mother in-laws or girlfriends mothers, take your pick. i moved in with my wife and her mom when we got married. she was cool before that, but once we said i do, she became a nut job. their names are on the house but we all agreed i was the man of the house. my wife and do 85% of the work around house. all we ask her to do is take care of two rabbits, sweep upstairs and kitchen. wife and i have all of basement (we live down there with 13 cats), dining room, attached garage (trying to turn into a reck room) and all of the yard work as well as house upkeep. plus i pay 3/4 of the house bills, therefore, the house is mine. she doesn't view it that way, so she does whatever she can to piss me off.
just last friday she pissed me off so bad i punched the wall. bad part was it had boards behind it so now my hand is jacked and i don't know when it'll heal.
anyone have similar problems? i think i'm going to go and invest in a punching bag tomorrow and paint her face on it.
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12-01-2008, 12:03 AM #1Registered User
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hate mother in-laws
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 12:05 AM #2Registered User
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ouch.
You've gotta be straight up and talk to her.
If you've tried that talk to your wife. She'll understand, especially if you're paying for that much.
A punching bag might be useful
But out of curiousity... WHY so many pets?!?**Never look down on someone, unless you're helping them up**
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12-01-2008, 12:12 AM #3boys we got problem
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I deal with people like this 30 hours a week.
Heavy bag ftw.Loggage:
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12-01-2008, 12:16 AM #4Registered User
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12 of the cats were my wife's when i moved in. then i chose one. two of hers died this year so we replaced them. she used to foster them for apl but ended up keeping some. we also have two rabbits and two dogs. my wife knows and is on my side. have tried talking to her mother but refuses to co-operate with us.Originally Posted by kickchickbecca
ouch.
You've gotta be straight up and talk to her.
If you've tried that talk to your wife. She'll understand, especially if you're paying for that much.
A punching bag might be useful
But out of curiousity... WHY so many pets?!?no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 12:47 AM #5Registered User
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if she's dead she can't annoy u......just sayin lolOriginally Posted by 1ryuuko
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12-01-2008, 12:57 AM #6Registered User
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u have no idea how many times i've thought of different scenarios. i just can't bring myself to go through with it, hehe.Originally Posted by nflballer4ever
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 02:51 AM #7Registered User
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Yell. Believe it or not, when you seem like an *******, people listen. I don't know if you want her to have that view of you or not, though.
I don't really care about bulks. I'd much rather be a strong small guy than a big guy that looks all puffed up.
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12-01-2008, 03:16 AM #8Banned
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i believe it is mothers-in-law... not sure though
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12-01-2008, 10:55 AM #9Registered User
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i have yelled numerous times and it does not help at all for some reason.Originally Posted by CamaroLad
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 11:00 AM #10Banned
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My girlfriends mother actually loves me, I don't now why but she's always asking me if a I need anything and hugs me a lot...
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12-01-2008, 11:05 AM #11Registered User
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You need to get out of that situation fast. She obviously doesn't feel you are good enough. Either you and the wife need to leave or she needs to leave.
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12-01-2008, 03:36 PM #12Registered User
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we're trying to work on getting credit bills paid off enough for us to buy a different house.Originally Posted by frgpnce
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 03:38 PM #13Registered User
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her mom did the same thing to me before we got married. she was real clingy. when we got married she turned into the wicked witch from the east always causing problems.Originally Posted by BluePowerRanger
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 03:39 PM #14Official spoon curl champ
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if you pay all the bills tell her to piss off or you're going to move out. If you have to move out, rent until you are financially stable enough to buy a house
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12-01-2008, 03:58 PM #15The King Hysteria
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I find the mums are always easy to sweet talk and that, but I sea what you're going through. If you've already talked it out with her and your wife, and she's still acting like a brat, then you could always just have a talk with the two of you and ask her why she's acting the way she is. She could just be insecure and worry that you're taking her daughter away from her, which would explain why she's acting out so much. Older people tend to act like younger children, as hard as that is to believe.
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12-01-2008, 09:36 PM #16Registered User
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there is no place that is big enough or that will allow as many pets as we have.Originally Posted by misterwaterfall
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-01-2008, 09:46 PM #17Registered User
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get ride of the pets who the f*ck really wants 13 cats anyways.Originally Posted by 1ryuuko
Tell her her name's on the house she can take care of it and it's bills.
once they shut off all the utilities you should get attention
ps why are you posting in teens?Good Luck. But luck has nothing to do with it.
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12-01-2008, 10:19 PM #18Official spoon curl champ
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THISOriginally Posted by SpaceForRent
who wants that many cats?E-Stats and gym lifts
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12-01-2008, 10:38 PM #19Registered User
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your 24. why you asking teens about problems with in laws???
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12-01-2008, 11:36 PM #20Big Builder
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leave her and go to ur own apartment.
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12-01-2008, 11:44 PM #21Registered User
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wtf?
24?
teen section?
cats?
buy a house and man up
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12-02-2008, 12:24 AM #22Registered User
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the only other section i found was for over 35 and i'm clearly not that old. having that many cats ain't that bad. they keep me warm at night and they all love attention. i prefer dogs (and we have two) but we don;t have room for more than that.Originally Posted by SpaceForRent
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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12-02-2008, 12:26 AM #23Registered User
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tell me where the section for people 20 and older is and i will. and i think in competitions they allow up around age 23 for the teen section.Originally Posted by alask-ian
no matter what you use (weights, machines, body weight, etc.) or how low a weight you use, it's better than nothing.
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