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05-12-2009, 05:43 PM
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boyfriend...
been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and i think he is cheating on me.
we used to text all the time none stop. and i would see him everyday. now it seems that he's no interested anymore. he's been going out with his friends a lot lately. any ideas on how i can catch him if he is cheating?
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05-12-2009, 05:45 PM
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Maybe he is just going out with friends because he's bored with you.
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05-12-2009, 06:10 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexy_Em
been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and i think he is cheating on me.
we used to text all the time none stop. and i would see him everyday. now it seems that he's no interested anymore. he's been going out with his friends a lot lately. any ideas on how i can catch him if he is cheating?
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Why not ask him what has changed for him in a non-emotional manner. If he then tells you the truth be prepared to deal with it in a non-emotional fashion. Try communication....
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05-12-2009, 06:17 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by skier_
Maybe he is just going out with friends because he's bored with you.
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this
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05-12-2009, 06:19 PM
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call that dude from cheaters. what a great show
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05-12-2009, 06:20 PM
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inquiring minds want to know if youre just going to change your name to _Em, now that he doesnt find you sexy anymore
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05-12-2009, 06:30 PM
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Why do girls always put "Sexy" something in their login names? Names like Sexy_Em, SexyChic, Sexy_Sarah etc.
Guys rarely ever do this.
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05-12-2009, 06:33 PM
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How about instead of handling it like a fucking child and going all investigative reporter on him you start acting like an adult and just ask him whatsup.
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05-12-2009, 06:33 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dave P
How about instead of handling it like a fucking child and going all investigative reporter on him you start acting like an adult and just ask him whatsup.
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05-12-2009, 07:19 PM
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maybe he found someone better.
Maybe you are boring him?
Maybe he doesnt find you attracted to you anymore.
Or, you could just be worring about nothing, and everything is fine.
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05-12-2009, 07:32 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dave P
How about instead of handling it like a fucking child and going all investigative reporter on him you start acting like an adult and just ask him whatsup.
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05-12-2009, 07:37 PM
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5 months? Usually around the 5 month stage I can't get enough of the girl. I say he lost interest in you. Give him his space and see if he comes around. If he doesnt then it was good while it lasted...time to move on.
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05-12-2009, 07:46 PM
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i have asked him and confronted him, and he just tells me don't worry about it.
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05-12-2009, 08:10 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexy_Em
i have asked him and confronted him, and he just tells me don't worry about it.
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ur from Texas, just hook up with me.
I bet you 1grand i could treat you better
girl we grown and If he aint gon treat you right then I aint gon treat wrong and thats my word
and she heard so many lies, she don't know whats true or not. shawty like a bally service, I swear she she been through alot. but I put my car in park and never let her cry alone i listen to her heart-beat because it places my favorite song...
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05-12-2009, 08:11 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexy_Em
i have asked him and confronted him, and he just tells me don't worry about it.
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lol.. that's because he's smashing randoms
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05-12-2009, 08:14 PM
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it's probably you. What are you bringing to the relationship besides your vagina, complaining, and money draining? If you can't think of at least 3 great things that you provide then fuggetaboutit
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05-12-2009, 08:29 PM
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OP... sorry... in life the simplest explanation tends to be the correct one. From your pics you are an attrctive girl with a nice body... and I am assuming he is near your age. Eighteen year old males are pretty much horny 24 hours a day. I loved my friends @ 18... but if I had a hot GF with a nice body... I wasn't consistently turning down getting laid so I could go hang out @ some sausage fest.
He says he is hanging out with "friends" because it's easier than saying "another girl". Personally, I would just break up with him... if there is a part of him that still wants you it will shock him in to getting his act together.
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05-12-2009, 08:32 PM
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OP didn't follow the rules.
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05-12-2009, 08:40 PM
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well i would say i'm pretty independent. i work, i have my own car, go to school.
i never ask him for money, nor do i tell him to buy me things. i only complain, b/c i care and i just want to know what's going on. i'm pretty sure any girl or guy would do that if they were in the same situation.
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05-12-2009, 08:56 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexy_Em
i have asked him and confronted him, and he just tells me don't worry about it.
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"dont worry about it"
thats not a good response. i dont know about him, but if i respond with dont worry about it, it means that i just dont feel like talking about it right now, because i know youre going to get all dramatic and ****, and im not in the mood for big drama at that point in time
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05-12-2009, 10:09 PM
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You guys been slacking in the bedroom, less frequent and ****? If so, hes probably bored.
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05-12-2009, 10:11 PM
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hey you look pretty cute, you can cheat on your bf with me ; )
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05-12-2009, 10:27 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexy_Em
been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and i think he is cheating on me.
we used to text all the time none stop. and i would see him everyday. now it seems that he's no interested anymore. he's been going out with his friends a lot lately. any ideas on how i can catch him if he is cheating?
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Nevermind... here is your problem.... You used to text non-stop and see him EVERYDAY? That would suck... not only does it make your time less meaningful, but that would get boring. Maybe he needs guy space, to talk about cars, and tits, and ****.
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05-12-2009, 10:32 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexy_Em
been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and i think he is cheating on me.
we used to text all the time none stop. and i would see him everyday. now it seems that he's no interested anymore. he's been going out with his friends a lot lately. any ideas on how i can catch him if he is cheating?
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I wouldn't stress too much. Just sounds like the "honeymoon" phase is over.
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05-12-2009, 10:37 PM
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You guys been slacking in the bedroom, less frequent and ****? If so, hes probably bored.
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no. i think our sex life is pretty good.
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05-12-2009, 10:44 PM
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no. i think our sex life is pretty good.
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if you think he's cheating, chances are he is.
A real loyal and honest guy won't give u any reason to suspect
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no. i think our sex life is pretty good.
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Yeah girl they call me Mr. hot hot hot hot,
And everyone seeing you leaving my drop drop drop drop from here.
Girl looking at my rolli it's about that time,
Grab that bottle of wine let's ditch this spot spot spot spot.
I got hella paper, I got more than half.
Now I'm not filthy rich, but I can use a bath.
I gotta wait for the autobots; I got paper like Optimus Prime,
And it just might transform at any time
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The eyes of Texas are upon you,
All the live long day.
The eyes of Texas are upon you,
You cannot get away.
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At night, or early in the morn'.
The eyes of Texas are upon you,
Till Gabriel blows his horn!
"You buy a Ferrari when you want to be somebody..........You buy a Lamborghini when you are somebody." - Frank Sinatra circa 1970
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05-12-2009, 11:00 PM
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I wouldn't cheat on u baby
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05-12-2009, 11:05 PM
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Maybe he is just going out with friends because he's bored with you.
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That.
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05-12-2009, 11:57 PM
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Hey dare Sexy-Em, how are you doing? We should get to know eachother  I'm from Houston
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