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    Don't Give Women Attention - That's all they want

    you find that, women will get sick of a guy who gives them alot of attention

    but if you make your attention worthwhile and valuable, then they will seek it

    example - hot HB9/HB10, who expects attention from any guy cause she is so attractive, but if u r the odd guy who doesn't give it. she'll be thinking "WTF?"

    is this true?
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    no. they aren't put off attention, attention shows a guy is into them which they do like. what puts them off is sensing needy/girly guys.
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    You have to give her attention at first and make her want more of it. You can be the first one to leave the date during its peak moment and do tricks like that to make her want more. Don't reveal everything about you and just flirt. With withdraw your attention after that date and let her be the one calling and chasing you. If she does it - reward her with your attention. Its like training a dog.
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    Originally Posted by tranceaddict View Post
    you find that, women will get sick of a guy who gives them alot of attention

    but if you make your attention worthwhile and valuable, then they will seek it

    example - hot HB9/HB10, who expects attention from any guy cause she is so attractive, but if u r the odd guy who doesn't give it. she'll be thinking "WTF?"

    is this true?
    I have been in situations where a hot girl has been hit on by most guys that evening but where I haven't directly and obviously hit on her and she starts ignoring a bit the other guys that are hitting on her but instead wanted to talk with me that evening. We build up comfort when the other AFCs are trying to get her attracted to them. WTF AFCs! Then when I had to leave the seen I asked for her contact info and did get everything and she like asked where we should go out on our first date so don't be like the AFCs and affraid of the other guys as they r so dumb! I think I also answered you question there...
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    Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB View Post
    You have to give her attention at first and make her want more of it. You can be the first one to leave the date during its peak moment and do tricks like that to make her want more. Don't reveal everything about you and just flirt. With withdraw your attention after that date and let her be the one calling and chasing you. If she does it - reward her with your attention. Its like training a dog.
    LOL @ "Its like training a dog."
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    women want things they can't have or have to try to obtain, if every guy will do anything for her wats the sense in wanting something they already have.
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    Yes and no. You have to make them earn your attention. Which means you have to take it away. If you just give it and give it and give it then that will turn them off.
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    Originally Posted by Fendi View Post
    no. they aren't put off attention, attention shows a guy is into them which they do like. what puts them off is sensing needy/girly guys.
    girly guys are actually popular with girls, girls often times want to **** gay guys the most lol year 2008 things have changed greatly doesn't mean go out and act like a girly guy when thats not how you are but just sayin. Being needy is a turn off for anyone, some girls don't care about attention some girls just want to dominant you there's all diff. types of girls some who just want to use you as well.

    No ignoring a girl won't work on all girls. Some girls will just ignore you as well and then when you try to talk to them they won't talk to you no more it's called cutting you out, they go talk to the girls and they tell her you are worthless and how there is other guys this just how girls cope with it.
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    Its somewhat true. I tried that on 2 chicks - different occassions of course(one is hot, one is so so). I told them that I have no time to hang out with them, they went crazy.

    And I swear, the hot one was willing to break up with her bf to be with me, she said its the first time a guy didnt show interest to her. She was courting me. lol. Im not lying! I didnt go to her cuz I got a gf at that time, and cheating is not in my list.
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    Why is it that most of the men in the misc think they have to play freakin head games with women?? How bout ya try being yourself and find a girl who compliments that instead of trying to act "macho" for one chick to get her in bed, "shy" for a different chick to get her into bed.....cripe, you say women play games?!

    And back to the OP, girls definitely will get bored if the attention is poured on thick, it'd be like getting roses every single day, eventually we're just like, "oh look, more roses" instead of it being a random thing and t hen it is a suprirse. So, if you're coming on to us ALL the time, we sort of tune it out after a while, it gets old, boring, not spontaneous........and it has to get old for you guys after a while too no?
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    OP has the right idea.

    Keep yourself scarce and vague to give your presence more value. Constantly change your moods and behavior as to not become boring or predictable. The harder she tries to understand you, the more infatuated she will become with the mystery you weave in her mind. Be very careful to avoid establishing any concrete opinions or beliefs; these are extremely anti-seductive. Make her wonder what is going on in your head, and when she thinks she has you figured out, do something completely unexpected to throw her back to square one.
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    Originally Posted by sirengrl1106 View Post
    Why is it that most of the men in the misc think they have to play freakin head games with women?? How bout ya try being yourself and find a girl who compliments that instead of trying to act "macho" for one chick to get her in bed, "shy" for a different chick to get her into bed.....cripe, you say women play games?!
    Men HAVE to play games to beat women at their own games. The only difference is that it's subconscious (pre-programmed) into women. Men have to learn.

