Why does ignoring women work so much?

[Anubis18]

Unfortunately while it may work to keep them thinking about you, while you're ignoring her she'll be sleeping with the guys that chased her around

and obviously you can't completely "ignore" the girl and hope that your amazing looks will make her fall madly in love with you, you have to flirt with her a bit now and then to build some attraction, and then suddenly seem to lose interest

[orderoutofchaos]

This ignoring shyt always works too. They use all their might to stay relevant in your life like you're a god. Ignoring women is ultimate power. My dad ignores my mom and she's been addicted to him for 35 years. I know the game I learned from pops. Any man that constantly caters to a woman is a man that will have a broken heart

[johnreese86]

I think yes,
two years ago I was new to my job, one day a hot co-worker returned from maternity leave (yes she's married), that was the first time we see each others, from the first time she was looking at me, in fact I caught her looking at me several times. I wasn't into her, she's hot but I didn't feel any desire for her, but months passes and she's always hotter than ever. My bureau is on her way to the bathroom so she walks at least 3 times a day in front of my door, every time she stares at me, sometimes she smiles. With time I started to like her, I mean sexually, not emotionnally. Also with time we started knowing each others and talking as colleagues (we never had the chance to be alone, never).
I can assure you she's attracted to me, the way she looks is obvious.
I found myself more audacious to stare at her when she stares at me, until lately she doesn't stare that much, you know why? because I gave her attention.
3 days ago I sent her a ******** friendship request, and guess what? she ignored the request (I'm sure she noticed it), I immediately canceled the request, and started ignoring her when she passes by my bureau, I can't judge if it changed anything because I've been ignoring her since only 2 days, but I can feel her eyes looking at me seeking my attention. I'll keep it that way.

[BrahPlease]

that only works if you already are "friends" with a girl and shes not a total stranger AND you know she likes you.

"ignoring women" will get you 0 women in most cases.

[rawdawgg]

that only works if you already are "friends" with a girl and shes not a total stranger AND you know she likes you.

"ignoring women" will get you 0 women in most cases.

That's why you plant seeds (approach) and sprinkle a tad bit of fertilizer (attention) on them and after that, ignore them for a while. Then later you phuck the plant. Just don't overfertilize (give too much attention) or the seed will never sprout into a plant you can phuck.

[psychosylocibin]

nothing like a bunch of motherphukking 6'2 muscular white CHADS telling everyone how ignoring women will make them suddenly want you more.


yes, yes. I am sure if a 5'5" asian manlet ignoring women would mean women would suddenly flock to him.



just L - O phukking L

[estival]

That's why you plant seeds (approach) and sprinkle a tad bit of fertilizer (attention) on them and after that, ignore them for a while. Then later you phuck the plant. Just don't overfertilize (give too much attention) or the seed will never sprout into a plant you can phuck.

Too complicated, got my dick stuck in a petunia.

[Paulo]

Do you guys realized you bumped a 7 year old thread? I was going through and saw Sam08 and Tiffany and was like wtf????? Look at dates... 2009.

[JoshLogic]

nothing like a bunch of motherphukking 6'2 muscular white CHADS telling everyone how ignoring women will make them suddenly want you more

This make me lol in my office.

If you've slept with her and she's still attracted to you it will make them rip their hair out trying to get your attention. Even if they know what you're doing.

If they don't have an emotional connection and aren't very attracted to you they will laugh at your pettiness.

[Studi0sity]

I think it works better with girls rather than confident women. If a guy was ignoring me I would just assume he wasn't interested and quit.

What?? Don't you believe us?

Seriously if a guy is ignoring me I leave him to it. There's plenty of others who won't play the games. If he likes me he can show it, if he doesn't show it then he doesn't like me. Its simple.

I agree ^^^. It works on the same principle as my 2-Strike rule. If I don't receive a reply from girls/women to my 2 strikes (2 calls or 2 texts or 1 call + 1 text) that I take within a span of 10 to 15 days, I will take it as she is not interested. I will use my time to pursue other girls/women.

