ITT : Easiest way to meet females or your money back

Orlando Abs · 05-03-2009, 11:53 AM

Ok, I am 33 and have done enough in my life to know it's a numbers game. Don't waste your time doing something over and over that is costing you cash and giving you poor results. For many guys that can be going to clubs, or reading PUA nonsense, or relying on the web for women.

Here is the easiest way to meet girls. It is called Happy Hour. Now this has been mentioned before, but I have my own twist on it. First off, when I used to think of Happy Hour I would think of cougars with super tan skin and cigarette addictions going to the same bar every evening after work and camping out. This is not what I mean at all.

The first thing you need to do is find the best happy hour in your area. There will be tons. The ones I prefer cater to women. In fact, the best ones do not give men any discounts at all. The ultimate happy hour is one that charges girls a set amount (like 20 dollars) and allows them unlimited wine from something like 5-8pm. This is a jackpot.

Many guys go right after work. You can do this, but if you live close by, it is even better to go home, grab a shower and then show up an hour or so later. Dress how you want, I prefer casual. It doesn't matter, in this time period the girls have been slamming drinks and are partying. If you are the type that likes to stick out a little, your casual clothes will separate you from the guys in ties acting like Wall Street Brokers.

Let me back up quickly and throw out why the happy hour destroys the club. The girls are rarely prepping hard for this. Most go there right after work and are not wearing their bitchsuits (ed hardy dresses...etc) that mentally put them in a different mindset. They are unwinding after work and aren't having a "girl's night" where they all dance in a circle and cock block guys. Many times there are 2-3 in the group that got coerced into going at the last second. Many of these girls are not club rats and you will not meet them at nightclubs because they find that lifestyle lame. You will meet many that are hot and motivated to be successful, unlike the bottle Succubi that "model" or work at a wing shack.

Ok, so here is the final challenge. These events are usually on a weekday (friday happy hours are also amazing obviously), and most of us here lift. So what you need to do is man up and not drink. That is right, I do not drink at these events. I actually consume water the entire time. This is an early night, you will get home easily in time to get sufficient rest for work/school the next AM. You will be clear headed and amazed at how easy it will be to meet girls. They will tip their hands if they are interested due to the drinks they have consumed. Even 1 or 2 will get them there. So do not be afraid to step your game up and try this technique. You will thank me and yourself for trying it.

janky · 05-03-2009, 11:56 AM

Good idea man.

I guess this could be area-dependent though.

onebigc · 05-03-2009, 12:21 PM

OP can you elaborate on dealing with the challenges of going to happy hour with your coworkers or trying to pick up a girl who is with her coworkers?

Edit: One aspect is that it may not be professional or perhaps you wish to maintain a certain image at work or avoid dealing with the kickback of your coworkers knowing about your after hours social successes.

My inexperienced view is that Co-worker = co-ckblock.

Orlando Abs · 05-03-2009, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by onebigc

OP can you elaborate on dealing with the challenges of going to happy hour with your coworkers or trying to pick up a girl who is with her coworkers?

Edit: One aspect is that it may not be professional or perhaps you wish to maintain a certain image at work or avoid dealing with the kickback of your coworkers knowing about your after hours social successes.

My inexperienced view is that Co-worker = co-ckblock.

Best situation is to go with a friend that does not work with you. I have been asked by a girl coworker to go and I still have though. It's all about your game and how run things really.

And yes, this thread is more for miscers who are in more populated areas, but you never know what you can find if you look.

charming_skill2 · 05-03-2009, 01:08 PM

i go to the malls and shopping centers to meet women

the most beautiful women go to the malls, why? because they feel completely safe going there and they dont expect players like me to have the bals to approach them and spit game

but thats what i do, and it works. usualy she is by herself or maybe with 1 or 2 of her friends. regardless, her boyfriend isnt there, and if you spit game well enough you can get her number and her/her friend wont tell her bf (because her friend will try to convince her to be a slut and cheat on her bf, i see it all the time. a womans friends will support her cheating)

make sure you tell both girls (her and her friend) that you wanna have both of them for yourself in a hot tub. but you have to be really good at spitting game like me to have it come off casually

going to the bars and clubs isnt a good way to meet women, because most women wont frequent them often.

but EVERY WOMAN IN THE WORLD goes to malls and shopping centers. so you have every HB9-10 in your area at your fingertips as long as you are a player that knows how to spit game to hotties at the mall

Orlando Abs · 05-03-2009, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by charming_skill2

make sure you tell both girls (her and her friend) that you wanna have both of them for yourself in a hot tub. but you have to be really good at spitting game like me to have it come off casually

going to the bars and clubs isnt a good way to meet women, because most women wont frequent them often.

I hope you know how retarded you sound.

SaviorSix · 05-03-2009, 01:17 PM

Good idea, I have yet to hit up a happy hour (there aren't too many around here) but this would be great....I can imagine it would be especially devastating if you were on a business trip or something like that

charming_skill2 · 05-03-2009, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Orlando Abs

I hope you know how retarded you sound.

what i meant to say was

""going to clubs and bars isn't the BEST way to meet women. because only a small percentage of the HB9-10's in your area will actually be seen in a bar or club in a given month

however i bet almost every HB9-10 in your area will have visited a mall or shopping center during that given month

however i will admit, clubs and bars are a good place to meet women, they just arent the best (they are second besT)

every beautiful women in your area goes to malls. but only some will like bars or clubs (because they know guys will hit on them there)""