    The only reason I can see you saying something like the above is because you may be only of the very few women that don't play games. But then again, you may not even know you are playing games...

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    Yes for some reason this is what works... when you ignore them (serious)
    I get turned off when I'm given too much attention.
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    Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB View Post
    You have to give her attention at first and make her want more of it. You can be the first one to leave the date during its peak moment and do tricks like that to make her want more. Don't reveal everything about you and just flirt. With withdraw your attention after that date and let her be the one calling and chasing you. If she does it - reward her with your attention. Its like training a dog.
    Leaving like that could actually be rude. To tell you the honest truth, if you use circumstances as your means of becoming distracted, it becomes natural. But if your arse has to sit there and figure out when to bail, it's going to seem timed, and stupid.

    People do these things consciously and don't realize if you just do it naturally, it's then that this works.
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    Women have very little respect for men they can manipulate like a puppet or lead around by their noses... which, incidentally is quite a lot of men.

    You must make a conscious effort to not give off this impression, even though she's the woman of your dreams and you'd do anything just to be near her.

    You never want to give away your power in a relationship. And your power comes from your independence... or (AT LEAST)the impression of independence you present.

    And there's a very good chance she will "test" you on this quality many times. Women do not fall for guys who put them up on some kind of pedestal and worship them as a goddess. That's way too much pressure for her to deal with on an ongoing basis.

    Remember, she's looking for a man who is at least the equal(ALWAYS DISPLAY HIGH VALUE) to her... and preferably someone she can look up to and respect. So concentrate on not giving off any kind of submissive "vibes" and you'll be way ahead of most guys out there. And way way closer to getting the woman that you really want to really want you back.
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    Originally Posted by pondus_levo View Post
    Men HAVE to play games to beat women at their own games. The only difference is that it's subconscious (pre-programmed) into women. Men have to learn.

    The only reason I can see you saying something like the above is because you may be only of the very few women that don't play games. But then again, you may not even know you are playing games...

    (serious)
    Not gonna lie, I was one of those women who did back when I was in college, but realized later in life that it didn't really get me as far as I had thought. Same goes for men who play games too. It's not that you need to play games in order to win over a woman, it's that you're choosing the wrong kind of woman. If i were single right now, (which I'm not) I would end any contact with a man who started playing games with me, and I can smell it a mile away. (Probably from reading so much of the misc section).

    If the men who are playing games are really only out for a piece of tail, then fine, play all the games you want just don't later then expect to start some serious relationship with the girl.
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    Originally Posted by sirengrl1106 View Post
    Not gonna lie, I was one of those women who did back when I was in college, but realized later in life that it didn't really get me as far as I had thought. Same goes for men who play games too. It's not that you need to play games in order to win over a woman, it's that you're choosing the wrong kind of woman. If i were single right now, (which I'm not) I would end any contact with a man who started playing games with me, and I can smell it a mile away. (Probably from reading so much of the misc section).

    If the men who are playing games are really only out for a piece of tail, then fine, play all the games you want just don't later then expect to start some serious relationship with the girl.
    I disagree to an extent.

    I greatly value the knowledge and skills I have developed from playing 'the game' with women. It's an excellent way to learn how to influence people and get them to do what you want which can be used in every facet of interpersonal communication.

    To me seducing women is like the ultimate challenge. If I can manage to get a woman into bed through my charms, then convincing an employer to hire me or convincing a bank for a loan is childsplay in comparison.
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    Originally Posted by Illiad View Post
    I disagree to an extent.

    I greatly value the knowledge and skills I have developed from playing 'the game' with women. It's an excellent way to learn how to influence people and get them to do what you want which can be used in every facet of interpersonal communication.

