She has a friend who is a guy and this fall she'll be moving in with him, another guy, and 1 other girl.
I don't like it.
She has no GOOD (like, really close) female friends here, just this dude she hangs out with every time i'm unavailable.
Help?
What sort of reaction should I have?
(because I'm pretty pissed about it right now. Will be meeting her in an hour or so).
We're 21 year old, by the way. We've been very serious for 1+ years (we're living together currently, but my roommates are returning for hte fall semester in late Aug. so she has to move out)
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08-05-2008, 12:17 PM #1Registered User
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Gf moving in with guy-friend (reps)
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08-05-2008, 12:21 PM #2Unregistered User
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She's gonna get ****ed every night by the other guy... and the other guys male roommate.. the other girl will probably join in too. It's gonna be like a porn movie every night. 1 on 1, 2 on 1, 2 on 2, facials, bukkake, anal, roleplay, lesbo, gangbang... everything you can imagine will be done to your gf... and not by you.
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08-05-2008, 12:22 PM #3Banned
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f*CK that.
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08-05-2008, 12:23 PM #4DDS. PhD student
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08-05-2008, 12:26 PM #5Registered Sex Offender
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I had a GF with a male roommate, its tough. But I think you have to give her the benefit of the doubt, unless she gives you a reason not to trust her. Getting mad at her for it will only make things worse.
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08-05-2008, 12:26 PM #6Registered User
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No, it was terrible and was the 'easy way out'. Anybody can make a ****ty, pseudo-porno post out of any Relationship Help thread. "Oh, your gf is mad at you? PIITB!!1!!!!!!111!!! LOLOLOL".Originally Posted by IVEverLow
Your post was lame.
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Word.Originally Posted by T-Roach
Is there any small part of me that should be OK with this?
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08-05-2008, 12:27 PM #7Banned
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Act flawless and treat her well, and as soon as she's really happy with everything, dump her.
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08-05-2008, 12:27 PM #8Unregistered User
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...Originally Posted by IKnowWhoYouAre
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08-05-2008, 12:29 PM #9Registered User
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Yeah, see that's what I'm fighting.Originally Posted by ****brickhouse
The thing is this is "HER guy friend". Y'know, the one she always runs to when I'm not there to hang out, the one whose ******** wall she'll post on just to say "how was your weekend
. crazy as usual? " when she never posts on mine (cuz a. I don't really use mine, b. we live together. We can talk to each other).
I'm having a tough time becoming at ease with this
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08-05-2008, 12:29 PM #10Unregistered User
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How's the new car process going?Originally Posted by caramon
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08-05-2008, 12:31 PM #11Registered User
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Brah, I've thought to do that so many times.Originally Posted by caramon
The only thing is that
-we have a great relationship. Sex, food, apt. cleaning whenever I want (and she's a 'good sport' about things.
-I don't have any back-ups. I sorta dropped all the rest of the girls I was talking to because things with my gf just got better and better, as they still are today (with the exception of this one problem).
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08-05-2008, 12:32 PM #12iedereen wil een stukje
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You really think she's NOT getting boned by that dude already, if this is the case? Hahaha.Originally Posted by IKnowWhoYouAre
Indeed it was.Originally Posted by IVEverLow
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08-05-2008, 12:32 PM #13Registered Sex Offender
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If you trust that she wont cheat on you, flirt with him, or use him as a backup boyfriend for you, then leave it alone. If not, than you need to confront her about it.
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08-05-2008, 12:33 PM #14Straight Cash Homie
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congratulations
you gf just became in-house pussy
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08-05-2008, 12:36 PM #15Registered User
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So I'm definitely going to lay it on her that this won't fly with me.
If she decides to go through with this, I'd have a tough decision to make...
The problem now becomes: where WILL she live? The rest of the people she's close to are in that apt. or me/my friends.
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08-05-2008, 12:39 PM #16
What the fuk is the matter with some girls?
Is she really that oblivious to the fact that this guy wants to completely fuk the **** out of her?
"But he's just a friend!" Am I right?
Listen bro, she is being completely disrespectful to you in doing this. You're telling me the dorms didn't have any more room for her, and that she HAD to room with 2 other guys? Bull****.
