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    Girl that used to like me is ignoring me now

    ong story short, you know those IOI lists and the things you read when you google "how to tell if a girl likes you" (you know you've all done it)

    well this girl showed like 90% of those things and i was too much of a ***** to act on it

    now she's ignoring me and i really want to get with her. she doesn't even say hi anymore. she just looks at me and keeps walking. how should i go about this? what should i say? is it possible that she still likes me but got upset that i didn't make a move?

    HELP!
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    move on son
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    Originally Posted by newbodybuilder2 View Post
    move on son
    well it's different because i didn't really used to like her. the more i got to know her i started to like her. this "getting to know each other" phase lasted like 2 months and i acted more like a friend and i think she gave up. is it possible to get her interested again?
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    nope, the more u cling on to her, the more of a bitch you look. use this as a lesson and move on
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    Move on

    Trust me this has happened to me like 10000 times
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    She's just not that into you.
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    Dude you just gotta let it go. Ive done this fail 3 different times. It just doesnt work.
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    basicly she was looking.......now she found a man, and hes taking care of her.
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    you will look like a bitch if you keep pursuing her. dignity is more important than sex
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    Originally Posted by JoeyDaFool View Post
    dignity is more important than sex
    i beg to differ, if he gets the sex he maintains the dignity...

    ima disagree with everyone, and if you are still in to her then either make a move or at least play cool w/ her so you have her in your back pocket in the future if the need arrives.

    no harm
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    Originally Posted by EdgarAllanPoe View Post
    i beg to differ, if he gets the sex he maintains the dignity...

    ima disagree with everyone, and if you are still in to her then either make a move or at least play cool w/ her so you have her in your back pocket in the future if the need arrives.

    no harm
    i agree......what has happened could of been the best thing for her/this. she is ignoring you because she is being taken care of........but that thought is in the back of her mind why "he" didnt respond.

    act like nothing happened, be casual. when the time is right you will know it because she will be flirting again.
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    Originally Posted by HighHurdler View Post
    ong story short, you know those IOI lists and the things you read when you google "how to tell if a girl likes you" (you know you've all done it)

    well this girl showed like 90% of those things and i was too much of a ***** to act on it

    now she's ignoring me and i really want to get with her. she doesn't even say hi anymore. she just looks at me and keeps walking. how should i go about this? what should i say? is it possible that she still likes me but got upset that i didn't make a move?

    HELP!
    You failed man, you fukced it up. If a girl is clearly into you and you make no effort to respond to her, she thinks you're not interested so gives up. Whether she's met another guy or not, she's given up on you, she thinks you're not interested. She's probably really embarrassed and thinks she made a fool of herself chasing a guy who she now thinks didn't like her.
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    I have to agree with Tiffany.

    We females like to be chased, whether we all admit it or not.

    If you're getting signals and you fail to reciprocate...you just fail. Yes, she probably does feel like an idiot for trying to get your attention while you killed her ego.

    Its probably not impossible for you to get her attention again...assuming you actually go ask her out and not continue to draw it out....but she's probably found something else to look at...

    ..or....like everyone else said, someone else has probably taken your spot.

    WHY do you guys wait? Life is short. And girls love attention :-)
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    if u get IOIs and you dont follow up, you look wussy and dont know what to do, she'll think its going to be like all the way, dont think theres anything special to you, you're just in the right place at the right time, the ammount of time they will invest in you holding out is very short, seconds.

    Originally Posted by AboveMasonDixon View Post
    WHY do you guys wait? Life is short. And girls love attention :-)
    cos we want to build something special, for the girl to anticipate for a while and build that special interest in you, then the magic moment finally comes to see if you match up with what we imagine. like a cool car you've been saving up for ages and finally get the wonga to go buy it, only to find it isnt as good as what i expected lol

    why do girls wait so little for the right guy? surely you can work for the attention, just go up to the bloke you like and say hi.
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    Originally Posted by HighHurdler View Post
    ong story short, you know those IOI lists and the things you read when you google "how to tell if a girl likes you" (you know you've all done it)

    well this girl showed like 90% of those things and i was too much of a ***** to act on it

    now she's ignoring me and i really want to get with her. she doesn't even say hi anymore. she just looks at me and keeps walking. how should i go about this? what should i say? is it possible that she still likes me but got upset that i didn't make a move?

