I dated this girl for two months, we had some great times. We stopped talking recently after some fights, I tried to call once, and that's it. Basically it's been a week since we spoke and I have accepted that it's over, because in the back of my mind I always knew it wouldn't work out in the end.
I have no bitter feelings for this girl though, and I would like to be cool with her. I was thinking about sending her some yellow roses saying I want to be cool with her still. Will this piss her off since I'm the one making the friend's suggestion?
(No AFC)(No one-itis) We have mutual friend's and I really want to get along with her.
01-18-2009, 01:17 PM #1
Does it mess with a girl's head when you tell them you just want to be friends?Stop using the word alpha until you understand what the fck it means. You sound like an idiot.
01-18-2009, 01:22 PM #2
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01-18-2009, 01:27 PM #3
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No roses. that's just weird and desperate.
Romance is dead for you kids. Sorry to be the pessimist, but I think most will agree. Unless you're in a LTR and the feeling of love is MUTUAL, or the girl is jocking you on stalker status, little things like roses and **** are just borderline desperate.
Yes, telling a girl you just wanna be friends messes with their heads.
when they're 18 and you came on strong first then just suddenly "wanna be friends".
sometimes it makes them try harder to get in YOUR pants.
good ol reverse psychology and abusing it to exploit womens self-esteem issues
01-18-2009, 02:38 PM #4Stop using the word alpha until you understand what the fck it means. You sound like an idiot.
01-18-2009, 02:56 PM #5
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Yes, if you were in a sexual relationship with a girl then tell her you just want to be friends, it will totally mess with her head. She'll wonder what she did wrong, she'll question how good she is in bed, she'll fret over what's wrong with her that you don't want her to be your girlfriend. But it sounds like you two broke up first, and becoming friends after a break-up isn't always the easiest thing to do.
If you send roses, it will look like you're trying to get her back.**** Atheist Alliance ****
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01-18-2009, 03:28 PM #6
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