Basically girlfriend tells me shes too busy to see me more then once a week.
Her schedule is 8-3 regular school monday-friday,
5-10 Monday-thurs at another school.
I work same amount of hours as her.
She is acting like a "professional" these past couple months. She thinks she is busy 24/7 when she naps all the time sleeps till 2 o clock and leaves the house at 4 on weekends. I ask to hang out and she tells me shell see. Its almost ridiculous everyone I have told just laughs at it. We havent seen each other outside of school in 2 weeks on friday.
We use to hang out every other day, and she used to be alot more into her stuff.
Should i just bail? its been almost a year but honestly this is bull.
Thread: Girlfriend says shes too busy
05-12-2009, 10:37 PM #1
Girlfriend says shes too busy
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If you really like her then you should sit down and talk to her about it. work out a schedule that the both of you are able to keep. If shes not willing to work it out then i think it's time to go your separate ways. It seems like your losing interest when you say "should i just bail." If you lost interest then why should you be with her any longer especially if she has to "fit" you into her schedule. If i asked my girlfriend to hang out with me more then once a week and she said "she'll see" i would not be with her. Don't waste your time with a girlfriend that can't fit you her boyfriend into her schedule
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Sounds like she pretty much only has Friday nights and the weekend to do anything. I'm sure she wants to see her friends at some point as well, and do her shopping or whatever. I can understand why only once a week is possible.
Having said that, seeing each other once a week isn't enough for a relationship, especially when you're 17.
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05-13-2009, 11:15 AM #13
You have to decide whether or not it works for you. If she only has weekends, than it makes sense she is going to do everything she has/wants to do on those days. You can't expect to be included in all her free time.
If I were you than I would let this one go. You're clearly not happy with the situation and it doesn't seem like it is going to change.
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