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05-25-2009, 05:24 PM #91
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05-25-2009, 05:25 PM #92
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05-25-2009, 05:25 PM #93
No. I turned down med school my senior year of college in favor of a grad program I was into at the time. It didn't work out-it wasn't what I wanted, so I left. You'd have stayed. Everyone would have lauded your success at a funded program, and you'd have stayed warmly mediocre. Fulfilled with the false nothings of outside noise patting you on the back, while inside hating your day to day.
Like most people.
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05-25-2009, 05:26 PM #94
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05-25-2009, 05:28 PM #95
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05-25-2009, 05:28 PM #96
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05-25-2009, 05:29 PM #97
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05-25-2009, 05:31 PM #98
Im just busting your balls. I dont know you and therefore I cant judge you. Do whatever you want as long as your happy then thats all that really matters. Just dont go on welfare, like the rest of the united state's **** ups and rely on hard working people's money to support you. (im not talking about legit people that lost their job etc.)
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05-25-2009, 05:32 PM #99
i dont understand the fact that you turned down medical school to travel while you're damn near broke?
get real dude. my cousins are in santa barbara and they dont have jack ****. they hate their jobs, they hate their apartment (which isnt **** to begin with) they thought they'd have it all. it doesnt work out the way it does in your fantasy.
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05-25-2009, 05:33 PM #100
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05-25-2009, 05:33 PM #101
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05-25-2009, 05:34 PM #102
You never know. It's more complicated than that. I don't come from uber wealth, but I've certainly stayed in a mcmansion for an extended period of time. I also lived on a fishing pier for 2 solid months on the east coast. Showered in the water and the pier bathrooms, once and a while at a local dudes apartment. Ate mostly..guess...fish.
It was absolutely incredible.
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05-25-2009, 05:35 PM #103
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05-25-2009, 05:36 PM #104
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05-25-2009, 05:37 PM #105
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05-25-2009, 05:37 PM #106
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05-25-2009, 05:39 PM #107
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05-25-2009, 05:43 PM #108
That's pretty cool. You can't say those experiences haven't shaped who you are today? This is exactly what I advocate, getting out there, doing the things that people say tou can't. I'm in the early stages of planning a trip for the winter: London to Bangkok, overland, with as little paid-for transportation as possible. I'm gonna get right in the thick of it in the Middle East and come out shining. Don't ask me what the end plan is, because I don't know. All I know is that things will be different then than they are now.
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05-25-2009, 05:47 PM #109
I guess when I do think about it, traveling isn't that bad... but i'd suggest you have an end goal or at least have a goal in what you want to achieve. Every summer I wanted to reach a destination.
Don't just be another backpacker. Actually see ****. Europe in the early 2000's was greeeeeat. If you wanna do this kinda ****, make sure you have good stories. Once I watched Russian soldiers (who had to protect us as we trekked through Chechen territory during a war... gg cousin) shoot clumps of dirt out of each others hands with rifles after getting PISS drunk on massive amounts of vodka. You can't make that **** up.
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05-25-2009, 05:49 PM #110
Here is your first mistake, posting on a message board. Why are you taking advice from people you don't know, younger than you and to be honest people who just don't give a flyin fcuk what you do with your life. If you want to make the move then do it. If it doesn't work out then make another move until you are satisfy with your situation.
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05-25-2009, 05:51 PM #111
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OP, not exactly they way I would have gone about it, but I like your thinking.
In the same vein as Chris Mccandless:
"So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are accustomed to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which is conditioned to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit than a man with a secure future. The very basic core of a man's living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun."
(Side note: for those who haven't, I highly suggest reading and watching Into the Wild. Both are brilliant)
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05-25-2009, 05:51 PM #112
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05-25-2009, 05:52 PM #113
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05-25-2009, 05:55 PM #116
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True. But I think there is some truth to his statement, whether you'd like to admit it or not.
I agreed with one of your earlier points though: the important distinction between actually living and just going through your days is a desire to accomplish something. Some people just go about it differently.
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05-25-2009, 05:56 PM #117
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05-25-2009, 05:57 PM #118
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05-25-2009, 06:00 PM #120
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