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    Havent had sex in a while, dont wanna ruin it with this one!

    So i havent had sex in over 4 months, so I kno the first time with this girl is gonna be bad and Im probably gonna be terrible. She on the other hand not to long ago had a pretty long relationship with some guy so chances are she was getting good sex. I Realyl dont wanna ruin it with this one by performing bad, should i just tell her before hand or just hope for the best?
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    wow you are settin yourself up for failure.

    just think about goin in there and destroying that puss, nothing else. dont worry about feelings or any other horse****. asking for a limp dick.
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    Originally Posted by ccm View Post
    wow you are settin yourself up for failure.

    just think about goin in there and destroying that puss, nothing else. dont worry about feelings or any other horse****. asking for a limp dick.
    this.

    just smashed that **** brah
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    Stop worrying you'll do just fine. Who knows she may take total control anyway.
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    Just do it multiple times that night. Odds are that first one will suck, but you can redeem with rounds two and three
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    look man, this sh*t doesnt even matter if she's into you. it wont be a 1 time thing. Work on getting her off with your tongue or another means if you're going to blow quickly.

    I met this girl while i was on a trip and we only had the oppurtunity to have sex once. I got her off a couple times because i couldnt get it up due to being awake for 24 hours and drunk as f*ck! A few weeks later she came to visit me and i gave her 12 orgasims in 12 hours not to mention the rest of the weekend.

    If you act insecure about it, thats more of a turn off then if you just go along with it and just shrug it off and do whatever you can. She'll find your confidence a lone a turn on. Dont be a b*tch
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    Originally Posted by stsmurf View Post
    look man, this sh*t doesnt even matter if she's into you. it wont be a 1 time thing. Work on getting her off with your tongue or another means if you're going to blow quickly.

    I met this girl while i was on a trip and we only had the oppurtunity to have sex once. I got her off a couple times because i couldnt get it up due to being awake for 24 hours and drunk as f*ck! A few weeks later she came to visit me and i gave her 12 orgasims in 12 hours not to mention the rest of the weekend.

    If you act insecure about it, thats more of a turn off then if you just go along with it and just shrug it off and do whatever you can. She'll find your confidence a lone a turn on. Dont be a b*tch
    geez... 12 in 12? what are you half man half rabbit?
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    To be honest, I once went almost a year without sex (I dated a religious girl through most of that, ugh), but when I finally did it again, it really was like riding a bike... its not nearly as difficult a situation as you're convincing yourself it is, for real!
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    OP are you actually a virgin?
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    You must be a virgin. Just relax and play it cool. Women like the confidence level, as said before.

    Honestly we men think about sex too much before the act. Rather, try to not read into it so much which will cause anxiety, and just try to go with the flow. Also, try to not compare yourself to her past boyfriends. This will only make it harder to build a trustworthy relationship. The past is the past and you shouldn't make her feel guilty for it.

    Let her surprise you. You never know. I used to think about the act myself too. I went without sex for over a year WHILE I was with my first ex gf. Also, I have to agree that usually the first couple of times aren't going to be as good as you wanted it to be. That doesn't mean there will be better ones in the future. I know I went through that experience.
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    Originally Posted by deseee View Post
    geez... 12 in 12? what are you half man half rabbit?
    hahaha it was pretty much awesome that was the last day as well. I'd work on her and get her off a couple times, then when i'd start pounding on her to go for myself she'd get off again. So much fun! I just really really really turned her on both physically and emotionally, so it really wasnt that hard.
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    Originally Posted by vikings101 View Post
    So i havent had sex in over 4 months, so I kno the first time with this girl is gonna be bad and Im probably gonna be terrible. She on the other hand not to long ago had a pretty long relationship with some guy so chances are she was getting good sex. I Realyl dont wanna ruin it with this one by performing bad, should i just tell her before hand or just hope for the best?
    Tell her beforehand
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    Here's what you do bro, learn.

    1) First of all don't tell her a thing, it displays lower value. You need to be confident in yourself not act confident.

    2) If the chick is into you a 1 time deal of bad sex is going to end it for you. I've ****ed up numerous times and came under like 5 minutes. The woman I was with never left and in return the more comfortable I got the better the sex was.

    3) If you really want to last longer learn to control your "orgasm" release valve. It's hard to explain it mentally but a great exercise is one for instance where you're peeing and you stop in the middle and then start. So stop and start in the middle of the sessions and observe which "bone" you're controlling.

    4) Masturbate but when you get close to ending it, STOP and hold back and then when you're good start going back at it. Try to last 15 minutes.. (you can also jerk off before you see her)

    5) Bro **** happens, accept it. Don't overthink it, lots of people have been in your situation. If this is the girl for you regardless if sex lasted 1 minute to 20 minutes she's still going to be interested if not then its not someone you probably want to see yourself with in the future.

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    its good reading this...i'm gonna hook up with an ex girlfriend and its nice to hear to just let things go and have fun. And yes its been a while for me too.
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    Originally Posted by mikestarr View Post
    its good reading this...i'm gonna hook up with an ex girlfriend and its nice to hear to just let things go and have fun. And yes its been a while for me too.
    Sex is fun, dirty, and nasty. its not a purely romantic thing so why turn it into that. If the girl has fun with you during, and you can joke about things that are funny, instead of being embarresed, then just hop right back too it, she'll feel more emotionally connected to you and will enjoy the experience that much more.

    Sex shouldnt feel "awkward" it should feel like a connection... if the connection isnt there, the sex is going to be bad or just to get your rocks off anyway.
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