okay so i was in a really serious relationship..we were going to move to la together and were engaged just couldn't afford rings yet
long story short that ended..had a few rebounds
and now i met this guy; he's in the process of becoming a trainer; he's cute and funny...a bit tall for me being 6'11 but we have fun together, great sex, great company and we really like each other
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he works ALL THE time and when i say all the time; i mean i train full time, train at another gym on top of that and teach part time; we do live a half hour away from each other so it's a drive but i'm getting really frustrated because everytime we make plans he...kinda just blows me off but not intentionaly
he can't get off work and when they tell him he'll be done by 3 and we make plans he gets stuck there til midnight and they are super strick so he can't call or text me and i know it's not his fault but at the same time i can't help but be a little bitchy ya know?
he was working another job just like that one but quit because he said he worked too much and also wanted us to workout...we've probably made 8 dates and i've seen him twice...but he tells me he misses me everyday and calls when he can
he's a good guy but is it worth my time? i feel so unbelievable frustrated.
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Thread: i met this guy but..
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07-25-2008, 03:39 PM #1
i met this guy but..
-c.heitz
I'm like the perfect disaster; and once you start watching you just can't take your eyes off her.
"energy and persistance conquer anything." -Benjamin Franklin
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07-25-2008, 03:47 PM #5
well that's the thing..we're not dating yet we've just kinda been hooking up and taking it slowly
and i've said to him that maybe it's not worth trying to do this but he just keeps pushing on and asking me to please trust him that he thinks i'm worth it and will find a way and won't let me down..
it sounds gay i guess but he's genuinly sweet and has good intentions that's why i guess i feel so guilty thinking and saying i just can't
i'm not an attention whore but it gets to a point where it's like dude cmon!-c.heitz
I'm like the perfect disaster; and once you start watching you just can't take your eyes off her.
"energy and persistance conquer anything." -Benjamin Franklin
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07-25-2008, 03:55 PM #12
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I think you have to stay patient if it's something you truly want.
From someone who's blown it with very special people due to impatience and still regrets it, I can honestly tell you some things are worth the wait.
Up to you OP.
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07-25-2008, 04:09 PM #20
he didn't sacrifice it for me; it was a job he's been meaning to get rid of and he said he wanted to that he didn't need the extra $ and if it meant he could possibly spend more time with me he said it would be a plus but it kinda just backfired and got him more hours at his other job..
-c.heitz
I'm like the perfect disaster; and once you start watching you just can't take your eyes off her.
"energy and persistance conquer anything." -Benjamin Franklin
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07-25-2008, 04:10 PM #21
na he's legite busy and when he's not he texts me and calls and attempts to see me; one night i was teaching and i guess he ditched outta work early to surprise me after my shift i know he cares ive been with enough ****heads to know being played over just being busy..i dunno it just sucks
and haha it's not though it's fun as hell and imma tough lil girl :P-c.heitz
I'm like the perfect disaster; and once you start watching you just can't take your eyes off her.
"energy and persistance conquer anything." -Benjamin Franklin
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07-25-2008, 04:12 PM #22
i know right...but for some reason like ppl tell us we look good haha
i know it seems outrageous
the only couple i've everrr seen like that is a family friend and they have 3 kids and they are all differnt heights but all together they look fine it's wierd; almost as if you don't notice? but i hear ya i make fun of him all the time for being sky high-c.heitz
I'm like the perfect disaster; and once you start watching you just can't take your eyes off her.
"energy and persistance conquer anything." -Benjamin Franklin
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07-25-2008, 04:13 PM #24
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He sounds keen anyway, makes a change from guys being alpha and backing off as soon as a girl shows a sign of interest.
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