White males, do you find Asian women completely uninterested in you?

[Superfecta]

I'm no Brad Pitt, but I usually date nothing lower than an 8. I don't have money, I don't have a great job, etc. so it's not like I'm ugly and have one of those going for me.

I'm just a normal guy.

I don't have problems attracting white/hispanic/etc. girls at bars/clubs/etc. But for some reason, Asian girls have no interest in me whatsoever. I mean, this past weekend I pretty much ended up at a 50% asian club. I probably made 6-7 attempts and was shot down on all of them. That happens routinely though.

Is it that they didn't want to see their Asian guy friends to see them dancing with a white guy, or are they really strict and not mess around with white guys for the most part?

What is your experience?

[who_mike_jones]

depends what type of asian women you are going for.
the american-born/candian-born asian girls are very receptive to white guys

the FOB girls are not very receptive..

[Superfecta]

depends what type of asian women you are going for.
the american-born/candian-born asian girls are very receptive to white guys

the FOB girls are not very receptive..

So pretty much if you see a group of 10 asian girls together at a club and you try to get one, chances are she won't be interested?

I'm basing that on the assumption that if there are no white girls in the mix, they are FOB? (Assuming the term means something to the effect of full blood, fall of the boat, etc.)

[JoeyDaFool]

quite the opposite

[Superfecta]

quite the opposite

Really? What about the ones listed above? The ones that strictly stick together (like the club I was at)?

[who_mike_jones]

So pretty much if you see a group of 10 asian girls together at a club and you try to get one, chances are she won't be interested?

I'm basing that on the assumption that if there are no white girls in the mix, they are FOB? (Assuming the term means something to the effect of full blood, fall of the boat, etc.)

Fresh off the boat.
They are the girls surrounded by the rich asian dudes with spiky orange hair who drive beamers.

Don't give up though.
I grinded with this international taiwanese student last weekend. She was a solid 8.

..then ended up getting rejected 8 more times when approaching those fob girls

[Silvio Dante]

I'm no Brad Pitt, but I usually date nothing lower than an 8. I don't have money, I don't have a great job, etc. so it's not like I'm ugly and have one of those going for me.

I'm just a normal guy.

I don't have problems attracting white/hispanic/etc. girls at bars/clubs/etc. But for some reason, Asian girls have no interest in me whatsoever. I mean, this past weekend I pretty much ended up at a 50% asian club. I probably made 6-7 attempts and was shot down on all of them. That happens routinely though.

Is it that they didn't want to see their Asian guy friends to see them dancing with a white guy, or are they really strict and not mess around with white guys for the most part?

What is your experience?

Find a hispanic CHICK with asian background. problem solved.

[appleman44]

quite the opposite

Indeed. If myself and my very white friend attempt to pick up asians we normally can tap that very frequently, I got with one who was 26 the other week lol, I pretended to be 24 though so its all good

Girls are in groups 95% of the time so yeah... ones in groups.

[Superfecta]

Fresh off the boat.
They are the girls surrounded by the rich asian dudes with spiky orange hair who drive beamers.

Don't give up though.
I grinded with this international taiwanese student last weekend. She was a solid 8.

..then ended up getting rejected 8 more times when approaching those fob girls

Interesting. This bar I was at there were NOT with Asian guys.

OT, but are you black (based on your UN)? Not that it matters, but I think Asians are more attracted to black guys than white guys.

[who_mike_jones]

Indeed. If myself and my very white friend attempt to pick up asians we normally can tap that very frequently, I got with one who was 26 the other week lol, I pretended to be 24 though so its all good

Girls are in groups 95% of the time so yeah... ones in groups.

Depends where you are from. Go to cities like Vancouver or Toronto and you will see a lot of international fob girls who only stick with their own race.

[Superfecta]

Indeed. If myself and my very white friend attempt to pick up asians we normally can tap that very frequently, I got with one who was 26 the other week lol, I pretended to be 24 though so its all good

Girls are in groups 95% of the time so yeah... ones in groups.

Now are these off the boat Asians or americanized/canadianized Asians? I think Who Mike Jones brings up a great point.

[Frenchie_G]

Interesting. This bar I was at there were NOT with Asian guys.

OT, but are you black (based on your UN)? Not that it matters, but I think Asians are more attracted to black guys than white guys.

(no racist) ?

[Silvio Dante]

Interesting. This bar I was at there were NOT with Asian guys.

OT, but are you black (based on your UN)? Not that it matters, but I think Asians are more attracted to black guys than white guys.