    To me seducing women is like the ultimate challenge. If I can manage to get a woman into bed through my charms, then convincing an employer to hire me or convincing a bank for a loan is childsplay in comparison.
    Well playing "the game" is way different in my opinion than just playing games with women. There is an art to honing in on how to swoon a woman. But, if it's just, let me pretend to be Mr. So and So just so she hops into bed, that's totally different.
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    Originally Posted by joelz54_99 View Post
    It all depends on the girl and situation.
    X2. Just about every time I order a drink from a bar and there is a girl next to me, you can just tell they are just dying for you to make a move so they can shut you down. I usually just grab my drink and watch the TV or talk to the bartender. Most of the time, the girls will end up asking you a question like if you're there by yourself of some other random ****. Once they do that, the hard part is over. But yeah, it all depends on the girl and the situation. Nothing works every time. In my experience though, the less attention you pay to a chick the harder she will try to get you to pay more.
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    Originally Posted by sirengrl1106 View Post
    Well playing "the game" is way different in my opinion than just playing games with women. There is an art to honing in on how to swoon a woman. But, if it's just, let me pretend to be Mr. So and So just so she hops into bed, that's totally different.
    No, its actually the same thing.

    All a guy has to show is that he is not easy to get and its her personality and care for him that will get him gradually if she puts effort into it.

    Its very difficult to find balance of how far take this concept. Some girls would do what other girls would never do.
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    Originally Posted by Illiad View Post
    OP has the right idea.

    Keep yourself scarce and vague to give your presence more value. Constantly change your moods and behavior as to not become boring or predictable. The harder she tries to understand you, the more infatuated she will become with the mystery you weave in her mind. Be very careful to avoid establishing any concrete opinions or beliefs; these are extremely anti-seductive. Make her wonder what is going on in your head, and when she thinks she has you figured out, do something completely unexpected to throw her back to square one.
    Changing moods like that = bipolar. I can't see how that would work. You could freak her out.
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    Originally Posted by sirengrl1106 View Post
    Why is it that most of the men in the misc think they have to play freakin head games with women?? How bout ya try being yourself and find a girl who compliments that instead of trying to act "macho" for one chick to get her in bed, "shy" for a different chick to get her into bed.....cripe, you say women play games?!

    And back to the OP, girls definitely will get bored if the attention is poured on thick, it'd be like getting roses every single day, eventually we're just like, "oh look, more roses" instead of it being a random thing and t hen it is a suprirse. So, if you're coming on to us ALL the time, we sort of tune it out after a while, it gets old, boring, not spontaneous........and it has to get old for you guys after a while too no?
    Christ -- your first paragraph condemns men for being weird, your second is about how women are turned off by guys being consistently nice.

    No, no -- no reason why that might make a man crazy.
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    Originally Posted by KP7 View Post
    Yes for some reason this is what works... when you ignore them (serious)
    I get turned off when I'm given too much attention.
    Oh come on -- women love attention.

    There is no magic recipe for what will work. As with everything regarding women, you have to have be perfect at the perfect time in the perfect way for the perfect duration for the perfect moment. Anything less than that fails.

    As for the OP's assertion, I think it is best to just be yourself. If she is interesting, give her attention. Otherwise, ignore her until she gets drunk and is likely to allow penises into her major bodily orifices.
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    Originally Posted by tranceaddict View Post
    you find that, women will get sick of a guy who gives them alot of attention

    but if you make your attention worthwhile and valuable, then they will seek it

    example - hot HB9/HB10, who expects attention from any guy cause she is so attractive, but if u r the odd guy who doesn't give it. she'll be thinking "WTF?"

    is this true?
    AMEN. What I have done for the past 2 years, is straight up ignor females, they hate it, and love/hate me for it. Its quit fun to watch them get all frizzled frazzled over not being oggled.
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    Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB View Post
    You have to give her attention at first and make her want more of it. You can be the first one to leave the date during its peak moment and do tricks like that to make her want more. Don't reveal everything about you and just flirt. With withdraw your attention after that date and let her be the one calling and chasing you. If she does it - reward her with your attention. Its like training a dog.
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    Originally Posted by Jean-Paul4447 View Post
    Christ -- your first paragraph condemns men for being weird, your second is about how women are turned off by guys being consistently nice.

    No, no -- no reason why that might make a man crazy.
    Um, that is not what I was saying at all. I was saying that laying it on thick can get a little old. I think it is endearing if a man is being GENUINELY nice, but c'mon name me ONE guy that ENJOYS doing that crap for a chick ALL the time. It can be a tad nausiating. And I didn't say men were weird either. And...don't bust my chops for giving my opinion either, freakin' A.
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