did i mess up with this girl?

[aznkronic21]

so i met this girl through some friends on thurs. we all hung out at a bar and had a good time. got her number, but before giving it to me she was like "oh we'd only be hanging out just as friends and nothing more" which was kinda a weird thing to hear lol.

friday night we all go to the club, she got drunk and stayed over at my house...we made out, i tried to take it further a few times but she wouldnt let me so i stopped trying. lots of holding hands/cuddling (yes, gay)

saturday night she was supposed to come over but she faked

sunday i tried to hang out with her but she was busy, and same with today. i told her i was interested in her and she responded with she didnt wanna get involved with guys right now, and that she doesnt have time because she has a really busy semester at school + lots of extra clubs/activities.

my question is...did i make the mistake of telling her i was interested in her? wouldve been for me if i wouldve just left it unsaid? am i trying too hard to try to hang out with her..cus everytime i do she always has an excuse as to why shes busy and cant hang out. what do i do!!?? i think this is the first girl ive met in a long time who i'd actually date and not just mess around with...

[stealth_maven]

You shouldn't be asking these questions at 23. And no I didn't read your post.

[tonymar]

Of course you're interested in her, she knew that before she gave you her number. Definitely should not have pointed that out to her.

Stop calling her, stop paying attention to her. She'll contact you within a week or two of not hearing from you. When she contacts you act like you're just talking w/ her "as a friend" (ie - talk to her in the same way you would your girl cousin or a fat girl.) She'll be wanting to fuk you in no time.

Oh yea if she talks about dating you just be like "yea i thought about what you said before and i'm the same way, i need to focus on things other than dating. but we can still hangout sometimes" (ie - when you want to piitb)

[karlie_18]

Originally Posted by aznkronic21

so i met this girl through some friends on thurs. we all hung out at a bar and had a good time. got her number, but before giving it to me she was like "oh we'd only be hanging out just as friends and nothing more" which was kinda a weird thing to hear lol.

friday night we all go to the club, she got drunk and stayed over at my house...we made out, i tried to take it further a few times but she wouldnt let me so i stopped trying. lots of holding hands/cuddling (yes, gay)

saturday night she was supposed to come over but she faked

sunday i tried to hang out with her but she was busy, and same with today. i told her i was interested in her and she responded with she didnt wanna get involved with guys right now, and that she doesnt have time because she has a really busy semester at school + lots of extra clubs/activities.

my question is...did i make the mistake of telling her i was interested in her? wouldve been for me if i wouldve just left it unsaid? am i trying too hard to try to hang out with her..cus everytime i do she always has an excuse as to why shes busy and cant hang out. what do i do!!?? i think this is the first girl ive met in a long time who i'd actually date and not just mess around with...

she obviously doesnt want a relationship so just go find someone else. if she is making excuses not too see you than she obviously doesnt like you. stop wasting your time and move on.