I have still not reached my goal however I am still determined!
A brief history of me. I was the fat shy dork that got picked on,I quit school asap,worked construction most of my life and basicly became a boarderline hermit.
What got me started on this quest: A friend years ago said I was missing out on alot in life and this stuck with me. I lost alot of weight and it has improved my life I am now trying to improve other aspects of my life. The show the pick up artist has also been a great motivator. I've realized that I used video games to sub for human interaction and it isn't healthy. Pets gave me the affection that I needed to get from people(not sex you pervs) this isn't healthy. I feel that dating and sex is a part of growing up and I need to do this to be on "even ground" with others.
My dating past. When I was 16 I went out on a blind date,wentout a few more times,got dumped before anything went anywhere. At 20 or 21 went out on a semiblind date,I felt no attraction and everyone was up my ass about the details. If you want more info it's in the old thread.
What I have done so far. I talk to cashiers,hairdressers and have reconnected with old friends. Went to strip clubs and got used to being touched. Tried pua in clubs and bars with no positive outcome. Ran profiles on online dating sites. New job so now I am interacting with people daily. I have now thrown away pua,thrown away friends advise and am now trying to crash and learn. This has been more effective. I have been at this off and on for about a year.
If you want more info on the pua attempts and online adventures it's in the old thread.
Rules I'd like to follow, mind you I will loosen up on these as I continue.
The girl cannot be married to my knowledge,no women with kids unless it is a nsa sex agreement upfront. (I am not out to hurt others)
No lying on my part. Loop holes to this,completements and half truths but I am doing my best not to lie to people.
I have to find them somewhat attractive.
I am not going to become an ******* to score ass! (my most firm rule)
she cannot weigh more then me (ok I'll be breaking this one lol)
I cannot know that she is a whore before hand.
Hooker is a last resort,before then end of 09 I will resort to this or if I lose my determination.
My goal is to simply get laid,while I would prefer to have a relationship it isn't realistic with my lack of exp and my age. If I when them over with my personality or my looks it doesn't matter. I have earned both.
One of my best adventures coming soon!