r girls really hornier than guys?

[arkany931]

got back from working out, this girl made eye contact with me and bent over as i passed by.

one thing i don't understand is how come girls aren't approaching guys nonstop if the statement is true.



edit: If girls are like that when they're drunk, I wonder what goes on inside their heads.

[DanielEric]

got back from working out, this girl made eye contact with me and bent over as i passed by.

one thing i don't understand is how come girls aren't approaching guys nonstop if the statement is true.

Lots of women are teases and live on compliments.

[phatryde]

Labels.

Women are big on labels such as "hoe, slut, whore, skank etc...".

[arkany931]

Lots of women are teases and live on compliments.

I was wondering if girls just do it for the big guys but not all girls date guys you expect. I guess girls like the attention even if they might say otherwise.

Labels.

Women are big on labels such as "hoe, slut, whore, skank etc...".

So I guess it really does come to alcohol.

[fancychic86]

Its not socially acceptable for women to be as sexual as men. For example, the "prized virgin" is always female. No one really wants a male virgin (sorry guys). I am not sure why exactly, and it seems like women get all the blame for being a "slut" when men do just as much if not more. Like in the 50s before roe vs. wade, there were tons of girls getting pregnant and they would be sent off to pregnancy camps where they would be brainwashed into giving their babies up for adoption. The entire family was also shamed for having such a tramp for a daughter. Meanwhile, the guy who got her pregnant is out fcking more girls and not giving a shyt cuz no one can see what he did he doesn't have to carry the baby. sorry...ranting here.

[Posthardcore]

Its not socially acceptable for women to be as sexual as men. For example, the "prized virgin" is always female. No one really wants a male virgin (sorry guys). I am not sure why exactly, and it seems like women get all the blame for being a "slut" when men do just as much if not more. Like in the 50s before roe vs. wade, there were tons of girls getting pregnant and they would be sent off to pregnancy camps where they would be brainwashed into giving their babies up for adoption. The entire family was also shamed for having such a tramp for a daughter. Meanwhile, the guy who got her pregnant is out fcking more girls and not giving a shyt cuz no one can see what he did he doesn't have to carry the baby. sorry...ranting here.

cool story!

[fancychic86]

cool story!

Sad but true. Look it up.

[Posthardcore]

Sad but true. Look it up.

yeah but it's totally irrelevant

[arkany931]

Its not socially acceptable for women to be as sexual as men. For example, the "prized virgin" is always female. No one really wants a male virgin (sorry guys). I am not sure why exactly, and it seems like women get all the blame for being a "slut" when men do just as much if not more. Like in the 50s before roe vs. wade, there were tons of girls getting pregnant and they would be sent off to pregnancy camps where they would be brainwashed into giving their babies up for adoption. The entire family was also shamed for having such a tramp for a daughter. Meanwhile, the guy who got her pregnant is out fcking more girls and not giving a shyt cuz no one can see what he did he doesn't have to carry the baby. sorry...ranting here.

I might be a little bit direct but why cant girls just say f it and not care what society thinks? I know there are a lot of guys like that.

[fancychic86]

yeah but it's totally irrelevant

whatevs

[brosenthal91]

I feel that women are more self-conscious and are more sensitive then men. If I guy were to get rejected by a girl, it wouldn't be as big of a deal if a girl were to be rejected by a guy. Also, the fact that if I guy approaches a girl, its a huge compliment to her and will raise her self esteem.

[arkany931]

I feel that women are more self-conscious and are more sensitive then men. If I guy were to get rejected by a girl, it wouldn't be as big of a deal if a girl were to be rejected by a guy. Also, the fact that if I guy approaches a girl, its a huge compliment to her and will raise her self esteem.

in my example, if you were working out and a girl gave YOU the eye would you talk to her?

[phatryde]

I might be a little bit direct but why cant girls just say f it and not care what society thinks? I know there are a lot of guys like that.

