IIT Girls tell all about what they like, dislike and are creeped out by...

[hai2dehfolks]

This thread is about what kinda stuff you love/hate guys doing..Concerning bf stuff, approach stuff, etc.

what kinda stuff creeps you out, turns you on, keeps your interest, etc.. just to offer a girls pov.

-Per Janky's request.

here's mine:
~~ BFs~~
~~Love guys that~~
- don't take more time than me, when getting ready.
- smells nice
- take care of themselves
- hold my hand
- hug me often
- tell me how they feel about me
- easy to talk to
- likes metal/classic rock/some rap/classical/jazz/blues music
- is a MAN'S man lol

~~dislike men who (are)~~
- boring
- don't talk very much
- talk too much and about himself in a vain way
- not outgoing
- jealous
- don't show affection
- rude to me constantly and it's not sarcasm
- unhealthy
- don't get along with ANY of his family

~~ Guys in General~~ (mostly looks, some personality)
~~ Like guys who (are)~~
-polite
-outgoing
-good looking (my preferences are: taller than me, muscular, weighs more than me, pretty eyes and mouth)
-have self control/discipline
-can strike up a convo and you not have to worry about being awkward (yes bad conversationalist)
-not afraid to walk up and say hi

~~Dislikes guys who(are)~~
- seclude themselves
- think they are hot sht
- STARE
- pushy if you say no once and keep at you (no means "no", not "keep trying please")
- too forward (at least TRY to mask the fact that you are a horny fkker, we like to seem like more than just a piece of meat, though that's what we are lol)


Please, ladies, add/subtract to this as much as you like!

[Shouji]

hey don't mean to derail your thread, but i need some female insight on this. i'm currently trying to, i guess, change my tone to be more "lively" and "bubbly", but i naturally have a pretty soft-spoken, deep voice (which i think came from years of being a social outcast >_<), but in all honestly, does this matter that much?

[hai2dehfolks]

hey don't mean to derail your thread, but i need some female insight on this. i'm currently trying to, i guess, change my tone to be more "lively" and "bubbly", but i naturally have a pretty soft-spoken, deep voice (which i think came from years of being a social outcast >_<), but in all honestly, does this matter that much?

as long as your actions don't reflect that, then I don't see why you have to change your VOICE to become "lively" and "bubbly"(wrong word to use, you're a man) As they say, "Actions speak louder than words". I believe this with all of my heart.

[Suit]

What girls like:

Confidence
Social Class
Money

Dislikes:

Non-Confident
Nobodies
Poor






/endsarcasm

hey don't mean to derail your thread, but i need some female insight on this. i'm currently trying to, i guess, change my tone to be more "lively" and "bubbly", but i naturally have a pretty soft-spoken, deep voice (which i think came from years of being a social outcast >_<), but in all honestly, does this matter that much?

Voices ftw.

[2Massive]

So, ehh... Chicks really do dig the whole hand-holding thingy? lol Here's a good question... What if his palms are sweaty?

[E_N_D_L_E_S_S]

/endsarcasm

I think you misspelled "/endtruth"

[janky]

hey don't mean to derail your thread, but i need some female insight on this. i'm currently trying to, i guess, change my tone to be more "lively" and "bubbly", but i naturally have a pretty soft-spoken, deep voice (which i think came from years of being a social outcast >_<), but in all honestly, does this matter that much?

No. It doesn't. The WAY you say things is MUCH MUCH greater than the voice.
I have a soft little kid-ish voice.. I can get a little loud when im being obnoxious, but in general I talk pretty chill.
kinda like a retarded stoner, only hilarious and witty.


BREEESEEEYY -

whats some of the worst things guys have ever said coming up to approach you?
and whats the flipside of that? What kinda stuff held your interest or at least got you laughing??

[Dave P]

I think I'm hot ****

[hai2dehfolks]

So, ehh... Chicks really do dig the whole hand-holding thingy? lol Here's a good question... What if his palms are sweaty?

most guys are self conscious about that and will wipe them off before hand, oh well if he doesn't my palm get sweaty too... lol

[2Massive]

most guys are self conscious about that and will wipe them off before hand, oh well if he doesn't my palm get sweaty too... lol

lol yeah. My palms sweat a lot to begin worth. idk, like i don't feel nervous, they just do lol. But i always wipe before hand too =D

[janky]

What girls like:

Confidence
Social Class
Money

Dislikes:

Non-Confident
Nobodies
Poor

/endsarcasm

That's the black and white of it, yes.
It goes a little deeper though.. Confidence w no money can pull.
Confident loners can pull.
you can mix and match that stuff, but it's gunna mix and match the quality of girls you pull as well..

[2Massive]

That's the black and white of it, yes.
It goes a little deeper though.. Confidence w no money can pull.
Confident loners can pull.
you can mix and match that stuff, but it's gunna mix and match the quality of girls you pull as well..

is janky one of teh wimenz?

[hai2dehfolks]

BREEESEEEYY -

whats some of the worst things guys have ever said coming up to approach you?
and whats the flipside of that? What kinda stuff held your interest or at least got you laughing??

- I'm not one for lame pick ups, but I have gotten a few... The ones that are funny, I dig, but most of them... *shakes head* I like the "oh look! A shooting star" one though, it makes me lol every time

-I've gotten a "wanna fck?" before and "the mirror in your pants" one lol I laughed at both. they were serious and had nothing to go with it, no more funny stuff and left it serious? I was confused.