No reply = On Ignore List = Not Interested.

Being a man, I want to use my time productively and not waste my time playing games with a little girl. I am a strong opposer to the "game" and it turns me off.

[AgRyan]

Ignore girls I don't like which causes them to like (and bug) me more.

I give girls I like some attention to show them I like them, which causes them to like me less.

Fuk dis Erf.

[loverfitness1]

Doesn't work for every girl.

[Sawyer258]

Doesn't work after you meet them LOL

[GothOmelete]

Sometimes it works, I'd say the main thing is to not show any signs of neediness or insecurity when hanging out with her.

[Solomonlike]

nothing like a bunch of motherphukking 6'2 muscular white CHADS telling everyone how ignoring women will make them suddenly want you more.


yes, yes. I am sure if a 5'5" asian manlet ignoring women would mean women would suddenly flock to him.



just L - O phukking L

Brah, you've been on a roll lately. I'm dying over here! LMAO!

[FU3L]

It works on insecure women, as it plays on their insecurities and makes them go crazy over what possibly went wrong/if she did something/if she isn't pretty enough etc etc. They just have to know because their ego cannot handle it.

[LouieAlino]

Ok ok. I need help so I will explain everything. I'm courting this girl for like 2 and a half months now.. she had like 3 boyfriends that where ****ty. 2 to 3 days later after I asked her out for the first time, she was considering for me not to court her anymore. She said that, " you just found out I had a crush on you and instantly asked me out. I felt as if you were acting on impulse or rushed it. I'm not ready for a relationship I've been hurt too much and I might just dissapoint you". So I said that I really like her and I'm not gonna fall down that easy despite on what she has said.. so she made rules.. no holding hands, no kissing and no sex. For 3 months she said! Really? So everyday I walked her home with no physical contact. But I have notice during those night after I saw her she would be the first to msg me..we ate mostly everyday together when I was enrolled in college. I would rarely msg her every night but when I do she was very interested.. we had sex on the 3rd week or 4th.. she would come to my house b4 and just sit and draw while putting her head on my shoulder. And we will just lay in bed cuddling. Also she attacked me when we first made out. I would bring her food during those times when we we're at campus. I still don't msg her first or sometimes i do and she will call me to ask when is my class over. And when i do msg her I ask if she misses me because sometimes I would go home early and she will say "so much".. after the 3rd week of dating we've been having sex like crazy.. she still msgs me to know what I'm doing.. but recently we got into a fight.. and she threatened that me and her are over and she cried.. so I kinda panicked.. and talked and explained and tried to fix it. So yeah now we still dating. But she hasent been messaging me. So I msg her and said I was the only that needed to appologize and went out of my way to creatively say sorry. She said it was sweet. But the type of answer with no emotion. So today i got her a pair of shoes from michael khors at first she was in awe. Came back to my place and had sex. Also I put a little note on the box that really meant something. So I waited for her to msg me..but no msg.. recently after our fight she has been bragging about a few crushes of hers that she found attractive but never made any slut moves because of her certain loyalty to me she said.. now my question is.. is she testing me or do i ignore her like it ain't **** or she's playing games or losing her interest in me?

[Nedo]