    HELP!
    Ask her why she is being rude. Not in those exact words tho.
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    Originally Posted by setndenv View Post

    why do girls wait so little for the right guy? surely you can work for the attention, just go up to the bloke you like and say hi.
    they're shy and don't care anyways since 100 other guys are waiting in line. only agressive, overly sexual women take the initiative
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    Well you can actually talk to her instead of waiting for her to talk to you like a pussy ass ***got.
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    Originally Posted by hellomister1 View Post
    nope, the more u cling on to her, the more of a bitch you look. use this as a lesson and move on
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    Dude you just gotta let it go. Ive done this fail 3 different times. It just doesnt work.
    Originally Posted by JoeyDaFool View Post
    you will look like a bitch if you keep pursuing her. dignity is more important than sex
    i don't know if you guys misunderstood me or if i'm the one misunderstanding you.

    what do you mean by i'll look like a bitch if i keep pursuing her? i never did. she was the one pursuing me, giving me IOIs, basically throwing herself at me. i was being a pussy at the time so i didn't really act on it.

    she was the clingy one, not me

    now i want to pursue her but everytime i try to talk to her she acts like a bitch towards me. what should i say? i'm not gonna wait for a magic answer because i'm definitely going to talk to her tomorrow. i just want suggestions
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    Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore View Post
    You failed man, you fukced it up. If a girl is clearly into you and you make no effort to respond to her, she thinks you're not interested so gives up. Whether she's met another guy or not, she's given up on you, she thinks you're not interested. She's probably really embarrassed and thinks she made a fool of herself chasing a guy who she now thinks didn't like her.
    This. As far as she's concerned you're not interested. You can't get blood out of a stone no matter how hard you squeeze it.
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    Why do you want to pursue her now? Do you miss the attention?

    And what makes you think you'll be able to talk to her now that she doesn't like you, when you couldn't talk to her before when she did like you?
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    Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore View Post
    Why do you want to pursue her now? Do you miss the attention?

    And what makes you think you'll be able to talk to her now that she doesn't like you, when you couldn't talk to her before when she did like you?
    long story short, due to certain events i'm much more confident than i used to be. in your honest opinion, do you think there's a chance to spark her interest in me again if i pursue her? i'll admit i was a shy little bitch before, but like i said i'm much more confident now so i wanna try to get something going between us. you think it's possible that she may still like me a little, but doesn't show it because she's embarrassed because i didn't show interest before?
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    Sure it's possible. But you'll probably have to work hard, and come up with some sort of explanation and a believable apology, whether you think you were wrong or not. She may still like you or she may not. So it's lucky you have your new-found confidence to fall back on if she rejects you. And if she does, use this as a learning experience and remember in future to seize the day when the opportunity arises.
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    I say go for it

    What else do you have to lose? I've been saying this same **** for awhile now, but it is true. Life is just to damn short. What's gonna happen if you don't go for it? You'll always wonder what if and you'll regret it. At worse nothing will happen. You will at least know she was not interested. Trust me I've passed up tons of opportunities in the past and I regret all of them. Now I'll never know what could've happened if I had said something to X girl on the bus or Z girl freshmen year. I think about it constantly. Don't let this happen to you.

    Just go for it and if nothing happens just move on fast. Don't stick around and slowly die being her "friend." You're a man, you have better **** to do then do her favors and listen to her problems while NOT hitting it.
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    Originally Posted by J.O.N View Post
    I say go for it

    What else do you have to lose? I've been saying this same **** for awhile now, but it is true. Life is just to damn short. What's gonna happen if you don't go for it? You'll always wonder what if and you'll regret it. At worse nothing will happen. You will at least know she was not interested. Trust me I've passed up tons of opportunities in the past and I regret all of them. Now I'll never know what could've happened if I had said something to X girl on the bus or Z girl freshmen year. I think about it constantly. Don't let this happen to you.

    Just go for it and if nothing happens just move on fast. Don't stick around and slowly die being her "friend." You're a man, you have better **** to do then do her favors and listen to her problems while NOT hitting it.
    gonna talk to her tomorrow. i'll update
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    Originally Posted by HighHurdler View Post
    gonna talk to her tomorrow. i'll update
    Nothing is ever set in stone man.

    If she was attracted to you she likely still is. Just apologize for whatever reason. Hell even be honest IMO just tell her you were kind of intimidated by her.

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    Originally Posted by SpiderSense View Post
    Nothing is ever set in stone man.

    If she was attracted to you she likely still is. Just apologize for whatever reason. Hell even be honest IMO just tell her you were kind of intimidated by her.

    This.
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    Originally Posted by SpiderSense View Post
    Nothing is ever set in stone man.

    If she was attracted to you she likely still is. Just apologize for whatever reason. Hell even be honest IMO just tell her you were kind of intimidated by her.
    that is some beta advice.... apologies? intimidated by her.

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    Originally Posted by J.O.N View Post
    I say go for it

    What else do you have to lose? I've been saying this same **** for awhile now, but it is true. Life is just to damn short. What's gonna happen if you don't go for it? You'll always wonder what if and you'll regret it. At worse nothing will happen. You will at least know she was not interested. Trust me I've passed up tons of opportunities in the past and I regret all of them. Now I'll never know what could've happened if I had said something to X girl on the bus or Z girl freshmen year. I think about it constantly. Don't let this happen to you.

    Just go for it and if nothing happens just move on fast. Don't stick around and slowly die being her "friend." You're a man, you have better **** to do then do her favors and listen to her problems while NOT hitting it.
    dude, calm down and stop thinking about this negative ****. unless the chick asked you to **** her, you didn't pass anything.
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    How will he benefit from not going for it? I'm telling him to go for it so he doesn't end up with un-resolved demons like I have right now
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