Why does ignoring women work so much?

[BORF897]

I mean, if you NEVER talk to her, yea, that's not gonna work. But examine. Is there a show you binge watch? Does it get boring or take up too much time? Watch later. Is there a book you are reading, but it gets boring? Sometimes so boring throw it away completely, sometimes save it for later. Do you find sometimes you cooked too much spaghetti, so either save it for later, or maybe it goes bad and you throw it away. So, if you want more of something, train yourself to save it for later. Too much spaghetti, or too much of a girl, can result in smelly farts and or diarrhea.

[Nicklol]

can confirm
its happened to me

[BlackScorpio91]

It just does.

If you talked to them before and you stop talking to them, they'll probably hit you up in several weeks, months or even years. The point is they will eventually try to contact you. Women crave attention and if you're not giving them it anymore, they're gonna wonder.

NC is a powerful tool.

[MegaSloot]

I think it works better with girls rather than confident women. If a guy was ignoring me I would just assume he wasn't interested and quit.

Truth. If he ever makes you guess, it is time to move on. Adolescent games of hide and seek project emotional uncertainty. It's not a crime to be uncertain, everyone has some doubts, but if the hiding is done in a spirit of viciousness to "teach the bitch she isn't the center of the world" then it isn't worth it.

[BORF897]

Truth. If he ever makes you guess, it is time to move on. Adolescent games of hide and seek project emotional uncertainty. It's not a crime to be uncertain, everyone has some doubts, but if the hiding is done in a spirit of viciousness to "teach the bitch she isn't the center of the world" then it isn't worth it.

Says the female. Who probably got here by searching google for "why do guys ignore me" because someone ignored her. Post irrelevant. Also, it's not to "teach a lesson." It's simply to be seen as powerful and dominant, which really isn't about putting her in her place, it's more about not letting ourselves be a doormat. Power goes hand in hand with respect.

[ANumber1]

Truth. If he ever makes you guess, it is time to move on. Adolescent games of hide and seek project emotional uncertainty. It's not a crime to be uncertain, everyone has some doubts, but if the hiding is done in a spirit of viciousness to "teach the bitch she isn't the center of the world" then it isn't worth it.

Women have no idea what works on women. Srs.

[PowersKenny]

Logic 101..as other's have said...if you are too available, your not as much as of a catch...you wifing up a girl that puts out on first date?

[feminineenergy]

This ignoring shyt always works too. They use all their might to stay relevant in your life like you're a god. Ignoring women is ultimate power. My dad ignores my mom and she's been addicted to him for 35 years. I know the game I learned from pops. Any man that constantly caters to a woman is a man that will have a broken heart

How do you think your mom felt?

[DGen94]

thats what boys do..stopped doing that ghey chit years ago...if i like you ill contact you..if women play games i next them

[BORF897]

thats what boys do..stopped doing that ghey chit years ago...if i like you ill contact you..if women play games i next them

lol you do realize nexting is basically just ignoring slightly watered down, right?

[otakutrevan]

Ignoring women, No Contact, or etc does absolutely nothing concerning womens attraction towards me. NC contact only helps me out mentally and emotionally.

Ignoring a woman will only work if she is attracted to you or perceives you have more status than her.

[BORF897]

It just does.

If you talked to them before and you stop talking to them, they'll probably hit you up in several weeks, months or even years. The point is they will eventually try to contact you. Women crave attention and if you're not giving them it anymore, they're gonna wonder.

NC is a powerful tool.

Question: what do I do if I know I'm gonna run into her? Like do I just straight up ignore? Do i check to see if she's within a certain range, and then try talking to her? What do I do if she tries talking to me?

[alpha187]

Ignoring women, No Contact, or etc does absolutely nothing concerning womens attraction towards me. NC contact only helps me out mentally and emotionally.

Ignoring a woman will only work if she is attracted to you or perceives you have more status than her.

This ^^

[devopsengineer]

Does not work. When I ignore them they also ignore me.

