GUYS - are we fcked? (srsly)

[adam247]

Not really sure what that meant.

My point was that one doesn't have to have been inside somebody else's head to perceive said somebody else's character traits.

Traits are easy to recognize , the roots of that trait is not so easy to interprete.

[Jaw-Knee]

Traits are easy to recognize , the roots of that trait is not so easy to interprete.

You don't have to interpret the root of the trait to know the trait.

[janky]

I have roots in my hair

[samantha08]

i have a friend who tries convincing me to hook up with guys using the logic "if nobody else knows about it, then it doesn't count.. so really it doesn't matter!" and another friend telling me "you need to experience more guys and have fun.. thats what college is all about" ...

i'm pretty sure it's just because they're fairly promiscuous (yes, more than samantha08 oh my! ) and want me to be on their level so to speak.

also with the first girl i mentioned she has a boyfriend and 2 year old daughter.. she was telling me about this she wants to hook up with and when i was like hey wtf she tried playing it off like she wasn't serious.

wtf

[BreesieBabby]

i have a friend who tries convincing me to hook up with guys using the logic "if nobody else knows about it, then it doesn't count.. so really it doesn't matter!" and another friend telling me "you need to experience more guys and have fun.. thats what college is all about" ...

i'm pretty sure it's just because they're fairly promiscuous (yes, more than samantha08 oh my! ) and want me to be on their level so to speak.

also with the first girl i mentioned she has a boyfriend and 2 year old daughter.. she was telling me about this she wants to hook up with and when i was like hey wtf she tried playing it off like she wasn't serious.

wtf

no. just.... NO...

[adam247]

You don't have to interpret the root of the trait to know the trait.

That's what I said the trait is easy to know and spot , but to come up with a true understand of that trait you have to know its roots . Then the trait can be work on and social solution for it's cause.
Others wise all prejudice have a form of justification.
( which the don't)

[janky]

i have a friend who tries convincing me to hook up with guys using the logic "if nobody else knows about it, then it doesn't count.. so really it doesn't matter!" and another friend telling me "you need to experience more guys and have fun.. thats what college is all about" ...

i'm pretty sure it's just because they're fairly promiscuous (yes, more than samantha08 oh my! ) and want me to be on their level so to speak.

also with the first girl i mentioned she has a boyfriend and 2 year old daughter.. she was telling me about this she wants to hook up with and when i was like hey wtf she tried playing it off like she wasn't serious.

wtf

exactly the kinda BS I'm talking about.

How hard is it to just tell someone "look, I'm not into you, I wanna bang other people" ??
Yea, it hurts them, but it's better that then you DOING it and LYING to them and them finding out they've been gettin sloppies. That's enough to make a man wanna kill.

I mean if you WANT to have fun and experiment, I'm all for it! I did. I'm not saying girls shouldn't bang away!
I'm saying do it WITH NO BF AT HOME. Do it where you're not lying to someone and ripping out their heart and makin them turn bitter and take it out on others.

[Jaw-Knee]

That's what I said the trait is easy to know and spot , but to come up with a true understand of that trait you have to know its roots . Then the trait can be work on and social solution for it's cause.
Others wise all prejudice have a form of justification.
( which the don't)

Lol...

It's quite possible to dislike bad traits because they're bad. Disliking a bad trait doesn't justify legitimate malice.

[samantha08]

exactly the kinda BS I'm talking about.

How hard is it to just tell someone "look, I'm not into you, I wanna bang other people" ??
Yea, it hurts them, but it's better that then you DOING it and LYING to them and them finding out they've been gettin sloppies. That's enough to make a man wanna kill.

I mean if you WANT to have fun and experiment, I'm all for it! I did. I'm not saying girls shouldn't bang away!
I'm saying do it WITH NO BF AT HOME. Do it where you're not lying to someone and ripping out their heart and makin them turn bitter and take it out on others.

agreed. most of the girls i hang out with are pretty good but there are a couple who come to me looking for justification in stupid **** like that and when i don't back them they try to switch the story around.

[sydneyelvis]

Exactly

all the good girls are ugly and the reason they're good girls is because they have to settle for less and use their personality to climb the ladder of love.

if they were better looking, they'd probably be sluts too.

that is the dumbest **** i have ever heard... you keep a woman happy in bed and she will love you forever... its not about the size of your knob or how long you last... its about attitude... style... class and respect.
You have to super alpha when required and alpha the rest of the time... women 'like nice guys' but always wanna **** and be loved by men

[FOXXIE]

vice versa. There would be no whores if there's no pimps.


More like there would be no strippers on the street if no one would pay them.

[macc2221]

ive been sending my unemployment checks to samantha08, she says she will have sex with me some day, but i totally trust her

[adam247]

Lol...

It's quite possible to dislike bad traits because they're bad. Disliking a bad trait doesn't justify legitimate malice.

As long as you attached to the individual and not a category, then yeah.

