No Excuses

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

We had occasion to have the photocopier engineer at work today.

He was a dwarf. He barely came up to my shoulder and I'm only 5'2.

He was also ginger.

He was also wearing a wedding ring.

So if a ginger dwarf can manage it, what is the excuse for all you guys without such disadvantages?

[InstantLoser]

We had occasion to have the photocopier engineer at work today.

He was a dwarf. He barely came up to my shoulder and I'm only 5'2.

He was also ginger.

He was also wearing a wedding ring.

So if a ginger dwarf can manage it, what is the excuse for all you guys without such disadvantages?

What you fail to realize is that dwarven males and females are visually identical.

[AJ7123]

He was probably married to his female equivalent

I'm convinced that's 90% of the problem for FA they are aiming way to high they need to go for their female equivalent but most wont go below a 7.


Edit: I was at Target the other day and I was in line behind a really cute guy ( I would date) who was deaf (he was signing) and he was married to a very unfortunate looking woman who had to be at least 350lbs. So of course I'm not talking about all guys. Some dip WAY to low to get a girl.

[InstantLoser]

He was probably married to his female equivalent

I'm convinced that's 90% of the problem for FA they are aiming way to high they need to go for their female equivalent but most wont go below a 7.

Please explain the existence of 8-10/10 FA guys on this forum.

[AJ7123]

Please explain the existence of 8-10/10 FA guys on this forum.

They're going for 10/10 or going too low and girls are intimidated.

OR they legit have personality problems

[Vake7000]

We had occasion to have the photocopier engineer at work today.

He was a dwarf. He barely came up to my shoulder and I'm only 5'2.

He was also ginger.

He was also wearing a wedding ring.

So if a ginger dwarf can manage it, what is the excuse for all you guys without such disadvantages?

Probably with a midget, and female midgets grow up conditioned differently anyways

I'm convinced that's 90% of the problem for FA they are aiming way to high they need to go for their female equivalent but most wont go below a 7.

lol @ sloots telling men our standards are too high

It gets better every week in this subsection

[turbodiesel_kai]

He was probably married to his female equivalent

I'm convinced that's 90% of the problem for FA they are aiming way to high they need to go for their female equivalent but most wont go below a 7.


Edit: I was at Target the other day and I was in line behind a really cute guy ( I would date) who was deaf (he was signing) and he was married to a very unfortunate looking woman who had to be at least 350lbs. So of course I'm not talking about all guys. Some dip WAY to low to get a girl.

agreed.

Please explain the existence of 8-10/10 FA guys on this forum.

becuase many of these guys are just like their female equivalents, i.e. they think all they have to is be pretty and show up, forgetting that they need to have a personality to go along iwth it.

[Boffothe]

A ginger dwarf? Sounds more like a leprechaun, meaning he's packing a huge pot of gold at home. Gold diggers gon' gold dig phucking sloots

[InstantLoser]

I'm confused by this thread. People on this forum are always telling me/us FA guys that all we need is to be confident. Women dig confidence. If that's the case, then what do standards have to do with anything? AJ, you yourself have said on at least a few occasions that you don't care about how a guy looks (or it's impact on your decision to date him is minimal), so again, what's with the whole standards thing? If a 3/10 guy approaches you, and let's assume you're a 7/10 (don't know, your AVI doesn't show your whole face), but he's super confident in himself, and has "game" (I don't personally believe in game, but whatever, this forum obviously does), would you date him? If you say yes, it throws standards out the window. If you say no, the whole "confidence" thing is BS and the only thing that actually matters is looks.

[aintevenmad]

I'm confused by this thread. People on this forum are always telling me/us FA guys that all we need is to be confident. Women dig confidence. If that's the case, then what do standards have to do with anything? AJ, you yourself have said on at least a few occasions that you don't care about how a guy looks (or it's impact on your decision to date him is minimal), so again, what's with the whole standards thing? If a 3/10 guy approaches you, and let's assume you're a 7/10 (don't know, your AVI doesn't show your whole face), but he's super confident in himself, and has "game" (I don't personally believe in game, but whatever, this forum obviously does), would you date him? If you say yes, it throws standards out the window. If you say no, the whole "confidence" thing is BS and the only thing that actually matters is looks.

General rule of thumb is confidence /game will bump you up two points and no more.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Even if he is married to another dwarf, at least he's married. He still obviously approached/dated/whatever. He found someone. This should give hope to all the FAs here.

[InstantLoser]

Even if he is married to another dwarf, at least he's married. He still obviously approached/dated/whatever. He found someone. This should give hope to all the FAs here.

It doesn't.

