extremely hot...I feel very, very connected with her...her parents are very well off so it's not like we'd be supporting our kid by ourselves..they'd be helping us a lot..multi million dollar house and lots of vehicles...would I be stupid to walk out on this even if she is pregnant?
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Thread: pregnant g/f
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07-13-2007, 09:37 PM #1
pregnant g/f
5'8'' 207 13 percent bodyfat
225x26 bench
11.01 100 meter dash
90 lb db shoulder presses(x2)
powerclean 265
squat and dead maxes to come
17.5'' arms
47.4'' chest
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07-13-2007, 09:38 PM #2
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07-13-2007, 09:39 PM #3
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Of course you would be.
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07-13-2007, 09:39 PM #4
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Yes you would. Plus man up and be a father you didn't wear the rubber in the first place........SIDE NOTE
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07-13-2007, 09:39 PM #5
If you love her you'll stay with her.
If your a half decent person you'll stay with her.
If you're not a total douche you'll stay with her.
It sounds like you really like this girl, hopefully you love her and can spend your life with her.Non sea member #12
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07-13-2007, 09:40 PM #6
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"Courage isn't an absense of fear but a means of dealing with it."-Nelson Mandela
"I don't call myself a living legend cause its a catchy phrase or cause it looks good on a T shirt, no, I say it cause its the truth, and I deserve it."- "Lion Heart" Chris Jericho
RIP Eddie Guerrero, a true champion
RIP George Carlin, my idol
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07-13-2007, 09:41 PM #7
I forgot to mention it's not my kid...but we've only been together for 8 months..i really do love her tho at first I resented the fact that it wasnt biologically mine but now its getting easier especially when she doesnt talk to the dude
5'8'' 207 13 percent bodyfat
225x26 bench
11.01 100 meter dash
90 lb db shoulder presses(x2)
powerclean 265
squat and dead maxes to come
17.5'' arms
47.4'' chest
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07-13-2007, 09:41 PM #8
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07-13-2007, 09:43 PM #9
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07-13-2007, 09:43 PM #10
your 17. You have only met like 3% of the girls you are gonna meet in your whole life, and you already ready to settle with chick with a kid? You are handicapping your self.
There are plenty of chicks with no kids you can fall in love with.
Also if you are with her when she has the baby , she can possible put you down as the father without you knowing, and when you breakup 5 years from now you will start getting child support bills.
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07-13-2007, 09:43 PM #11
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07-13-2007, 09:44 PM #12
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07-13-2007, 09:45 PM #13
Just pointing this out, not trying to be an a** or anything.
To the OP, if you feel this is the girl, you can certainly be the childs father figure, even if you arent biologically the parent. If you can get over that point, and love htis girl, then I see no reason why it would be a bad decision.
I dont want to suggest anything, but did you meet after the fact she knew she was pregnant and the other guy left? Hate to say it but maybe she's keeping you there just for someone to support the child.
I could be way off. I hope you two truly are 'connected'. Like I said, if you love her, and can get the past you didnt make the child, you could still be a great father.
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07-13-2007, 09:45 PM #14
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07-13-2007, 09:45 PM #15
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07-13-2007, 09:45 PM #16
naw shes pregnant right now..but I just see so much of a future with this girl...it's hard rite now because shes pregnant but when she's not pregnant she's a hell of a powerlifter and athlete, she's smart, we have the best talks i've ever had with anyone, i live with her, oh..and did I mention that she lets me do w/e i want with her
5'8'' 207 13 percent bodyfat
225x26 bench
11.01 100 meter dash
90 lb db shoulder presses(x2)
powerclean 265
squat and dead maxes to come
17.5'' arms
47.4'' chest
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07-13-2007, 09:46 PM #17
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07-13-2007, 09:47 PM #18
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07-13-2007, 09:47 PM #19
tread carefully. my sister married a guy who has a kid from his previous girlfriend. the old girlfriend tries to keep my bro-in-law wrapped around her finger. it's mostly my bro-in-law's fault for not being assertive, but still: my sister will always have to deal with this bs.
my advice? if she hasn't made a clean break from her ex (i.e., she never has contact with him) then i wouldn't stay with her.
damn. lifting stats?
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07-13-2007, 09:47 PM #20
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07-13-2007, 09:48 PM #23
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yea. if it was your kid i would say either man up or get the abortion. those are the only 2, either way your responsible for the fate of the kid and you need to make peace with that. however since it isnt your kid, i would say you dont really have an obligation there and i would think long and hard about how much you love her...
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07-13-2007, 09:48 PM #24
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You're gonna wanna edit that last part out, Lynch, just saying
"Courage isn't an absense of fear but a means of dealing with it."-Nelson Mandela
"I don't call myself a living legend cause its a catchy phrase or cause it looks good on a T shirt, no, I say it cause its the truth, and I deserve it."- "Lion Heart" Chris Jericho
RIP Eddie Guerrero, a true champion
RIP George Carlin, my idol
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07-13-2007, 09:48 PM #25
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LOL? GG with your life. Ruined by some other guy. I feel sad for you. With all your muscles, some other dude just made you a Beta male by having you take care of the kid he made.
You are 17, dump the girl. Yes you love the girl, but shes gonna ruin your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea. She is dumb enough to get pregnant shows shes obviously not very smart and doesnt know how to protect herself. Trust me, ur 17, you dont know what love is, you are just ruining your life. Forget the girl, go to college, get more life experience.Me Picking Up Chicks (Subscribe if You Like!)
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07-13-2007, 09:49 PM #26
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07-13-2007, 09:50 PM #27
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07-13-2007, 09:52 PM #28
she got pregnant at a party from some dude who she never talks to...he wants nothing to do with her because she has no interest in him...the only person she reallytalks to me is me so im not worried about her cheating...oh, and I figure that if ppl know not to **** with me they know not to **** with my g/f so they'd be stupid to cheat with her...
she was a two time national champion in the 114 weight class 300 squat, 300 deadlift, 120 bench5'8'' 207 13 percent bodyfat
225x26 bench
11.01 100 meter dash
90 lb db shoulder presses(x2)
powerclean 265
squat and dead maxes to come
17.5'' arms
47.4'' chest
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07-13-2007, 09:52 PM #29
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07-13-2007, 09:53 PM #30
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