How to deal with this?

[SmackMyDerb]

So I'd been gaming this girl for a couple weeks and I slept with her for the first time last Saturday (a week ago). Then all of a sudden, she doesn't text me, IM me or call me anymore (she used to almost everyday). I realize that it was a busy week for both of us (xmas and whatnot), but still it's kind of bothering me. We spoke yesterday over IM and our conversation was very short.

What do you guys suggest I do? Ignore her as long as possible and make her miss me or try to initiate conversation with her again? Keep in mind that I'm trying to make her a FWB, not a GF.

[tonymar]

Just play it cool (always the best thing to do.) She probably is afraid you're going to get attached to her just cuz ya'll fuked. Keep it cool and you may get a nice fb out of it.

[tid-bit06_old]

FWB are there for convienience. If you have something to say to her, let her know, being the "friend" part of it. Otherwise, it's just sex. I had some issue with my FWB, but came to realize our situation for what it really is, and let **** drop.

Does she know that you guys are in this situation, or are you just in the beginning of setting it up?

[ImFromDuval]

Originally Posted by SmackMyDerb

So I'd been gaming this girl for a couple weeks and I slept with her for the first time last Saturday (a week ago). Then all of a sudden, she doesn't text me, IM me or call me anymore (she used to almost everyday). I realize that it was a busy week for both of us (xmas and whatnot), but still it's kind of bothering me. We spoke yesterday over IM and our conversation was very short.

What do you guys suggest I do? Ignore her as long as possible and make her miss me or try to initiate conversation with her again? Keep in mind that I'm trying to make her a FWB, not a GF.

Maybe you sucked in bed.... I say just ignore her. Bro the power of ignoring a girl can go pretty far trust me. I had to do it to a couple of "friends" of mine. They always come back