[AJ7123]

I'm confused by this thread. People on this forum are always telling me/us FA guys that all we need is to be confident. Women dig confidence. If that's the case, then what do standards have to do with anything? AJ, you yourself have said on at least a few occasions that you don't care about how a guy looks (or it's impact on your decision to date him is minimal), so again, what's with the whole standards thing? If a 3/10 guy approaches you, and let's assume you're a 7/10 (don't know, your AVI doesn't show your whole face), but he's super confident in himself, and has "game" (I don't personally believe in game, but whatever, this forum obviously does), would you date him? If you say yes, it throws standards out the window. If you say no, the whole "confidence" thing is BS and the only thing that actually matters is looks.

I've said looks matter to a point I've never said they don't matter at all.

I'm not gonna date a guy that I find gross also not holding out for a 10/10

I've dated guys that were 10s that had the personality of a rock was not fun

I've also dated guys that I would have over looked had it not been for their personalities

If you want to date a 7 and you're a 5 then you better make up for your lack of looks with something else.

[realogic]

Can't tell if srs. I see Down Syndrome couples all the time, does that mean that FA miscers have no excuse too? Your logic is so flawed.

[KFM219]

I'm confused by this thread. People on this forum are always telling me/us FA guys that all we need is to be confident. Women dig confidence. If that's the case, then what do standards have to do with anything? AJ, you yourself have said on at least a few occasions that you don't care about how a guy looks (or it's impact on your decision to date him is minimal), so again, what's with the whole standards thing? If a 3/10 guy approaches you, and let's assume you're a 7/10 (don't know, your AVI doesn't show your whole face), but he's super confident in himself, and has "game" (I don't personally believe in game, but whatever, this forum obviously does), would you date him? If you say yes, it throws standards out the window. If you say no, the whole "confidence" thing is BS and the only thing that actually matters is looks.

Well, you have to be good looking to some degree. But I think confidence is analogous to makeup. Just like makeup makes a woman more attractive, confidence will make a guy more attractive. But there still has to be some degree of physical attraction underneath it all.

Some women find Peter Dinklage sexy who's a dwarf as well and married to a regular sized woman.

[AJ7123]

Well, you have to be good looking to some degree. But I think confidence is analogous to makeup. Just like makeup makes a woman more attractive, confidence will make a guy more attractive. But there still has to be some degree of physical attraction underneath it all.

Some women find Peter Dinklage sexy who's a dwarf as well and married to a regular sized woman.

Yes! He is oddly sexy

[InstantLoser]

Well, you have to be good looking to some degree. But I think confidence is analogous to makeup. Just like makeup makes a woman more attractive, confidence will make a guy more attractive. But there still has to be some degree of physical attraction underneath it all.

Some women find Peter Dinklage sexy who's a dwarf as well and married to a regular sized woman.

Damn shame I can't just go buy confidence and scribble it all over my face like women do with cosmetics.

[KFM219]

Yes! He is oddly sexy

He was good in Station Agent but he plays a super introverted dwarf in that. I've never seen Game of Thrones, but given how his sex appeal seems to have risen since this show I can safely assume his presence in Game of Thrones is what's making women notice him.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Can't tell if srs. I see Down Syndrome couples all the time, does that mean that FA miscers have no excuse too? Your logic is so flawed.

They still have to go through the process of dating/falling in love.

[corpsedub]

Damn shame I can't just go buy confidence and scribble it all over my face like women do with cosmetics.

you buy it with experience. the experience of failing over and over and over again until you learn. each failure is like each fugged up face a woman puts on her self as she is learning to put on makeup.

[corpsedub]

He was good in Station Agent but he plays a super introverted dwarf in that. I've never seen Game of Thrones, but given how his sex appeal seems to have risen since this show I can safely assume his presence in Game of Thrones is what's making women notice him.

dude he was awesome in GOT. damn i'd go homer just to dwarf toss him.

[AJ7123]

Damn shame I can't just go buy confidence and scribble it all over my face like women do with cosmetics.

Watch your mouth. Well done makeup is an art.

You don't really need to be confident just out going. Fake it till you make it.

He was good in Station Agent but he plays a super introverted dwarf in that. I've never seen Game of Thrones, but given how his sex appeal seems to have risen since this show I can safely assume his presence in Game of Thrones is what's making women notice him.

I just know him from Elf and 30 Rock.

Regardless of height he's got a decent face.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

And as mentioned, his wife isn't a dwarf.

[realogic]

They still have to go through the process of dating/falling in love.

How would you know? You are neither a dwarf nor have DS, so you don't know if their ''process'' is the same as normal people.

[InstantLoser]

Watch your mouth. Well done makeup is an art.

You don't really need to be confident just out going. Fake it till you make it.

Seriously? Watch my mouth? Why, because women use make-up to hide insecurity and improve their appearance? Cosmetics are a multi-billion dollar industry for a reason, and it's not because you NEED to wear that crap. I've never seen a woman without make up that I thought was signficantly improved by painting her face.

