How do you handle those dinner situations?

[$w!ft]

Say you are at a dinner from your uncle or you parents and there are maybe 10-15 people and maybe some daughters or whatever that are 18-25 years old.

Or even at a dinner at your friends house who's brought like 7-8 people you don't know (your age)

So I just start talking to the girls about my life, my university, where I lived, my internships, what country I'm from what languages I speak, what I want to do in the future, interesting stories blah blah we exchange this kind of information.

Is this completely the wrong way to approach girls that you might want to get with in this situation?

They always show interest and we exchange numbers, but I've never taken it further because I move around (countries) often and just forgot to call.

It feels wrong to start flirting immediately and would just be awkward, but I know you have to show interest immediately.

Does anyone get where im coming from? Any advice?

[tonymar]

I'm not sure what you're asking or what your goal is. From the sound of it, you're doing everything right, but then you stop once the girl shows interest. Maybe that's the problem, maybe you're not sure what you want out of the interactions. I'd suggest taking things to the next level with some of the girls whose numbers you have and see what happens. That can mean going out for a drink, having them over w/ some other friends to hang out, or whatever... but you should definitely try moving forward w/ some of these girls in some way.

[$w!ft]

What I mean is that, is introducing yourself in this way correct, or should I be trying to flirt with them sooner?

or is this the perfect setup for like hey you wanna go out later on tonight? or something

[sensetarget]

I think I understand what your saying.

No man theres nothing wrong with being yourself and actually being interested in their bg ect. YOu can allready go into the talking about yourselves, because she sees you as no threat. After awhile, just tell them its been fun, exchange numbers. Call sometimes later and setup something.

Get my game?

[tonymar]

Originally Posted by $w!ft

What I mean is that, is introducing yourself in this way correct, or should I be trying to flirt with them sooner?

or is this the perfect setup for like hey you wanna go out later on tonight? or something

Sounds to me like you have the natural ability to talk with women. No need to overthink it. Flirting might not even be necessary for you (again depends on your goals) but if you want to flirt then you can start anytime. Sometimes I flirt with girls before I even talk to them by making funny faces at them or making fun of someone/something nearby.

[TestosteronePL]

[$w!ft]

Originally Posted by TestosteronePL

Been there done that

































jk