Simple question (serious)

FSUFan4 · 06-09-2009, 05:59 PM

Been thinking about this a bit lately.

Had a girlfriend. Treated her like gold. Didn't get much out of the relationship, she dumped me.

Within 1.5 months, I am banging a chick on a consistent basis whom I blew off for 1.5 months. She seems okay with this, often hints that she wants more but I dance around the question and don't give a straight answer.

I've done this several times in the past with girls and they stick around for a long time. When I am MYSELF (when I'm actually nice to them) it gets me nowhere.

My question is, if I just act like I could care less about ALL girls, will I eventually find one I would want to marry? I would like to settle down and get married eventually. I don't particularly enjoy the situation I'm in now. It has its perks but I would like more eventuallly.

Xo_blondie · 06-09-2009, 06:01 PM

Yea, but you'll lose many who won't put up with your ****. So when you really like a girl, cut the crap before you lose her

StoneCold2431 · 06-09-2009, 06:05 PM

damn brah your 25 and ur still figuring this out? well anyways after you bang chicks consecutivley for a couple years, you start to want more then just a "f buddy". Such as companionship and you think about settleing down. Just saying brah

JPA1384 · 06-09-2009, 06:05 PM

well just be yourself and find a girl that likes YOU.....simple.

Spaghettii · 06-09-2009, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by JPA1384

well just be yourself and find a girl that likes YOU.....simple.

yeah! seems sound...just wait until you're 31 to use this advice when the women are tired of alpha men

FSUFan4 · 06-09-2009, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Xo_blondie

Yea, but you'll lose many who won't put up with your ****. So when you really like a girl, cut the crap before you lose her

So you are admitting that girls are more attracted when you blow them off...but I need to know when to stop blowing them off and act interested?

Al_Pal · 06-09-2009, 07:36 PM

when looking for a REAL relationship, my advice will always be to be yourself, no matter what being yourself entails.

sure you might not get as many ladies or whatever, but when one does fall for you, she will be doing exactly that...falling for YOU, and not some act.

be yourself homie. live by the motto "if someone dont like me then there is something wrong with them"

Ex-Terminator · 06-09-2009, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Xo_blondie

Yea, but you'll lose many who won't put up with your ****. So when you really like a girl, cut the crap before you lose her

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

Spoken like a typical woman.

She's right, OP. The way to win a girl is to treat her like a queen, kiss her ass, buy her flowers, and sweep her away to your magic castle where you'll both live happily ever after.

</sarcasm>

(I'll write more later. It's hard to laugh and puke at the same time)

strong_penor · 06-09-2009, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Al_Pal

when looking for a REAL relationship, my advice will always be to be yourself, no matter what being yourself entails.

sure you might not get as many ladies or whatever, but when one does fall for you, she will be doing exactly that...falling for YOU, and not some act.

be yourself homie. live by the motto "if someone dont like me then there is something wrong with them"

This.

Don't ever get into a relationship with a girl who hasn't completely fallen for you. There are girls out there who will fall for you, not because of some persona you are putting together. Girls that have truly fallen for you have blinders on. They won't cheeat on you. They won't break up with you, regardless of the stereotypes the misc advocates.

Find a girl like this. Treat her like you would a lady when out with friends, a friend when together chilling, and like a whore in bed. You are then set.