[janky]

that is the dumbest **** i have ever heard... you keep a woman happy in bed and she will love you forever... its not about the size of your knob or how long you last... its about attitude... style... class and respect.
You have to super alpha when required and alpha the rest of the time... women 'like nice guys' but always wanna **** and be loved by men

very accurate

vice versa. There would be no whores if there's no pimps.


More like there would be no strippers on the street if no one would pay them.

thats retarded. thatd be like sayin ppl wouldnt eat if theres no food, its a basic human urge.

ive been sending my unemployment checks to samantha08, she says she will have sex with me some day, but i totally trust her

she will. but itll cost more than $150

[strong_penor]

My girl is one of the coolest chicks I've met. Three weeks ago she did something real stupid. She then blamed me for it. It was one of those things where I knew that she would recognize that she is at fault, but wouldn't admit it at the time because of her ego/emotions getting in the way.

Instead of arguing with her, all I said was, "You are acting like a bitch. I am not going to talk to you until you apologize." Next afternoon I get a voicemail with an apology and a request for me to come over after work to talk about this. Not only did she apologize (and give me mad make up sex), but she also said that she respected me for calling her a bitch when she was acting like one.

Men are the ones that think logically. As men, you need to recognize and embrace this. Think about a situation objectively. If this analysis determines that your girl is clearly acting like a bitch, call her out on it. She will get it once her emotions subdue (assuming you aren't dating a total idiot) and she will respect you more for it. FACT. Janky, I am 100% with you. Men have lost their balls and began thinking with their emotions instead of brains.

[JAWS22]

All you can do is be yourself. Dont let yourself get run over. Only you can let a woman wear the pants in the relationship, just choose not to, if the woman doesnt like it, dont marry her. Simple.

[muhuwahaha]

Personally I support the slut movement because it'll make it easier for ugly guys like me to get laid

[drew101]

Yep.

The slut movement is making things even worse.

[JAWS22]

The slut movement is why everyone has ****in AIDS.

[janky]

Personally I support the slut movement because it'll make it easier for ugly guys like me to get laid

I feel it, but at what cost?
Someday you'll want more out of life than to "get laid" and then what? you'll be knee deep in braindead morons that think gettin wasted and sleepin with everyone then having pics of it on myspace next to some R&B divas newest man-bashing hit single is cool.
woah.
/rant

The slut movement is why everyone has ****in AIDS.

or the clap, or herp

[Gordon Bombay]

Man I wish it wasn't true but my father is like my mother and my mother is like my mother. I have 2 mothers and no father. Sounds confusing? It isn't. My dad is a pussy. He was good at raising me and my sister but sucks as a father figure. No ambitions, no balls, just a motherly instinct to make sure the family is happy. My mom is the bread winner. She makes 4-5x what my dad makes. My dad works the same low level customer service job for 8 years. Follows my mom to the key. Doesn't do anything without asking. Has no form of independence. It's sad actually. He learned to wash his clothes at the age of 30, and he still has no idea how to file taxes. He never encouraged me to figure things out on my own, "Just take it in to get repaired." This mindset has stifled some of my problem solving and creativity skills. Why should I figure out how to do this on my own when I am encouraged to give up, put up a woah is me face, and walk away with a tale between my legs.

I can't be too mad that my father was there for me and my sister, but he is the definition of an omega.

[BoneSkinny]

I mostly blame pussy men. I've seen a guy have his fiance cheat on him, and him still crying and begging her to come back. How crazy is that? After a women cheats on you, you STILL want to devote your life and assests to her.

No one teaches a guy how to pick up women, its something they have to learn on their own nowadays and the advice they are given is all beta (lack of better word) and ****ty.

Also, MTV / media shows being promiscuous as a good quality. Look at every MTV show, its usually about dating/sex/drinking, usually all three!

But I'm not fcuked. I know how to hold my own, and realize girls want my dick just as bad, if not more, than i want their pussy. Too many guys think the girl is the prize, when they should be thinking the other way around.

[janky]

Man I wish it wasn't true but my father is like my mother and my mother is like my mother. I have 2 mothers and no father. Sounds confusing? It isn't. My dad is a pussy. He was good at raising me and my sister but sucks as a father figure. No ambitions, no balls, just a motherly instinct to make sure the family is happy. My mom is the bread winner. She makes 4-5x what my dad makes. My dad works the same low level customer service job for 8 years. Follows my mom to the key. Doesn't do anything without asking. Has no form of independence. It's sad actually. He learned to wash his clothes at the age of 30, and he still has no idea how to file taxes. He never encouraged me to figure things out on my own, "Just take it in to get repaired." This mindset has stifled some of my problem solving and creativity skills. Why should I figure out how to do this on my own when I am encouraged to give up, put up a woah is me face, and walk away with a tale between my legs.

I can't be too mad that my father was there for me and my sister, but he is the definition of an omega.

Sucks, but at least he was there.

My dad didn't work, beat me and my mom, and just constantly told us we'd never be ****. Once I got older, I told my mom if she didn't divorce him I was going to fck him up and send his ass to the hospital and that she deserved better.
She did.
My mom put a roof over my head, clothes on my back, food on the table, and TRIED her best to install good values in me.
I Barely listened or appreciated any of it.