Asians from asia seem to like white guys more than black guys.

[C-Squared]

I'm not at all attracted to Asian women, so makes no difference to me.

[judokamatt]

Find a hispanic CHICK with asian background. problem solved.

agreed good body on both sides of the heritage tree which is like WIN WIN

as to op no, i don't seem to have this problem most Asian women here like white guys just because we are the closest thing to Asians here lol not a high Asian population in my town or state for that matter

[Superfecta]

(no racist) ?

Not at all. Didn't know we needed to use that tag. It is 2008 I think.

[ballsoftitanium]

I find that a lot of asians that have recently immigrated from China or Japan have an entitlement complex about them and they seem to think that the guy has no right hitting on them unless he's a ****ing 6'4 black quarterback who like 6% bf and who drives a 350ZX.

But then again, a lot of chicks are like that.

[-DRENN-]

I'm not at all attracted to Asian women, so makes no difference to me.

x2 man i get nothing when i see them.....they do nothing for me at all.

[yoj]

Asian women love me! Moreso than any other race I think. Only problem is they are more shy and reserved usually so its harder to get to know them (the true foreign ones that is, the canadian born/totally assimilated asian girls are usually pretty outgoing).

[sofaking30]

x2 man i get nothing when i see them.....they do nothing for me at all.

x3 and i'm asian

[Bobs of FL]

there's this asian chick in my precal class that eye ****s the **** out of me if that's what you mean...

[Gordon Bombay]

Interesting. This bar I was at there were NOT with Asian guys.

OT, but are you black (based on your UN)? Not that it matters, but I think Asians are more attracted to black guys than white guys.

Pretty sure asians are racist to black (Americans). Not sure about U.S born asians.

[Catabolic_Cal]

x3 and i'm asian

x4 please someone say what makes them so attractive to you

[bluemarlinO4]

they like the alabama black snake

[RedWine]

I'm not sure, i'm joining the Airforce in 2 months and asking for Japan as my first base. So i'm definately hoping women over there will find me attractive

[_dopamine_]

I find that i have no interest in asian women whatsoever - even the supposed 'hot' ones i do not find very attractive.

I'm guessing its just a cultural thing - maybe try going to a club where there is a small minority of asian girls

[ApG]

I'm asian and I barely get by at asian clubs. Those type of clubs, the girls either stick to their girlfriends orthey go in large boy/girl groups and rarely stray from them. Good luck but it is a losing battle.

[KCE]

I'm asian and I barely get by at asian clubs. Those type of clubs, the girls either stick to their girlfriends orthey go in large boy/girl groups and rarely stray from them. Good luck but it is a losing battle.

True...being asian myself (Filipino), in my experience, majority of asian girls are conservative (although it seems to be changing), and thus Asians seem to be inclined to date within their own race. Ironically I've always heard that asian girls prefer white guys or black guys because they're taller and bigger (interpret as you like). There's also stereotypes involved - asian guys are seen as loyal, so the girls that are looking for short-term relationships might look elsewhere e.g. white guys. Although living in L.A. area, I don't really notice this problem - asian girls love white guys excluding some FOBS like stated. My cousin married a while girl and my other cousin (his sister) has a white boyfriend, but then again they live in the midwest.

[FNB25]

I'm no Brad Pitt, but I usually date nothing lower than an 8. I don't have money, I don't have a great job, etc. so it's not like I'm ugly and have one of those going for me.

I'm just a normal guy.

I don't have problems attracting white/hispanic/etc. girls at bars/clubs/etc. But for some reason, Asian girls have no interest in me whatsoever. I mean, this past weekend I pretty much ended up at a 50% asian club. I probably made 6-7 attempts and was shot down on all of them. That happens routinely though.

Is it that they didn't want to see their Asian guy friends to see them dancing with a white guy, or are they really strict and not mess around with white guys for the most part?

What is your experience?

When guys usually talk here at RH about 8s they are usually 5s and when many guys speek about 10s they are usually 7s in my book but that isn't the point. I don't go for the asians. There are some reasons for this. First they aren't so hot as I love blondes and darker caucasians. Secondly there aren't so many other people here in this part of Europe than caucasians.

[pokerash]

I'm not at all attracted to Asian women, so makes no difference to me.

x2 man i get nothing when i see them.....they do nothing for me at all.

x3 and i'm asian

One of my best mates is asian and he's the same way. He's right into the blonde's where as I'm all for the brunettes.

x4 please someone say what makes them so attractive to you

X5