So I posted this on MISC and was redirected by a kind soul to go here.. all the men were rude and telling me to put up nudes but anyways...
My man and I met in the senior year of high school. We are high school sweethearts, we get along great and have dated ever since. I have been 100% faithful to him and I believe he has been faithful to me. However, since we met young and have dated for over five years my only concern is he may not feel he has been "around the block" to full commit and settle down with me (aka marriage/family). Note: we don't live together.
Is believing that he will remain faithful and monogamous reality?
Keep things fresh and keep these thoughts out of your head. Even if you're just thinking it and not acting on it, it'll bring bad energy into your relationship.
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Keep his belly full and his balls empty. (serious)
It is a reality and can easily happen. If I could have that I would, I hate not having a GF, but **** it, I got better things to do in my life right now.
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Really, keep your man satisfied. Often times I see too many couples enter that comfort zone extremeties. We/they become too close where the fun leaves and the routine begins. Obviously you guys have been together along time so I'm sure you have set up a good routine and communication. But really, you should be fine. To be quite honest I nearly cheated on my last girlfriend due to her gaining weight and a lot of standstill arguments. Talk things out and keep him satisfied and you'll do great. You're a good looking woman as it is so you shouldn't have any qualms with keeping him happy.
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All I want to do before I die is party hard and get layed all the damn time. Can I get an amen?" - Dr. Phil
How to be the perfect girlfriend. Janky summarized this quite aptly -- stomach full, balls empty.
That said, this relationship simply might not last due to a million reasons. Even if you two *are* right for each other, maintaining a relationship from high school through to a successful marriage is incredibly difficult because of the amount of personal growth most people go through between 18 and 25. In 3 years, I've become a completely different person, and 4 more I can imagine the change will be even more dramatic. The idea of being with the same girl I (thought I) loved when I was 18 is absolutely ludicrous now.
However, I've seen it done and hey -- maybe you guys can do it too...but there's a reason that relationships like that are 1 in a million.
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He probably will want to have sex with other women, but don't ask him about it. If he loves you and has a head on his shoulders then you don't have to worry about him leaving.
I just broke up with my gf of 2.5 years 2 weeks ago.
She was perfect, and I have no complaints about her. She was the girl you marry and stay happy with
I broke it off. She has already had her share of fun, I have never on the other hand. I feel she is the one but I also want to see what else is out there.
I was never the kind of guy to want to go porking random girls, but now I have this violent urge to do it. I haven't yet, because I still feel like ****, but I know how you feel.
Don't be worried, keep him happy and everything should be okay
you cannot predict the future, so do what you can with what is given to you, and things will unfold as they should.
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The very fact that your alive should be enough motivation for you to accomplish you can dream of.
I just broke up with my gf of 2.5 years 2 weeks ago.
She was perfect, and I have no complaints about her. She was the girl you marry and stay happy with
I broke it off. She has already had her share of fun, I have never on the other hand. I feel she is the one but I also want to see what else is out there.
I was never the kind of guy to want to go porking random girls, but now I have this violent urge to do it. I haven't yet, because I still feel like ****, but I know how you feel.
Don't be worried, keep him happy and everything should be okay
you cannot predict the future, so do what you can with what is given to you, and things will unfold as they should.
example of idiot if he is telling the truth about his female.
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"If you compare yourself to regular people you are comparing yourself to mediocrity and failure for starters, so don't man." - DieBig
how?
I agree with everything you have said, maybe what I wrote came out wrong.
If you in fact did/do ditch a girl that was marriage worthy you have just dug yourself a hole so deep you wont be out of it for YEARS UPON YEARS. You just made your life that much harder.
Random play isn't as easy to come by as most people believe it to be. I broke it off with my girl when I hit college thinking what you are. Lo and behold I am already tired of this **** and I wish I never broke it off with her.
GL.
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"If you compare yourself to regular people you are comparing yourself to mediocrity and failure for starters, so don't man." - DieBig
If you in fact did/do ditch a girl that was marriage worthy you have just dug yourself a hole so deep you wont be out of it for YEARS UPON YEARS. You just made your life that much harder.