I'd say I basically raised myself with a little input from mom ...

but I love her to death and the respect that she taught me never left.

Fortunately for me, she didnt tell me to be a little queer and prance around taking crap from girls

[Gordon Bombay]

Sucks, but at least he was there.

My dad didn't work, beat me and my mom, and just constantly told us we'd never be ****. Once I got older, I told my mom if she didn't divorce him I was going to fck him up and send his ass to the hospital and that she deserved better.
She did.
My mom put a roof over my head, clothes on my back, food on the table, and TRIED her best to install good values in me.
I Barely listened or appreciated any of it.

I'd say I basically raised myself with a little input from mom ...

but I love her to death and the respect that she taught me never left.

Fortunately for me, she didnt tell me to be a little queer and prance around taking crap from girls

Yeah, I keep telling myself it could be worse. Compared to your situation mine was a walk in the park. I mean, my childhood wasn't bad at all since my mom wears the pants, but the fact still remains that my 53 year old dad is 35 years immature.

[SaviorSix]

The Hills
My Super Sweet 16
The Real World
The OC
Housewives of orange county
E! channel

et al. - They are all a reflection of the culture.

There is just about zero accountability. They are raised to believe that they've got everything coming to them.

Most guys have been raised the correct way of being a "gentleman", however the general softness of the suburban middle class culture takes its toll on them. Its really the fault of the parents raising the daughters poorly - minimal to zero work ethic,maybe get a bull**** part time job (that is complained about constantly btw), and there you have it, skate through fully funded college for a McDegree,

[janky]

Yea that is rough. Hopefully you still learned somewhere along the way not to take **** from rotten women!

[janky]

I mostly blame pussy men. I've seen a guy have his fiance cheat on him, and him still crying and begging her to come back. How crazy is that? After a women cheats on you, you STILL want to devote your life and assests to her.

No one teaches a guy how to pick up women, its something they have to learn on their own nowadays and the advice they are given is all beta (lack of better word) and ****ty.

Also, MTV / media shows being promiscuous as a good quality. Look at every MTV show, its usually about dating/sex/drinking, usually all three!

But I'm not fcuked. I know how to hold my own, and realize girls want my dick just as bad, if not more, than i want their pussy. Too many guys think the girl is the prize, when they should be thinking the other way around.

I'll teach guys how to pick up women all day long If nothing else my experience can help others.
But yea, I couldn't have said it better myself - Girls are not the prize. Getting your **** straight in life is the prize.
Stop putting the puss on a pedestal

The Hills
My Super Sweet 16
The Real World
The OC
Housewives of orange county
E! channel

et al. - They are all a reflection of the culture.

There is just about zero accountability. They are raised to believe that they've got everything coming to them.

Most guys have been raised the correct way of being a "gentleman", however the general softness of the suburban middle class culture takes its toll on them. Its really the fault of the parents raising the daughters poorly - minimal to zero work ethic,maybe get a bull**** part time job (that is complained about constantly btw), and there you have it, skate through fully funded college for a McDegree,

Very true. It's sad these are the role models for this generation of females. All the paris hiltons, sunset tan chicks, LC, etc. etc.
Jesus christ..

thats all I can say..

Jesus christ...

[CEO Josh]

I do not see myself as a man, I see my self as Adam.
I like people with positive characteristics and try and avoiding people with negative characteristics.
I am pulled towards, kind, sensitive, caring, honest, trusting, helpful, deep, thoughtful, open, non judgemental people


I see it as negative v positive why do you see it as man v women?

Wut?

But meh the answer to this problem is simple. Don't be a pussy, don't raise your sons to be pussies, don't encourage your friends to be pussies. Sadly I've yet to date a girl that didn't formerly date a handful of epic white knights.
Completely skewed veiws on things, took weeks to fix them and even then some damage was forever.

[Death Strike]

OP this is the way it's been for a long time, just now most people are waking up to it. I wouldn't be worried though, just focus on yourself, it's really that simple.

[adam247]

Wut?

But meh the answer to this problem is simple. Don't be a pussy, don't raise your sons to be pussies, don't encourage your friends to be pussies. Sadly I've yet to date a girl that didn't formerly date a handful of epic white knights.
Completely skewed veiws on things, took weeks to fix them and even then some damage was forever.

You don't understand my point.
You like to categorize hence why you have labeled me a couple of times.

Am not a man, am not a white night!

Am ADAM!

Would you call me (ADAM) a pussy if you met him, I doubt it, am physically strong , am mentally stable and know who am and not afraid to express it. I stick to what I (ADAM) believe, I do not conform or follow others to fit in, I don't say what others want to hear . I stand up for myself and beliefs , and stand for others I believe are being treated unfairly, I do not allow others to belittle me . Am kind, sensitive and caring and a nice person. This is me (ADAM) I do not need to feel part of a group or fit in , I do not need to feel like a man I do not need to insult a group of people I am just ME
and I get my fair share of female attention ; )

Now who is really the pussy?