Ok ok. I need help so I will explain everything. I'm courting this girl for like 2 and a half months now.. she had like 3 boyfriends that where ****ty. 2 to 3 days later after I asked her out for the first time, she was considering for me not to court her anymore. She said that, " you just found out I had a crush on you and instantly asked me out. I felt as if you were acting on impulse or rushed it. I'm not ready for a relationship I've been hurt too much and I might just dissapoint you". So I said that I really like her and I'm not gonna fall down that easy despite on what she has said.. so she made rules.. no holding hands, no kissing and no sex. For 3 months she said! Really? So everyday I walked her home with no physical contact. But I have notice during those night after I saw her she would be the first to msg me..we ate mostly everyday together when I was enrolled in college. I would rarely msg her every night but when I do she was very interested.. we had sex on the 3rd week or 4th.. she would come to my house b4 and just sit and draw while putting her head on my shoulder. And we will just lay in bed cuddling. Also she attacked me when we first made out. I would bring her food during those times when we we're at campus. I still don't msg her first or sometimes i do and she will call me to ask when is my class over. And when i do msg her I ask if she misses me because sometimes I would go home early and she will say "so much".. after the 3rd week of dating we've been having sex like crazy.. she still msgs me to know what I'm doing.. but recently we got into a fight.. and she threatened that me and her are over and she cried.. so I kinda panicked.. and talked and explained and tried to fix it. So yeah now we still dating. But she hasent been messaging me. So I msg her and said I was the only that needed to appologize and went out of my way to creatively say sorry. She said it was sweet. But the type of answer with no emotion. So today i got her a pair of shoes from michael khors at first she was in awe. Came back to my place and had sex. Also I put a little note on the box that really meant something. So I waited for her to msg me..but no msg.. recently after our fight she has been bragging about a few crushes of hers that she found attractive but never made any slut moves because of her certain loyalty to me she said.. now my question is.. is she testing me or do i ignore her like it ain't **** or she's playing games or losing her interest in me?

SMH, you already lost boyo. Sit tight, you have alot to learn. Apologies in advance for the onslaught that is shortly to ensue

[otakutrevan]

nothing like a bunch of motherphukking 6'2 muscular white CHADS telling everyone how ignoring women will make them suddenly want you more.


yes, yes. I am sure if a 5'5" asian manlet ignoring women would mean women would suddenly flock to him.



just L - O phukking L

You just need to ignore women harder. Try not even speaking to them ever again brah. They'll flock.

[LouieAlino]

SMH, you already lost boyo. Sit tight, you have alot to learn. Apologies in advance for the onslaught that is shortly to ensue

Yeah we "just" recently ****ed like twice in a row.. so what does that mean. Yesterday I just watched her shower from my phone but there is this thing that lingers in the back of my head.. note that were not official yet.

[kirkster501]

I don't mean to be rude to the women who have contributed to this thread with good intentions, but you guys would be wise to just disregard their input on this subject (this subject mind you, not others). Women don't know what they want themselves in this area don't understand their own emotions.

EVERY ex who ever dumped me or even where we mutually broke-up has tried to get me back after I accepted, moved on and generally ignored them. It typically takes six months or so to get to this stage. I have two women doing this to me now; blowing up my phone. I just disregard their messages or send a very short reply now and then but NEVER INITIATING. I even politely told them I am not interested in them any more and have a new GF and they still text me now and then 'miss you", "you were so wonderful" yada-yada-yada...

People (men or women) want WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE. Scarcity creates value. Time and distance lends a different perspective. When you are in a girl's face, chasing them and telling them how wonderful they are, buying them gifts etc they get bored. They have been told what a princess they are all their life and have developed a mindset that expects men to pursue them. Took me 30 years to understand this FACT. I am not a cold fish with my GF but I let her do most of the chasing now. It works. I love her and cherish her. But I let her make 80% of the effort.

[LouieAlino]

I don't mean to be rude to the women who have contributed to this thread with good intentions, but you guys would be wise to just disregard their input on this subject (this subject mind you, not others). Women don't know what they want themselves in this area don't understand their own emotions.

EVERY ex who ever dumped me or even where we mutually broke-up has tried to get me back after I accepted, moved on and generally ignored them. It typically takes six months or so to get to this stage. I have two women doing this to me now; blowing up my phone. I just disregard their messages or send a very short reply now and then but NEVER INITIATING. I even politely told them I am not interested in them any more and have a new GF and they still text me now and then 'miss you", "you were so wonderful" yada-yada-yada...

