Appreciate the advice. While I believe AA, meetings, and sponsors can be wonderful things, I don't necessarily think that they are the only path to recovery. I guess I'll be finding out.Originally Posted by cowboybiker
The only thing consistant in life is change.
Sounds like your very positive about this change.
Many people have to go through the 5 stages of grief to get there.
Yes, people grieve over there addiction. It feels like loss.
Like all the free time you have now aquired.
I would suggest planing out your day for awhile to fill your time with positive things to do.
Welcome to recovery. The only requirment for membership is the desire to quit drinking/using.
So heres my advice.
1. Go to meetings.
2. Dont drink/ use inbetween meetings.
3. Get a sponsor.
4. Do the steps. cause the rcovery elevator is broken.
5. Be of service.
Hope this helps.
steve
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09-28-2011, 06:04 AM #4261Crypto-Theist Shill
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'On many levels, mathematics itself operates as Whiteness. Who gets credit for doing and developing mathematics, who is capable in mathematics, and who is seen as part of the mathematical community is generally viewed as White' - Rochelle Gutierrez, Professor of Mathematics at the University of Illinois.
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09-28-2011, 08:16 AM #4262Damn, it's good to be me!
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Welcome. Good for you that you are taking this big step.Originally Posted by lasher
You're right, AA is not the only way. I know of several people who have umpteen years of stable, solid, quality recovery without ever having stepped into the rooms of AA.
Me, I needed the structure, guidance, tools, camaraderie, influence, accountability, sponsorship and belonging that I got from being a member of AA. Left to my own devices had got me in the mess I was in. I didn't trust myself to find my own way. I had to listen and be willing to do what was asked of me. I was scared and knew I didn't want to drink any longer. All that AA offered me, helped me get out of myself and focus on a much bigger picture besides my own drama and problems. I was absolutely sick of being caught up in self and feeling/acting like a victim. It felt good to take responsibility. I am so grateful for how I grew from giving up control, surrendering and allowing others with good sobriety to guide me. I can't say enough about having a program, working it and having fellowship with other sober people. It taught me how to live, and I am a completely different person because of it, and for that I am very grateful.
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09-28-2011, 08:39 AM #4263Riding 2 horses w/1 butt
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Motivational without being too preachy:
http://www.t-nation.com/free_online_...recent/choices
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09-28-2011, 09:15 AM #4264Registered User
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For me, I come away from meetings (NA) typically with some sense of peace. They center me for some reason. I also think the 12 steps is probably one of the best self-help programs out there and is needed by probably 90% of the planet's population. Everyone has to choose their own path and for any of us, it is foolish to reject a tool, particularly if it isn't exclusionary. Remember, we carry a tool BOX of recovery tools, not just a single tool. Staying clean and loving it.
I've had enough cheese; now get me out of this trap.
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09-28-2011, 06:11 PM #4265Saved
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Hi all. Hope everyone is doing well. Still clean and sober here. 7 years, 2 months, 23 days (but who's counting?
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Jesus is my lifting partner.
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09-28-2011, 06:12 PM #4266Goal..do my best
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Welcome to the sober group here!!!Originally Posted by lasher
Only thing to do is keep an open mind. Possibilities.
Volunteering is a fantastic thing to do to keep busy.
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09-28-2011, 06:13 PM #4267Goal..do my best
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You are hehe. keep it up!Originally Posted by GreenWave1
Hi all. Hope everyone is doing well. Still clean and sober here. 7 years, 2 months, 23 days (but who's counting? ).stick with it and it WILL pay off
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09-29-2011, 08:53 AM #4268Riding 2 horses w/1 butt
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I used to love the fall and now it and early winter are the hardest times of the year for me (relatively I'm anxious damn near every day of the year). I work really hard to do my hobbies, keep face time with my friends and family and not slow down when I drive by the liquor store.
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09-30-2011, 06:54 AM #4269Riding 2 horses w/1 butt
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What's the hardest part of your day?
For me it's the mornings. When I get up, especially when the house is empty, I have to decide if I'm going to control my demons or they're going to control me. On the flip side evening is the best. I read my kids a book during bedtime and lie down with them for awhile. I get quality face time with my wife and I don't feel anxious while passing the time.
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09-30-2011, 07:00 AM #4270Registered User
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CT great to have you back. Sometimes relapse is part of our learning experience but all that counts is that you are back and working Being back, clean and intact is all that counts. We're cheering for you on this side.Originally Posted by CrazyTall
I've had enough cheese; now get me out of this trap.
