Sometimes I check out dating advice sites to read and learn about dating, and there seems to be two conflicting statements.
One statement goes like this, "Beautiful women are approached by many men daily. Over a period of 30 days, they are approached [a lot] of times."
Then other statements go like this, "Beautiful women, especially perfect 10s, don't get approached as often as you think. Most men are intimidated by most women and they don't make the approach."
So what is it? Maybe both statements are referring to different types of women, maybe in different parts of their life?
06-12-2009, 12:23 PM #1
Do beautiful women get approached a lot or no?
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one of my good friends who is seriously gorgeous (def a 10) gets approached a bunch..but she's cool as hell and not intimidating
*edited for ridiculousness ;D. but also, from what i've noticed hanging out w/friends & general people watching..it depends on if the girl is approachable. even i can tell if they're giving off a "keep way" vibe. one of my guy friends told me he never approaches anyone (hot girls included) unless they show some interest, usually by smiling...so i can see how a gorgeous girl who is a stone cold bitch never gets approached. :/
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06-12-2009, 03:10 PM #13
Average to below average chumps approach 10s since they have nothing to lose. Above average dudes with some confidence still don't think they'll measure up and would have some insecurities getting rejected by 10s so they are less likely to approach 10s...and feel more confident going up to a bunch of 7s and 8s and if those girls reject him, he'll think no sweat I was better than them anyway. So yes 10s do get approached but are turned off by the chumps unless she is drunk/desperate at the time.
If anything approach 10s. Your chances are low but it can still catch her when she is drunk and or lonely. that being said, true 10s don't exist.5000iu vit D3, 2g vit C, 2g lysine, multi fish oil. pre: beetroot, 2g carnitine
06-12-2009, 03:16 PM #14
I don't know. I don't think anyone is a 10. Its all personal preference. I don't approach girls that are quite good looking that want the attention because I hate to be just another guy boosting their ego and I know that I'm really not into that type of girl that's up their own ass.
If I see a girl that's my type then I would go up to them. I think all women get approached lots.
If they don't get approached much by the average guy then they still will be the really cocky people who think they will just try it on anyway.
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I bet a lot of really attractive but shy women do not...since people generally think they are a bitch.
A lot of attractive but outgoing women get approached more.
I doubt, overall though, that beautiful women do not, since many people may think they are out of their league.guys i not afriad 2 show my boobs cuz they r just boobs but i aint a slut yall so sorry i aint showing cuz i have respect for my self
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They do, at least in New York. My cousin (sorry no pixs guys cuz I don't have any) is a 5'11 girl who gets approached all the time. Was model material, asked to pose for some mag. Can't remember if she took it the offer or not. Anyway, it's mostly the jerks or creepy guys that approach her and very very few decent guys if any.
She obviously did not like it. She doesn'tcome off as those stuck up types which is probably why they dare to approach but even then very rarely do nice guys approach her. Eventually ended up marrying some guy she worked with. Looks wise, she can do SO much better he looks like a troll.
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06-12-2009, 09:41 PM #23
Hot women get approached a lot more than ugly guys do, that is for sure. But I highly doubt they get approached a ton. Maybe by a hot guy every other day or so. I go with the theory that most ugly guys are afraid to ask them out. If they say they get hit on too much, I call BS.
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Of course they get hit on a lot. Most of the people writing those Internet articels are, or were at some point, shy men, who were too scared to approach attractive women. So they project their own actions onto others. But there are loads of guys out tehre who are not afraid to approach women, so who are they going to approach? The hot ones.
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hey man if i saw a good looking girl on the street fk that id approach lol.
what could u possibly have to lose. (cept for some dignity) lol"bustin my ass for the perfect body"
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