question about the wife

[cardioking]

Ok, so I have a little problem. The wife and I have sex about every other day (3-4 /wk) with no protection. I am inside her for about 3 minutes and she is pretty wet. I am going slow at first and I speed up every couple of minutes. She asks me to hurry up because she is getting sore down there (she says its friction). So, I do and about 2 minutes later I cum. My questions are these...... is 3-4 times a week too much on a constant basis? Could it still be friction even if she is wet? Any ideas to stop this (she hates lube) What else could this be?

[Ejjw18]

Originally Posted by cardioking

Ok, so I have a little problem. The wife and I have sex about every other day (3-4 /wk) with no protection. I am inside her for about 3 minutes and she is pretty wet. I am going slow at first and I speed up every couple of minutes. She asks me to hurry up because she is getting sore down there (she says its friction). So, I do and about 2 minutes later I cum. My questions are these...... is 3-4 times a week too much on a constant basis? Could it still be friction even if she is wet? Any ideas to stop this (she hates lube) What else could this be?

3-4 times is nothing dude. Theres people that have sex mutliple times every day.

[NoobyBuilder]

Originally Posted by cardioking

Ok, so I have a little problem. The wife and I have sex about every other day (3-4 /wk) with no protection. I am inside her for about 3 minutes and she is pretty wet. I am going slow at first and I speed up every couple of minutes. She asks me to hurry up because she is getting sore down there (she says its friction). So, I do and about 2 minutes later I cum. My questions are these...... is 3-4 times a week too much on a constant basis? Could it still be friction even if she is wet? Any ideas to stop this (she hates lube) What else could this be?

3-4 times a week? is nothing-
I hope no one is offended or what so ever by the following


try some forplay to make YOU naturally lubricated with her mouth and vice/versa given the fact shes not into lube.

[cardioking]

Originally Posted by Ejjw18

3-4 times is nothing dude. Theres people that have sex mutliple times every day.

right, that has been our routine for the last 7 years. That is almost 1,278 times having sex. Any ideas what the soreness could be?

[Ejjw18]

Originally Posted by cardioking

right, that has been our routine for the last 7 years. That is almost 1,278 times having sex. Any ideas what the soreness could be?

Please don't take this the wrong way when i say this. Ok this has been the same routine for 7 years and she asks you to hurry up. Maybe she's gettin bored with the sex. Try some different things and ****. I'm not tryin to sound like an ass, but maybe she just needs some more excitement.

[cardioking]

Originally Posted by NoobyBuilder

3-4 times a week? is nothing-
I hope no one is offended or what so ever by the following


try some forplay to make YOU naturally lubricated with her mouth and vice/versa given the fact shes not into lube.

she hates foreplay. Like I said, she is wet already. I don't stick it in dry either. Its wet from getting it hard. IDK, could it be a bacterial thing?

[cardioking]

Originally Posted by Ejjw18

Please don't take this the wrong way when i say this. Ok this has been the same routine for 7 years and she asks you to hurry up. Maybe she's gettin bored with the sex. Try some different things and ****. I'm not tryin to sound like an ass, but maybe she just needs some more excitement.

We watch porn, use toys and have several positions. Also, its not everyday that she gets like that. Maybe once every couple of weeks. Usually after her periods

[redjm]

all i can say is to try do something new. more excitement and different positions.

[aleeboy]

OP,

It may not be you.

I watched a documentary about girls who have permanently sore vag's. Even if they're not sluts. There is a medical condition that gives a small proportion of girls discomfort. Even a micro penis can cause this discomfort.

I'd google is, but I don't want my search queries to show in the office.

Check it out, brah

[DaBurg3r]

I've heard women can do kegels to improve the muscle tone of their vag. and it can some times make sex less painful or just improve the over all quality of the experience.

[Iceman1800]

She needs to talk to her gyno about the dryness, its not normal. It may be hormones or an infection of some sort.

[Hishiad]

WTF...


OP...She isn't into foreplay, and doesn't like lube?!?!


pretty crazy...


As for the soreness you said it normally happens AFTER she comes off her period...Why not just give her a little extra time to get off the period?

[GoutDeMiel]

Originally Posted by cardioking

she hates foreplay. Like I said, she is wet already. I don't stick it in dry either. Its wet from getting it hard. IDK, could it be a bacterial thing?

WAT? Doesn't like foreplay?
no wonder she's sore...

[cardioking]

Yeah, its strange. Thanks guys. Ill rep.

It odd because she has never liked foreplay. I remember talking to her about it when we started dating and she said she just likes getting into sex with no foreplay. Every once in awhile she will let me use a toy on her or something while watching a porn but that is VERY rare. She isn't real sexual but I am so she has sex probably half of the time just for me. IDK, she likes it hard and fast and she always cums way before I do so maybe she just isn't interested after she gets off.

I am also thinking, since she grew up in a house of all women and no dad that she got her idea of sex from them. Her mom hasn't had sex for atleast 8 years, her twin made her husband wait for the entire 9 months that she was pregnant for sex. I made it clear I wouldn't allow any of that.

She usually cums in the first 4 minutes so sex doesn't usually last much longer than 7-10 minutes in our house.

[starting-big]

could possibly thrush or something like that. or a reaction to the tanpons she uses (if she uses them and not pads)

[WizardGlick]

Sounds more like some sort of small infection flaring up during sex. Tell her to try acidopholis pills as it may be yeast. Are you feeling discomfort?

[ImFromDuval]

3-4 times a week maybe a little too much for your wife. Depending on your size(no homo) and other factors. I think me and my GF are starting to have sex too much. We go at it every day(serious) and now for the past 2 weeks its been starting to hurt her. Maybe go get her to go to her gyno doctor to take a look. What kind of pain is she in?

[shitbrickhouse]

Originally Posted by cardioking

Yeah, its strange. Thanks guys. Ill rep.

It odd because she has never liked foreplay. I remember talking to her about it when we started dating and she said she just likes getting into sex with no foreplay. Every once in awhile she will let me use a toy on her or something while watching a porn but that is VERY rare. She isn't real sexual but I am so she has sex probably half of the time just for me. IDK, she likes it hard and fast and she always cums way before I do so maybe she just isn't interested after she gets off.

I am also thinking, since she grew up in a house of all women and no dad that she got her idea of sex from them. Her mom hasn't had sex for atleast 8 years, her twin made her husband wait for the entire 9 months that she was pregnant for sex. I made it clear I wouldn't allow any of that.

She usually cums in the first 4 minutes so sex doesn't usually last much longer than 7-10 minutes in our house.

can you try to finish at the same time as her?

[Al_Pal]

likely its the fact that u are obese.

[dbluevette]

she prolly has a the begining of a yeast infection brah. or she's just making excuses so you'll hurry up and get off of her. She may just be bored of the same ole ****.

[waelkd]

i think she's getting bored,by the way when did she first started telling u she's feeling sore ,like from the very first days of intercourse or just lately?

[cardioking]

Thanks guys.... we found out it was an infection.