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09-30-2011, 07:34 PM #4271Progress not Perfection
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Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. – Thomas Jefferson
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10-01-2011, 02:39 AM #4272Registered User
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Long hours and long commute leaves me just enough time for sleep.This thread really helps me and you are all on my mind daily,so sorry I'm not doing my part by posting.I'm feeling damn good though and staying sober.Congrats to all of you who had recent birthdays,you help me stay the course.Bless you all and stay strong.
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10-01-2011, 05:48 AM #4273Registered User
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Hope everyone is having a safe and sober weekend.
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10-01-2011, 07:28 AM #4274The show goes on
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getting over a cold
which back in my using days was an excuse to stay wasted for several days self medicating.
feel good today
clean and sober since april 10 1989!!
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10-01-2011, 08:24 AM #4275Registered User
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Rock, if you are staying clean and sober, that is the best gift you can give all of us. Keep up all your hard work. We know how hard you are trying because we've all been there.Originally Posted by rockminer
I've had enough cheese; now get me out of this trap.
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10-01-2011, 05:14 PM #4276Goal..do my best
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One last call to Mutt
ARE YOU OUT THERE!!!!!!!!!
He did rehab and checked in one time if I remember right
then vanished. Anybody in contact with him?
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10-01-2011, 05:19 PM #4277
Hope everybody's having a good and sober weekend!
Those who do not move, do not notice their chains. Rosa Luxemburg
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10-01-2011, 06:28 PM #4278Progress not Perfection
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Just checking in to say thank you all for being a part of my recovery
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. – Thomas Jefferson
Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken. - Oscar Wilde
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10-02-2011, 05:37 AM #4279Registered User
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Didn't he check into another place though? Like a halfway house or another tc? I could be wrong though. I think of him often and hope he checks in!Originally Posted by vindex1963
~Beth
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10-02-2011, 06:08 AM #4280kant spel
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You are welcome, but I thought you were part of my recoveryOriginally Posted by cowboybiker
Just checking in to say thank you all for being a part of my recovery
"It really is as simple as Eat, Lift, Sleep, Repeat". Buckspin
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10-02-2011, 05:33 PM #4281Saved
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Originally Posted by cowboybiker
Just checking in to say thank you all for being a part of my recoveryThat's weird. I thought you guys were part of MY recovery. Hmmm.Originally Posted by muttytwist
You are welcome, but I thought you were part of my recovery
Jesus is my lifting partner.
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10-02-2011, 07:32 PM #4282Goal..do my best
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Yes he did and I thought he compleated that because he came on here one time saying he was going to the half way house and that was it.Originally Posted by GirLInterrupted
I too think of him often.
Originally Posted by muttytwist
You are welcome, but I thought you were part of my recoveryWe all are...and that's funny.Originally Posted by cowboybiker
Just checking in to say thank you all for being a part of my recoverystick with it and it WILL pay off
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10-05-2011, 08:55 AM #4283Registered User
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Sounds good.Now I just need to force in some gym time.Shoulders have been killing me.Originally Posted by Twineagles
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10-05-2011, 09:08 AM #4284Progress not Perfection
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Glad to see you around.Originally Posted by rockminer
Keep up the good work.
And good luck with the shoulder issue.
Mine acts up now and then.Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. – Thomas Jefferson
Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken. - Oscar Wilde
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10-05-2011, 10:47 PM #4285Executive Culinary OG
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Hey guys, saw a link to this thread in the regular misk
Today is my 60 day. I'd rather not divulge too much information about it for many, many reasons though. If you would really like to know, you can PM me though
Everyone be safe*Chefbrah Crew*
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10-06-2011, 04:24 AM #4286Registered User
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Congratulations to you and welcome.Originally Posted by ChefPhalBignuts
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10-06-2011, 05:37 AM #4287Progress not Perfection
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Congrats on 60 days.Originally Posted by ChefPhalBignuts
Glad you could join us.Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. – Thomas Jefferson
Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken. - Oscar Wilde
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10-06-2011, 11:00 AM #4288Damn, it's good to be me!
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Welcome and congrats to you on 60 days. That is a major accomplishment.Originally Posted by ChefPhalBignuts
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10-06-2011, 11:09 AM #4289Registered User
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Checking in at 3 1/2 months or so. Still sober and rockin it. Hope everyone is doing fine in their sobriety and otherwise.
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Great job, I picked up 3 month chip last week....Originally Posted by skarotum
No more research on my own....
Staying in touch with others as well as my sponsor; that's what I'm doing differently this time!
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