Random play isn't as easy to come by as most people believe it to be. I broke it off with my girl when I hit college thinking what you are. Lo and behold I am already tired of this **** and I wish I never broke it off with her.
GL.
I have a feeling that is exactly what will happen to me. But for some reason I was not 100% satisfied, and I strongly felt I needed it. Whatever happens happens. I am not the type to look for random ass, but even if I find or date another girl just to see what else is out there, I guess I will feel like I tested all my options.
I feel good but **** at the same time. Maybe one day I will get back with her, maybe one day you will get back with yours.
only time will tell
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andrew \m/
The very fact that your alive should be enough motivation for you to accomplish you can dream of.
I have a feeling that is exactly what will happen to me. But for some reason I was not 100% satisfied, and I strongly felt I needed it. Whatever happens happens. I am not the type to look for random ass, but even if I find or date another girl just to see what else is out there, I guess I will feel like I tested all my options.
I feel good but **** at the same time. Maybe one day I will get back with her, maybe one day you will get back with yours.
only time will tell
Lol if you weren't 100% satisfied you should have never had marriage as a thought.
Enough of this hijack from OP. Make your own thread and talk more.
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"If you compare yourself to regular people you are comparing yourself to mediocrity and failure for starters, so don't man." - DieBig
To keep your man monogamous you need to keep him sexually satisfied.
Women wonder why their guy cheats on him then forget they havent slept with him for weeks.
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Originally Posted by Suit
Keep his belly full and his balls empty. (serious)
It is a reality and can easily happen. If I could have that I would, I hate not having a GF, but **** it, I got better things to do in my life right now.
These men speak the truth, OP. "Stomach full, balls empty" is the woman's cardinal rule for keeping a healthy relationship with her man. Say it out loud over and over again.
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"It seems we've created a flaw in the process of natural selection. The less intelligent have sex without protection at a young age and have a kid, whereas those of average and above intelligence realise unprotected sex = babies = ruined life and take steps to avoid such consequences. So the stupid people breed and the normal people don't, the end result being humanity as a whole is inevitably getting dumber."
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So I posted this on MISC and was redirected by a kind soul to go here.. all the men were rude and telling me to put up nudes but anyways...
My man and I met in the senior year of high school. We are high school sweethearts, we get along great and have dated ever since. I have been 100% faithful to him and I believe he has been faithful to me. However, since we met young and have dated for over five years my only concern is he may not feel he has been "around the block" to full commit and settle down with me (aka marriage/family). Note: we don't live together.
Is believing that he will remain faithful and monogamous reality?
I've put my heart and soul into this man.
Thanks for your opinion
reasons me cheat.
1) dissatisfied in current relationship
2) opportunity too good to pass up
3) lack of sex in current relationship
4) current gf busting his balls continously over nothing
5) coz he can
Biologically, it is not normal for a man to be monogamous. The proof is that reproduction for a female takes 40 weeks while a man can reproduce with a woman about every 4 minutes) As with any species, a male's objective is to ensure that his genes are passed to the next generation. Monogamy is a learned behavior over several generations of modern society where marriage has become the epitome of relationships.
This being said, monogomay is a product of the society in which we live. A man's ability to provide physical, emotional, financial and other support for a one woman while maintaining his sanity requires ever fiber of his body to do effectively...and there are few that have truely mastered it. The responsibilities of simply maintaining one's own lifestyle is stress enough. The idea of a single spouse was spawned from the idea that a prolonged relationship with an individual would aid in the emotional strain of modern life.
Attempting to maintain a relationship with multiple partners creates a paradox in the emotional mind. A man will usually pursue women who are alike or completely opposiate. if they are alike, the brain will constantly ask "why not condense these qualities into one woman" whereas if they are different, the brain will wonder which of the women represents the qualities the mane truely desires in a mate.
For the men.. is monogamy reality?
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