Yo Arkany this is a great discussion to talk about with women. Whenever I feel I have run out of things of substance to say, I'm usually flirting and trying to get in their pants, I bring up this discussion. Its a great discussion to be had, and can reduce your chances of her trying to not give up her poon sooner than later.

[arkany931]

Yo Arkany this is a great discussion to talk about with women. Whenever I feel I have run out of things of substance to say, I'm usually flirting and trying to get in their pants, I bring up this discussion. Its a great discussion to be had, and can reduce your chances of her trying to not give up her poon sooner than later.

Repped. Any examples of how this conversation would play out without it being dorky:

me: "Don't you think it would be awesome if society would stop being so judgmental about girls being sluts"


i dunno lol

[fancychic86]

Repped. Any examples of how this conversation would play out without it being dorky:

me: "Don't you think it would be awesome if society would stop being so judgmental about girls being sluts"


i dunno lol

Wow...U boys must have no talked to many girls. Using THAT to get in their pants? Ummm, no.

[phatryde]

I might be a little bit direct but why cant girls just say f it and not care what society thinks? I know there are a lot of guys like that.

Repped. Any examples of how this conversation would play out without it being dorky:

me: "Don't you think it would be awesome if society would stop being so judgmental about girls being sluts"


i dunno lol

Say something about not being big on labels, and how people live off of labels. They avoid enjoying life because they are scared to be perceived a certain way that society has deemed wrong, yet there are many double standards. A slut is a woman who knowingly cheats on a committed relationship, or cheats with someone knowing they are in a committed relationship, a woman shouldn't be called a slut for enjoying sex, she is an adult. Blah blah blah, more into double standards.

If they try and bring up bible crap, just tell them where in the bible is it legal for people to be boyfriend and girlfriend and engage in pre-marital sex. Blah blah.

You will not seem like a judgmental prick.

[arkany931]

Wow...U boys must have no talked to many girls. Using THAT to get in their pants? Ummm, no.

That was just a lame example. Just curious, do you how would you like a guy to talk to you in a sense of hooking up?

[darkshines]

Wow...U boys must have no talked to many girls. Using THAT to get in their pants? Ummm, no.

if you're digging a dude and he tries to discuss the mental bridge between sexual promiscuity and societal standing, you're gonna turn him down? please. i'd love to have an intellectual conversation about sexuality with a hot girl.

[SakeBombz]

Its not socially acceptable for women to be as sexual as men. For example, the "prized virgin" is always female. No one really wants a male virgin (sorry guys). I am not sure why exactly, and it seems like women get all the blame for being a "slut" when men do just as much if not more. Like in the 50s before roe vs. wade, there were tons of girls getting pregnant and they would be sent off to pregnancy camps where they would be brainwashed into giving their babies up for adoption. The entire family was also shamed for having such a tramp for a daughter. Meanwhile, the guy who got her pregnant is out fcking more girls and not giving a shyt cuz no one can see what he did he doesn't have to carry the baby. sorry...ranting here.

i like your erotic photography... they give me timber....

back on topic... girls are just as horny as boys.. they can just control it better, knowing they have a reputation to uphold and if their devious ways were exposed they risk being called schlutts. but yes... in reality its equal... maybe even more.. some more than others.. everyones different..

[arkany931]

Say something about not being big on labels, and how people live off of labels. They avoid enjoying life because they are scared to be perceived a certain way that society has deemed wrong, yet there are many double standards. A slut is a woman who knowingly cheats on a committed relationship, or cheats with someone knowing they are in a committed relationship, a woman shouldn't be called a slut for enjoying sex, she is an adult. Blah blah blah, more into double standards.

If they try and bring up bible crap, just tell them where in the bible is it legal for people to be boyfriend and girlfriend and engage in pre-marital sex. Blah blah.

You will not seem like a judgmental prick.

Thank you for your reply phatryde. To paraphrase, you would say that you aren't big into labels, go into how some people live their lives off labels because of society. However, there is a double standard. A woman should enjoy sex without being called a slut.

in reality its equal... maybe even more

I think I remember someone saying that girls have to be undercover sluts lol. A lot of good discussion in this thar thread.


