sex because he did one girl up the butt once and when he pulled it his dick and the whole room reeked of ****.

I then asked him if he wants me to suck his dick cause I never do and he said Ok. I told him I'd even swallow his cum if he wanted and and let him play with my boobs and he said "That sounds so good baby. We can do that"

I texted him after that and asked him when he was going to let me do it for him. He ignored my text.

I mean I've tried all I can to prove to him I'm a good chick and can get down better than the ghetto girls. I hope to start doing more squats soon like even ass to grass style so I can work on making my butt bigger for him.

[momo5]

Originally Posted by Sixtoo

I asked him if he wanted to do me like that a few days ago even though I've never done it before and he said no he hates anal sex because he did one girl up the butt once and when he pulled it his dick and the whole room reeked of ****.

I then asked him if he wants me to suck his dick cause I never do and he said Ok. I told him I'd even swallow his cum if he wanted and and let him play with my boobs and he said "That sounds so good baby. We can do that"

I texted him after that and asked him when he was going to let me do it for him. He ignored my text.

I mean I've tried all I can to prove to him I'm a good chick and can get down better than the ghetto girls. I hope to start doing more squats soon like even ass to grass style so I can work on making my butt bigger for him.

what you look like o.o

[janky]

Originally Posted by BigE83605

ur a FWB/booty call. u dont mean anything more to him.

This, but I can't tell if this is serious or not...
On one hand a troll wouldn't have 11k+ reps.
On the other, and intelligent person wouldn't be this naive..
I'm so torn..


You don't mean anything to him. Seriously. That's the deal.
And you're obsessed with a minute man.
lol

Need more advice?

[justanothagirl]

dont offer sex acts in order to get him back man..... where is your sense of class?

and why do u like a guy who talks like that? that's so low class.

[respect2]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore

I agree that something happened while he was away.

Maybe he thinks its time you chased him instead, so he's withdrawing affection to make you wonder why, to drive you crazy and to make you put the effort in, rather than him chasing you all the time. We know guys do this, as I've read about it on here.

Did you actually ask him outright what's up? It's pointless trying to work out what the other gender is thinking, because we can't, as what makes sense to each sex makes none to the other.

this.

[Sixtoo]

Originally Posted by janky

This, but I can't tell if this is serious or not...
On one hand a troll wouldn't have 11k+ reps.
On the other, and intelligent person wouldn't be this naive..
I'm so torn..


You don't mean anything to him. Seriously. That's the deal.
And you're obsessed with a minute man.
lol

Need more advice?

But why did I mean something to him for 2 years and not now? Just when I start to get these serious feelings for him he acts like this. That's what's making me crazy now!

And true he's the worst sex I've ever had, but I like it and keep doing it with him because I like him you know? I like to see the warm and accomplished "feel good" look on his face after he's orgasmed and how much better his spirits are after. It makes me happy to see him so happy. We cuddle and kiss so much afterwards too. He typically will get me off before or after and I always come very hard.

Originally Posted by justanothagirl

dont offer sex acts in order to get him back man..... where is your sense of class?

and why do u like a guy who talks like that? that's so low class.

He's nice usually. Maybe I'm just a fool in love.