[friesbruh]

you mean ignoring *broads, females, girls, chicks, or dames

These vermin do not deserve the title of "women"

[DGen94]

lol you do realize nexting is basically just ignoring slightly watered down, right?

i mean i completely delete them from my life...block their number..no time for games

[mangleb]

It's so effective! You ignore them, and here they come!

WHY?

it makes them insecure.
It's not effective though because it doesn't raise attraction. Sure she might chase but that's an ego thing. She's not gonna like you more because you ignore her. She just hates it. Once you give her attention she'll lose attraction again. so no it doesn't work.
Unless you want to ignore her forever just for the torture factor which is.. doesn't make sense

[psychosylocibin]

Ignoring women, No Contact, or etc does absolutely nothing concerning womens attraction towards me. NC contact only helps me out mentally and emotionally.

Ignoring a woman will only work if she is attracted to you or perceives you have more status than her.

CHAD ignoring a woman = "ugh, he must be ignoring me because he is pre-occupied with other women. he must get lots of them, I need for him to notice me"

Timothy ignoring a woman = "why is that guy so awkward and quiet. huh. time to check my instagram"

[devopsengineer]

Who is Timothy?

[BORF897]

CHAD ignoring a woman = "ugh, he must be ignoring me because he is pre-occupied with other women. he must get lots of them, I need for him to notice me"

Timothy ignoring a woman = "why is that guy so awkward and quiet. huh. time to check my instagram"

The problem with this mindset is you assume the Timothy does notice her...that ain't it...Timothy is the creepy guy that usually stares at her...thats all the notice she needs...now she got the attention combined with the knowledge that man has no balls. That is not the same as a guy intentionally ignoring her.

[cannon300]

Because women crave attention. As soon as you stop giving it them they start panicking and acting desperate/needy. It’s as though they can’t stand it when they don’t matter to you anymore.

Obviously this only happens if she has some sort of feelings for you, otherwise she’ll just go get her attention fix from some beta orbiter(s).

As someone else said, NC is an incredibly powerful tool. I went NC on a girl after I came to my senses and realised she was playing me in one way or another. Every couple of months she would try to reconnect and spent weeks messaging me daily even though I was ignoring her. Eventually I blocked her but it just goes to show how desperate girls can be.

[G1adi4t0r]

"Ignoring" girls was I game I played from ages 15-25. It is a game that generally nobody ever wins. Like others have said, you are building zero attraction with her and she only pursues you harder due to an ego validation thing on her end. Once you tone up the attention, her ego is validated and she ghosts you. This ignoring chit only possibly works if you're Chad.

Best strategy for most men is to be direct. Make a little bit of eye contact with her and look at her body language. If she looks down and away she is attracted. If she looks away while keeping eyes level then she is NOT attracted. If she's attracted just go up to her and say "Hi" and give her a simple compliment. Ask her for her name and talk to her for 2-3 minutes and then tell her "I'd like to see you again. Let's get drinks and talk some more". If she says yes then get your phone out and get to the new contacts screen and add her name in, then hand her your phone and have her put her number in. Done. Text her within a few days and ask her when she's free. When she gives you a time/day, propose a place to meet and ask if that works for her. If she says yes then you're all set. One the date just relax and let her do most of the talking and look for opportunities to touch her hands/arms, the small of her back, or maybe her legs. Just play it cool and at some point go in for a kiss and escalate your touching of her. At this point you can say anything along the lines of going back to her place or your place and she will either agree or will resist which means you end the night and try again on the next date. Do the same exact thing on the next date and she is far more likely to fuk you this time. If not, try a third date. If she resists at the third date then you two are done.

At any point, once you are inside her place or she's in yours you can escalate quite a bit as she already knows that sex is going to be happening. Escalate at whatever pace you're comfortable with and she will stop you if you're going too fast. Just back off a little and begin escalating again in 5-10 minutes. You'll be clappin them cheeks in no time.