girl stood me up..wtf

SmackMyDerb · 11-25-2008, 10:53 PM

I dated this girl like 2 years ago (for a very short time), it was nothing serious or anything, and we split. We basically didn't talk for those 2 years except a few times. Anyways, about a month ago, we started talking again (phone and MSN, she always initiates conversation) and I found out she had a BF and they,ve been dating for almost a year, but she kept talking to me anyways and being veryy flirty.

Last week, she broke up with her BF and the next day we made plans for us to chill. We hung out on Monday, I went to her house, watched a movie, she made me food. We made out but nothing more.. I ended up staying there all day chilling with her and we made plans to go to the movies on night after. I forgot something at her house the day before that I needed for work so I had to go get it from her house in the morning.

When I go get it, I find out that her ex is giving her a ride to school that day (she skipped half the day) which kind of pissed me off at the same time but I didnt really give a ****. Before leaving I told her to call me tonight for the movies so we can meet up (she always calls me). Well, she never called me or texted me or anythign, I didn't hear from her all day. The weird thing is she suggested we go to the movies and she was so excited for it. I said **** it and went out with some friends, had a good time. I tried calling her at around 10:00 to see what's up but no answer. I was so fcuking PISSED cause she's the first person to ever stand me up and it's really a bitch move.

Any advice here? What excuse could she have for not calling all day, at least just to say that she can't make it? Could it be something with her ex? What should I do? Either way, I'm gonna wait for her to call me but it makes me pretty angry.

CLIFFS
- Girl I like breaks up with BF. She invites me over the week after and we make out.
- Made plans to go to movies with her
- She was supposed to call me to let me know when shes coming
- Never got a call from her.
- Have a feeling something happened with her and her ex
- Went out anyway but still pissed cause I got stood up.
- What should I do?

Also this girl is easily an HB7.5-8 and not a slut and usually not one to play games, which is why I like her. My tiny reps will go out to anyone with a serious response.

ehayes · 11-25-2008, 10:54 PM

1. Should be in relationship section
2. I dont bother with chicks that try to play games like that, especially with ex's in the picture unless you're just looking for a quick hookup.

Dysfunqtional · 11-25-2008, 10:54 PM

don't call/talk to her and see if she lets you know what happened, if not she isn't worth your time.

ObsidianSG1 · 11-25-2008, 10:55 PM

Wait until she contacts you, set up another date, if she flakes again ditch her ass.

Shes not worth your time if she cant make simple plans

New_York · 11-25-2008, 10:55 PM

Let her explain herself but chances are she hooked up with her ex. But be ready to move on and forget her, if you already haven't.

pwoL · 11-25-2008, 10:56 PM

shes prolly gettin drilled in her ass right now, sorry

Anubis18 · 11-25-2008, 10:56 PM

she's havin sex with her ex and she doesn't want to tell you yet

pandaemon666 · 11-25-2008, 10:56 PM

find out the truth behind the situation. someone who's just broken up with their ex, especially if it's at the end of a long term relationship, is a total no-go. chances are the bitch is back with whoever she left in the first place.

although... if for some reason you do get another chance to sex her for whatever reason (ie she stood you hup for honest reasons, leaves her bf again etc.) you can always take pics and keep them handy. then send it to said bf if she goes back to him.