GUYS! If you use a funny pick up line... STAY FUNNY, that i now your MO and stick with it!

I think I'm hot ****

lol well... you kinda are... but don't tell anyone I said so...

[2Massive]

- I'm not one for lame pick ups, but I have gotten a few... The ones that are funny, I dig, but most of them... *shakes head* I like the "oh look! A shooting star" one though, it makes me lol every time

-I've gotten a "wanna fck?" before and "the mirror in your pants" one lol I laughed at both. they were serious and had nothing to go with it, no more funny stuff and left it serious? I was confused.

GUYS! If you use a funny pick up line... STAY FUNNY, that i now your MO and stick with it!


lol well... you kinda are... but don't tell anyone I said so...

I can has date?

[GoutDeMiel]

So, ehh... Chicks really do dig the whole hand-holding thingy? lol Here's a good question... What if his palms are sweaty?

wipe them on your pants first???

Anyways..

My loves:
manly cologne
strong legs
3 day stubble
not afraid to play footsies under the table
not afraid to show emotion in front of me
not afraid to meet my parents
father material
maturity
man's man
must love dogs (ya rly)
spontaneity
will eat my cooking
intellectual
has a political opinion (actually knows what's going on. If you can talk Federalist Papers with me, OH LAWD my panties would drop)
broad back / wide lats

My hates / pet-peeves
immaturity
chauvinism
insecurity
intolerance
wears better / more expensive clothes than me
has more toiletries than me
drug / alcohol abuse (cell-tech doesn't count)

[2Massive]

My loves:

will eat my cooking

That's a little much, don't you think =)

[GainThis]

No offense... but doesn't everyone Know all these? If not, please continue, but I expected *something* new.

[GoutDeMiel]

That's a little much, don't you think =)

little much? i think its little to ask lol

[GoutDeMiel]

No offense... but doesn't everyone Know all these? If not, please continue, but I expected *something* new.

uhhhh...girls hate using condoms too (?)

[janky]

is janky one of teh wimenz?

sort of.

I've magically unlocked the secrets of the female brain.

but i still have a pen0r and remain semi-alpha.

I just figure who better to learn from than GIRLS themselves???

I mean, most of them will tell you the **** you wanna know if you just ASK...
it's just guys getting so caught up in gettin action RIGHT AWAY and saying stupid stuff that makes them just as typical as the last 20 guys that got shot down lol

[hai2dehfolks]

No offense... but doesn't everyone Know all these? If not, please continue, but I expected *something* new.

ask some questions though... and the ladies will answer...

uhhhh...girls hate using condoms too (?)

lol this

[Jagerbomb]

lmao at the girls in this thread.

reminds me again why i do not date

stay the f*ck away from me that's for sure

anyone that has a list of predetermined f*cking criteria is tossable lmao

[Dom_88]

My hates / pet-peeves
wears better / more expensive clothes than me

Really? Some of us can't help having awesome style, it runs in the family!

[Jagerbomb]

The things girls love but will tell you in threads like these that they hate are:

-chauvinism
-a**holes
-guys with money
-confidence (over)
-cockiness

[hai2dehfolks]

lmao at the girls in this thread.

reminds me again why i do not date

stay the f*ck away from me that's for sure

anyone that has a list of predetermined f*cking criteria is tossable lmao

this is stuff we would LIKE not necessarily what we GET... and my opinion and definitions of some of the stuff I've said may have a completely different definition than another woman's.

Really? Some of us can't help having awesome style, it runs in the family!

hahaha... good for you. I don't have a problem with the clothes thing, though, I couldn't care less!

The things girls love but will tell you in threads like these that they hate are:

-chauvinism
-a**holes
-guys with money
-confidence (over)
-cockiness

-I'm dating an a$$hole right now. And he's kinda a chauvinist as well lol...

I don't care about the money part AT ALL
I like guys to have confidence, but sometimes it can get overbearing...

[Loochi]

Awesome thread and thanks for taking the time to do it but what sucks is that every woman has different standards not like us males where we just want a hot ass girl to bang...

Or is this just me? :S

[hai2dehfolks]

Awesome thread and thanks for taking the time to do it but what sucks is that every woman has different standards not like us males where we just want a hot ass girl to bang...

Or is this just me? :S

def not just you... lol

[janky]

lmao at the girls in this thread.

reminds me again why i do not date

stay the f*ck away from me that's for sure

anyone that has a list of predetermined f*cking criteria is tossable lmao

Everyone has a predetermined list.
Even you

btw, soup baller? good to see ya

Really? Some of us can't help having awesome style, it runs in the family!

It's true. U MAD?

The things girls love but will tell you in threads like these that they hate are:

-chauvinism
-a**holes
-guys with money
-confidence (over)
-cockiness

Those attract younger girls, and when used in conjunction with charm and confidence work on the 21+ crowd too, there's a lot more to it.


I'm just curious as to what kinda of dumb things guys have said to girls.. I'm amazed at some of the stuff I hear when I people watch... lol

Ladies;
How would you define a man being "Confident" but not overly cocky to the point of making you wanna punch him?

I know there's a fine line there.. lol

[Loochi]

def not just you... lol

Phew.. My heart rate was off the charts until I read this..

[Jagerbomb]

-I'm dating an a$$hole right now. And he's kinda a chauvinist as well lol...

I don't care about the money part AT ALL
I like guys to have confidence, but sometimes it can get overbearing...

/thread