I can agree that cosmetology in and of itself is an art form, but what I was getting at is that it's way easier to paint your face and gain 2 points than it is to acquire natural confidence.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

How would you know? You are neither a dwarf nor have DS, so you don't know if their ''process'' is the same as normal people.

lol @ "normal people", dwarves have short limbs, that's all. Their brain is exactly the same as everyone else's. Why should their dating process be different?

There's a programme in England called "The Undateables" which follows people in their attempts to date. This week's episode included a dwarf, who had a date with a regular sized guy, and an autistic guy, and a woman with Apert Syndrome. All of them have to date, get to know each other etc. They all have the same dreams of love as everyone else.

The dwarf woman came across as being a fun person to hang out with. The autistic guy was struggling to maintain conversation but still got the girl to agree to a second date and the woman with Apert obviously had facial disfigurement. But her date went well too.

[350blaze]

lol @ "normal people", dwarves have short limbs, that's all. Their brain is exactly the same as everyone else's. Why should their dating process be different?

There's a programme in England called "The Undateables" which follows people in their attempts to date. This week's episode included a dwarf, who had a date with a regular sized guy, and an autistic guy, and a woman with Apert Syndrome. All of them have to date, get to know each other etc. They all have the same dreams of love as everyone else.

The dwarf woman came across as being a fun person to hang out with. The autistic guy was struggling to maintain conversation but still got the girl to agree to a second date and the woman with Apert obviously had facial disfigurement. But her date went well too.

brb a television show is irrefutable proof of the validity of your assertions in the OP. Thread is over folks, those who've yet to recant would best do so before the lock.

[realogic]

lol @ "normal people", dwarves have short limbs, that's all. Their brain is exactly the same as everyone else's. Why should their dating process be different?

There's a programme in England called "The Undateables" which follows people in their attempts to date. This week's episode included a dwarf, who had a date with a regular sized guy, and an autistic guy, and a woman with Apert Syndrome. All of them have to date, get to know each other etc. They all have the same dreams of love as everyone else.

Being a dwarf is not normal, let's stop the politically correct crap. Their dating pool is infinitely smaller than that of a regular person considering they only date other dwarves, which probably makes them way less choosy than the regular person. You want to compare a dwarf female who has probably 5 other dwarves in a 500mile radius available for dating than that of a regular woman? And are you seriously using a reality(?) show as your source of information? It would help the discussion if you toned down the womanese too, like dreams love and all that.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

My assertions in the OP were that a ginger dwarf is married, yet there are guys on here who are not dwarves, not ginger, have nice bodies etc yet have zero success. It was meant to be a positive thread to encourage the FAs. If he can do it, they certainly can.

The bit about the TV show just seemed relevant at the time and was more to do with realogic's comment that disabled people are somehow different when it comes to dating.

Calm down bro.

Edit: they only date other dwarves, which is why that Peter Dinklage bloke is married to a normal sized woman.

Also, dwarves and physically disabled people don't have any difference in terms of mental capacity/personality. Why so mad??

[Vake7000]

Even if he is married to another dwarf, at least he's married. He still obviously approached/dated/whatever. He found someone. This should give hope to all the FAs here.

You don't know **** about how they met. For all you know she was the one that took the initiative. You're taking a random dwarf with a wedding ring and applying it to your sexist views of relationship.

becuase many of these guys are just like their female equivalents, i.e. they think all they have to is be pretty and show up, forgetting that they need to have a personality to go along iwth it.

Except most women have the personalities of talking planks of wood. The killer majority of women (well into the 90%s) have piss poor personalities built out of novelty items, i.e. "flirt with me heehee am i a qt, bb? teehee im a cute girlie, omg i have boobs and vag, haha dont hit on my silly boys". Vast majority of men actually work on their personalities because they get judged for it by everyone, and as a result end up having much better social skills in general.

you buy it with experience. the experience of failing over and over and over again until you learn. each failure is like each fugged up face a woman puts on her self as she is learning to put on makeup.

Lmfao. Right because months of personality/esteem building can really be compared to 15 minute youtube videos on how to apply foundation.

Watch your mouth. Well done makeup is an art.

You don't really need to be confident just out going. Fake it till you make it.

Typical cliche thrown out from someone that doesn't know what they're talking about. It's okay though; it's not your fault. You were never expected to by your peers.

And as mentioned, his wife isn't a dwarf.

He is a phucking CELEBRITY that probably has done **** tons of work on his personality to get him where he is today.

Midgets are prejudiced to high hell as laughing stocks of society; male AND female. That has an obviously different effect on their personalities as a whole, and I bet the females grow from that being much more down to earth and humble than your typical over 20, 5'7'' sloot with paint on her face.


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The garbage arguments you sloots will push to rationalize your fallacies just blows. my. mind.


Aim lower.