People (men or women) want WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE. Scarcity creates value. Time and distance lends a different perspective. When you are in a girl's face, chasing them and telling them how wonderful they are, buying them gifts etc they get bored. They have been told what a princess they are all their life and have developed a mindset that expects men to pursue them. Took me 30 years to understand this FACT. I am not a cold fish with my GF but I let her do most of the chasing now. It works. I love her and cherish her. But I let her make 80% of the effort.

You kinda just gave me the answer that I was looking for hahah

[iloveus]

Do you guys realized you bumped a 7 year old thread? I was going through and saw Sam08 and Tiffany and was like wtf????? Look at dates... 2009.

hnnnnnnnnnnnng @ Sam08

[FLChamp]

If you hit a girl in the playground, she might like you too. Certain things work for certain age brackets. A woman in her mid-late 20's is getting hip to all the BS (or should be). A 30/40 something year old woman is usually over it.

True, no one wants a wimpy, lovesick puppy. But, Ignoring a girl is childish behaviour. Just be a man. If you can't keep a chick interested w/o playing tactical mind games you really should be in RH.

Lol this woman gave you guys game over six years ago and you still don't get it.

nothing like a bunch of motherphukking 6'2 muscular white CHADS telling everyone how ignoring women will make them suddenly want you more.


yes, yes. I am sure if a 5'5" asian manlet ignoring women would mean women would suddenly flock to him.



just L - O phukking L

Have you had your sexual fantasy of being violently dicked down by someone matching that description realized yet? Christ.

[BORF897]

So, does this sort of thing work on "seemingly innocent" girls, like church girls and pastor's daughters (Obv. 18 and over, and not talking about the totally obviously rebellious ones)? I started ignoring a girl b/c I felt like I was too annoying, and lo and behold I ran into her at the store behind where I work (which is a solid 30 minute drive from where she lives). She said how are you, I said good, and went on my way. Actually wasn't even trying to be a jerk, just didn't know what to do. I know we'll see each other once a week, but I really don't know how to approach her, if at all. Like should I be alert to see if she's within a certain range of me or something?
On another note, are all these girls secretly waiting for a guy to take things to a sexual level, or are there still some girls who really are just sexually uninterested? When I was younger and in college, it didn't phase me one bit...but in a church and church event setting, it just seems weird and out of place (but come to think of it, my first girl was someone I met in church, soooo who knows).

[MHannibal]

lmao @ ignoring women to get them, how retarded have you got to be. At best you can interpret that as not appearing desperate.

[BORF897]

lmao @ ignoring women to get them, how retarded have you got to be. At best you can interpret that as not appearing desperate.

lol...actually...I was giving her space for my own sanity more than anything else, as I felt like there was no point. Lo and behold, now she shows up basically to where I work...and tries to initiate conversation. That fact alone got me curious as to why, hence why I'm here So it certainly gets their attention. Since giving her attention without getting anywhere was driving me nuts, I thought it was the right thing to do. not saying it works on everyone, but it certainly works sometimes. Also, I think the concept if ignorance is very misunderstood. It's basically saying, I tried, I want you, but I can't obsess over you, so I'll try my hand at other things (realizing that may have a double meaning there :-) )

[MHannibal]

It's basically saying, I tried, I want you, but I can't obsess over you, so I'll try my hand at other things (realizing that may have a double meaning there :-) )

Most people understand this as being a functioning human being.

[BORF897]

Most people understand this as being a functioning human being.

The problem is that when you stop obsessing, they obsess, and that's where I'm needing help I guess? Granted, you're from UK, so intergender dynamics are probably different from the U.S. Though most U.S. women I know are obsessed with British men before even meeting them. So, probably the accent. Accents are less boring. Thanks, figured it out now.

[CT2018]

I guess there's a difference between ignoring and restrictive communication. Also it depends at what stage of the game you are with any given girl.