Switch it around on your girl. Tell her you're going to room with a girl who is 'good friends' with you and that you'll be taking a shower 3 feet from her bedroom. Let's see her reaction then.
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08-05-2008, 12:42 PM #17Registered User
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have you met the guy?
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08-05-2008, 12:42 PM #18
I'd never happen with my gf.
Edit: I'd slap her for even asking.
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08-05-2008, 12:43 PM #19Registered User
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Word.Originally Posted by Idgara
She'd be mad jealous. She gets jealous, as it is.
...too bad she knows that my apt. is set in stone as my lease won't run out til July of 2009.
but we go to a big U and the dorms are generally for freshman and as it is she spent her soph. yr. in dorms for this same reason
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08-05-2008, 12:44 PM #20Supple Leapord
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i dont get why she has to move out cuz your roomates are comin back....i mean she sleeps in your bed, right?! just break up the rent/bills to include her
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08-05-2008, 12:45 PM #21Registered User
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Yeah. He's a punk.Originally Posted by Shattering Fast
Big ass adams' apple with awkward voice. Like a 6'4" (i'm 6'0") sack of ****.
He just wreaks retardedness...
...but clearly he gives attention to my girl and woman + attention...
Right now they dont see each other that often cuz any time she says she's gonna do something with him I'm like "aww, I got tickets to [some event/party]" and she bails on him and goes with me, but during the school year if they're living together and I gotta study on a thur. night for a friday exam...
It makes it easy for them to just sit back and throw down a beer or two.
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08-05-2008, 12:47 PM #22Registered User
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right now it's 2 bedroom, 4 dudes, 1 apt. (no gay-pornos). i split a room with my roommate.Originally Posted by bubba289
last year i slept at her place ALL THE TIME cuz she had a single room to herself. she crashed at my place on the weekends when my roommate generally went home
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08-05-2008, 12:49 PM #23buffalo soldier
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ya cant hate on throwin down a coldy here and there. there is def gonna be some attention, and if she is remotely attracted to him at all you're in some trouble. if he is a ugly punk that aint gettin yo pussy you're obv alright.Originally Posted by IKnowWhoYouAre
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08-05-2008, 12:50 PM #24Straight Cash Homie
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unless the dude is Rupaul or RIP_ChuckOriginally Posted by IKnowWhoYouAre
i'd be worried
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08-05-2008, 12:51 PM #25Registered User
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yeah, he's a chump.
i love throwin' down brews also, don't get it twisted. I messed up my 3-month clean bulk this weekend cuz on thur/fri night this weekend I had 11+ drinks each night. Fail.
But if they're just chillin one slow evening...that's what I'm scared of.
I'm gonna let her know today how I'd have to make a major choice regarding her if she goes through with this.
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08-05-2008, 12:54 PM #26
It depends on how much you trust her to be honest. If you have had problems before, I would be mad as well and maybe be concerned. It also depends on are they just friends or do they have history? Is there reason to believe they have/could develop feelings?
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08-05-2008, 12:55 PM #27Registered User
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I had a similar situation with my ex a few years back.
What I did was made sure the guy was always chasing other tail.
In other words, I hooked him up with my ex's friends, or sent chicks his way.
It worked, the guy is still dating the girl I hooked him up with like 4 years ago.
He always had other girls over so he never even bothered my lady.
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08-05-2008, 12:57 PM #28STI Guru & Overanalyzer
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Would not let this happen with my GF. That is just plain retardedness sorry.
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08-05-2008, 12:58 PM #29Registered User
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No, it's just they've been good friends now for a year or so. He lived in her building last year.Originally Posted by SycG
I told her "no guy has a girl as a friend unless they want to f*ck you. He's just waiting for you to a) get drunk and have sex with him, b) be dumped by me and run to him, as you always do."
As far as I have seen, it's strictly a platonic relationship, but...with women and men and alcohol...
He's way too f*ggoty for me to ever even want to talk to him. He's just this awkward sack o' ****.Originally Posted by LostMatt
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08-05-2008, 12:59 PM #30buffalo soldier
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drinking is something i cant live without. im in college, i can drink all i want but it sucks that it hurts my gains a **** load... the memories are worth it. also man, your 19, so if anything goes south, you just lift and **** more biddies
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