So out of the blue a few hours ago my ex g/fs best friend texts me.
Here's how the txt messaging went:
Her: Hey this is sunny. Shelby wants to know if you still have that ring.
Me: Why
Her: She wants it back.
Me: Why?
Her: Its hers i guess she wants it back
Me: I bought it so its mine
Her: She really wants it back. And its a gift to her so its hers. SHe picked it out and it only fits her finger.
Her: Well btw Shelby and i are together.
Me: What does that mean
Her: She gave up on guys after you?
Me: lol i dont play games
Her: Im serious. Were movin in together.
Me: w/e
Her: Anyways i think you should give her back the ring
Me: lol thats your girl now..you can buy her a ring
Her: I did but she wants that one.
Me: Why would she want something that reminds her of me when thats your chick now
Her: Cause it doesn't remind her of you its pretty and was a gift to her
Her again: Nevermind obviously your not over it
That is word for word copied from my phone. I dated her friend for a year, haven't spoken to her in 5 or so months. Thought everything was over and done, now I get this.
Misc, I'm so f***ing stressed right now. I can't explain to you how crazy the relationship was and how bad this makes me feel. I want NOTHING to do with either of them, which is why i have chosen to stop texting after finding out their intentions. I also don't believe they are going out now. That sounds stupid.
Btw: I still do have the promise ring in my drawer. It cost me $270 and I bought it for her for our 6 months, so a LONG time ago. She's not getting it back. And before anyone asks, i only gave it to her b/c she kept bugging me for it. I was beta. Now I'm not in the mood for games or any of this.
Cliffs:
-Get text from ex g/fs friend
-Ex wants promise ring I gave her for 6 month back
-I say no
-Friend keeps texting
-I'm not going to txt anything back
What do you guys think I should do? I'm seriously stressed. I want NOTHING to do with them. Thankfully I'm moving out of this house in a few months to go to another college.
Btw: this chick whos texting me is even crazier than my INSANE ex. I have had threats dealing with my tires being slashed, me being jumped, having charges pressed on me for assault and battery(thank god that never happened it was a huge lie anyways) and a bunch of other ****. I know it's long.
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06-02-2009, 06:37 PM #1
Ex Wants Promise Ring Back(very serious)
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06-02-2009, 06:40 PM #9
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Don't give it back... it's a promise ring.. obviously the promise to stay together was broken. Im getting back the "promise" ring I gave my ex. When the topic came up with my ex she said, "alot of my friends said it would be a slap in the face to give the ring back". Yeah right she's just mad cause my ring is stylin on her and will be at the pawn shop shortly.
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06-02-2009, 06:44 PM #21
Guys, I'm just scared she's going to do something to my new car. Or the tires. I've already had a threat before. I just want her and her friends to leave me alone. She lives like 3 mins away. She also works 2 mins away from where I do and used to just come over during breaks. People I know see her occassionally and just avoid her b/c they know she's crazy and respect me more.
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06-02-2009, 06:46 PM #26
^this, they're screwing with your head, and it seems to be working since you said you are getting stressed out about this.
Just move on and don't talk to her or any of her friends. And you better not even think about giving her that ring, she's just trying to score it off you so she can pawn it off and get money out of you. Don't be stupid and play their games
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06-02-2009, 06:46 PM #27
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06-02-2009, 06:46 PM #28
So if she tried to sue or something to get it, I'd win????
Sorry, I'm so confused and messed up right now I can't think straight. (serious)
I feel like this can't be happening.
This chick put me in the worst depression of my life and I feel like it's all coming back and it's killing me. I want it over!!!!!
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