What I've learned so far:

- Men should make the first move b.c. women are scared of societal approval.
- girls r as horny as guys if not more
- a good conversation piece, from phatryde, is to say you aren't into labels, go into how some people live their lives based off labels because of society. However, there is a double standard. A women should enjoy sex without being called a slut.

[phatryde]

if you're digging a dude and he tries to discuss the mental bridge between sexual promiscuity and societal standing, you're gonna turn him down? please.

I believe she is more use to "What time are we gonna fuk?" style of conversations.

It takes time assessing whether someone will withhold sex because of their fear for being labeled a "slut". The above conversation about "sexual promiscuity and societal standing" is an ideal conversation to be had.

[darkshines]

I believe she is more use to "What time are we gonna fuk?" style of conversations.

It takes time assessing whether someone will withhold sex because of their fear for being labeled a "slut". The above conversation about "sexual promiscuity and societal standing" is an ideal conversation to be had.

further, barring ONS, it's a good feeler conversation to have. you can learn quite a bit about a person from a conversation relating to society, social standing or class - i think that the way they were socialized themselves will have to manifest itself in their opinions.

[Cenetri]

Girls don't approach because they don't have to approach.

[fancychic86]

That was just a lame example. Just curious, do you how would you like a guy to talk to you in a sense of hooking up?

If I see someone I like I just look at them in a special way, and usually if they're worth it, they'll come right up and talk to me like a good boy does! ; )

[Lottabody]

I think women are hornier than men but contain themselves better.

[fancychic86]

if you're digging a dude and he tries to discuss the mental bridge between sexual promiscuity and societal standing, you're gonna turn him down? please. i'd love to have an intellectual conversation about sexuality with a hot girl.

Its stupid because most girls know its all BS. They know that men could really care less about women and promiscuity. The only thing on their mind is getting girls to think that they're on the same page so that they'll have a better chance getting their dick wet. Seriously lame. at least be honest about it. Then after when they're chilling with their buddies getting drunk or some shyt, all they will talk about is how easy the girl was or how boring she was in bed, etc...see i have 20 something men all figured out! : D

[Posthardcore]

Its stupid because most girls know its all BS. They know that men could really care less about women and promiscuity. The only thing on their mind is getting girls to think that they're on the same page so that they'll have a better chance getting their dick wet. Seriously lame. at least be honest about it. Then after when they're chilling with their buddies getting drunk or some shyt, all they will talk about is how easy the girl was or how boring she was in bed, etc...see i have 20 something men all figured out! : D

wow. gtfo?

[fancychic86]

wow. gtfo?

whatevs. 17 is too young to know anything about this sort of thing. Your best accomplishment was prob getting to feel a girl's boob! lmao.

[Posthardcore]

whatevs. 17 is too young to know anything about this sort of thing. Your best accomplishment was prob getting to feel a girl's boob! lmao.

Its stupid because most girls know its all BS. They know that men could really care less about women and promiscuity. The only thing on their mind is getting girls to think that they're on the same page so that they'll have a better chance getting their dick wet. Seriously lame. at least be honest about it. Then after when they're chilling with their buddies getting drunk or some shyt, all they will talk about is how easy the girl was or how boring she was in bed, etc...see i have 20 something men all figured out! : D

1) Lol at your whatevs.

2) You're in your mighty twenties, you probably know everything, and you're probably right about the fact that any guy who wants to start an intelligent convo with you wants to **** you.

[fancychic86]

1) Lol at your whatevs.

2) You're in your mighty twenties, you probably know everything, and you're probably right about the fact that any guy who wants to start an intelligent convo with you wants to **** you.

Get your own brain instead of feeding into the sarah palin/evangelical/george bush/omg the iraq war is awesome!/prayer in public schools is the best! christian brain drain. Then, when u found yourself, u can tell everyone else how to live. Except u won't cuz you'll finally have your own life for once!