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    No strings attached sex - does it really work?

    I've just started a no strings attached sexual relationship.

    My question is, is this a bad idea? Do people tend to get attached to the other person, meaning it ends badly?

    I'm wanting to here from people who have had experience with this sort of thing.
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    In my experiences, it doesn't work in the end. Even without LOVE, people have emotions. When you try to approach a relationship mechanically, its not going to work. Feelings get hurt when someone blows off plans for a "real" date, or when someone acts a little too cold over not wanting to spend the night, etc.

    Of course, the reality is that living in the NOW is the point of a relationship like that. If you have a FWB for 4 months and it bombs in the end, did it not serve its purpose for 4 months? Its not supposed to be permanent.
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    No.. at least not for me. Of course I'm good with hitting it and then leaving and talking to some one else but no matter what it seems like I feel a little jealous if I hear or see the girl talking to some one else. I'm not sure how dudes can control that. If no strings attached meant we'll hook up but we're not gonna act like we're together, but we'll still only hook up with each other then that is definitely possible. But if it means we can hook up but we can't catch feelings cuz we're both allowed to hook up with other people.. not possible.
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    someone catches feelings....

    my last relationship started out FWB, and i was all for it, i was actually skeptical about getting with her. But she treated me awesome, she caught feelings too but shes got a lot on her plate right now. She ended it, it lasted about 10 months and we never fought, we spent pretty much all our free time together....it was clearly more than FWB for both of us. She's admittedly scared of commitment, i think she may be scared we were getting too close.....who knows, but she broke it off w/ me....we kept hanging out all the time and sleeping together, then she went back home for a month and came back and cut me off completely, still wants to be friends but going through a no contact period now

    its honestly been hard as **** for me, i caught feelings hard and even harder when she dumped me. I've tried talking w/ other girls, in person, off the net, etc...and i keep comparing them to her, i keep wanting her back...it sucks horribly at the moment.

    I just wasn't ready for it to be over, i think eventually someone will get attached, i think its inevitable.


    Only way i can see it MAYBE working is if u were hooking up with someone u weren't really that attracted to and u literally just banged her and left....i mean no dinners, no sitting around watching tv, no hanging out, no getting to know each other really....if it was literally just sex then MAYBE it could work for a long time without catching feelings but i don't know how many people would put up with that.
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    One person usually gets attached while the other is left in the cold.

    Do it though. Get some ass, ya might as well, even if it will cause some drama in the end.
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    ive just started me one up with someone im not really attracted to, so im not gonna get attached. Sadly, i know she is but ive explained a 100 times already that its sex only, so im gonna get it and go. No hanging out nothing. In the end its gonna be terrible id say for her, but i really dont care anymore tbh.

    So no, i dont think it can actually exist for both people. But for one it can, and in this situation that one is me. i have been on the other end, so i can see how its gonna happen.
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    Originally Posted by Destructodave View Post
    ive just started me one up with someone im not really attracted to, so im not gonna get attached. Sadly, i know she is but ive explained a 100 times already that its sex only, so im gonna get it and go. No hanging out nothing. In the end its gonna be terrible id say for her, but i really dont care anymore tbh.

    So no, i dont think it can actually exist for both people. But for one it can, and in this situation that one is me. i have been on the other end, so i can see how its gonna happen.
    The more you tell her it is sex only, than the more she is going to try to make it more than just sex. She is going to try to keep proving she is worth more than just a fuuck.

    Good luck bro.
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    Originally Posted by Vagoda View Post
    The more you tell her it is sex only, than the more she is going to try to make it more than just sex. She is going to try to keep proving she is worth more than just a fuuck.

    Good luck bro.
    Its all that damn No fapping thread ****'s fault. I figured i would try it out just to see what happens because i like to experiment. Day 14 now, and im ready to do just about anything ya know? so im not even close to attracted to her in a normal state of mind. But right now she will do. As long as she doesnt screw with my life in general i can stand to hurt someone's feelings for once. Being a nice guy isnt cutting it anymore. She will never come to my house or know where i live. I just worry she will msg someone on myspace that i know if i piss her off is my only worry.

    Someone that i am actually attracted to that is.
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    Originally Posted by Vagoda View Post
    One person usually gets attached while the other is left in the cold.

    Do it though. Get some ass, ya might as well, even if it will cause some drama in the end.
    this. just make sure ur not the one that gets attached
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    Thanks for the replies - they've been insightful.
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    depends on the people man. i had a girl i ****ed off and on for years(no e-brag).....never hung out, didnt even know her name. she came up to me at a party one time and asked for my number and told me she was going to **** the **** outta me(no e-lie). 20secs and left.
    next day she called me, we meet a taco bell. we start making out within 5mins.........then go back in the woods with my truck and ****.

    ya, off and on for years. dont know anything about her..............only hung out once when it was snowing as friends.
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    unless they are chicks from the club or bar then NO. they do not work. I met a girl at a coffee shop and hit it off great. we went into it knowing we were not going to be attached to each other and all that other bullshiit. well needless to say, I had to change my cell number because she became attached to me and had feelings of connection towards me. AHHH!!!! very bad situation. However, i do love going into the place with guys from my squad because they have all seen the video of her and I and they ALWAYS bust out laughing at her. (she has no idea about video)
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