i met this guy but..

[catheitz]

okay so i was in a really serious relationship..we were going to move to la together and were engaged just couldn't afford rings yet

long story short that ended..had a few rebounds

and now i met this guy; he's in the process of becoming a trainer; he's cute and funny...a bit tall for me being 6'11 but we have fun together, great sex, great company and we really like each other

but

he works ALL THE time and when i say all the time; i mean i train full time, train at another gym on top of that and teach part time; we do live a half hour away from each other so it's a drive but i'm getting really frustrated because everytime we make plans he...kinda just blows me off but not intentionaly

he can't get off work and when they tell him he'll be done by 3 and we make plans he gets stuck there til midnight and they are super strick so he can't call or text me and i know it's not his fault but at the same time i can't help but be a little bitchy ya know?

he was working another job just like that one but quit because he said he worked too much and also wanted us to workout...we've probably made 8 dates and i've seen him twice...but he tells me he misses me everyday and calls when he can

he's a good guy but is it worth my time? i feel so unbelievable frustrated.

[1quick1]

If it's worth your time or not, nobody can answer that but yourself. If you like the guy but not getting everything you need maybe it is time to move on.

And how does things work out with him beign 2' taller then you?

[History in Effect]

Originally Posted by catheitz

okay so i was in a really serious relationship..we were going to move to la together and were engaged just couldn't afford rings yet

long story short that ended..had a few rebounds

and now i met this guy; he's in the process of becoming a trainer; he's cute and funny...a bit tall for me being 6'11 but we have fun together, great sex, great company and we really like each other

but

he works ALL THE time and when i say all the time; i mean i train full time, train at another gym on top of that and teach part time; we do live a half hour away from each other so it's a drive but i'm getting really frustrated because everytime we make plans he...kinda just blows me off but not intentionaly

he can't get off work and when they tell him he'll be done by 3 and we make plans he gets stuck there til midnight and they are super strick so he can't call or text me and i know it's not his fault but at the same time i can't help but be a little bitchy ya know?

he was working another job just like that one but quit because he said he worked too much and also wanted us to workout...we've probably made 8 dates and i've seen him twice...but he tells me he misses me everyday and calls when he can

he's a good guy but is it worth my time? i feel so unbelievable frustrated.

Well, its about spending quality time with each other. If you don't have any of that, then the relationship must end sadly.

[catheitz]

it was actually...really fun haha it causes disadvantages but it made for some new things too and we're both really flexible

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by History in Effect

Well, its about spending quality time with each other. If you don't have any of that, then the relationship must end sadly.

well that's the thing..we're not dating yet we've just kinda been hooking up and taking it slowly

and i've said to him that maybe it's not worth trying to do this but he just keeps pushing on and asking me to please trust him that he thinks i'm worth it and will find a way and won't let me down..

it sounds gay i guess but he's genuinly sweet and has good intentions that's why i guess i feel so guilty thinking and saying i just can't

i'm not an attention whore but it gets to a point where it's like dude cmon!

[Scarface2883]

6'11''..5'0''

I have NEVER saw a couple like that. I'm sure it would look ridiculous.

Anyway, if you can't see him much, there can't be much of a relationship in my opinion, but it's your call.

[History in Effect]

Originally Posted by catheitz

well that's the thing..we're not dating yet we've just kinda been hooking up and taking it slowly

and i've said to him that maybe it's not worth trying to do this but he just keeps pushing on and asking me to please trust him that he thinks i'm worth it and will find a way and won't let me down..

it sounds gay i guess but he's genuinly sweet and has good intentions that's why i guess i feel so guilty thinking and saying i just can't

i'm not an attention whore but it gets to a point where it's like dude cmon!

You just want to spend some time with him and I see no problem with that. He might need to make a sacrifice for you if he wants you that bad

[-DJ-]

Originally Posted by History in Effect

You just want to spend some time with him and I see no problem with that. He might need to make a sacrifice for you if he wants you that bad

He's pathetic if he sacrifices his job for a woman. You can't honestly expect him to do that, can you?

[History in Effect]

Originally Posted by -DJ-

He's pathetic if he sacrifices his job for a woman. You can't honestly expect him to do that, can you?

well, I am being optimistic. I just think they should just split ways.

[Xeon2k]

If your not spending quality time together nor dating? But you still have sex? Sounds more like friends with benefits....

[Pandaz619]

how big is his pen0r? (serious post)(no homo)

[janky]

I think you have to stay patient if it's something you truly want.

From someone who's blown it with very special people due to impatience and still regrets it, I can honestly tell you some things are worth the wait.

Up to you OP.

Just remember, good people are 1 in a million. Is not getting the amount of attention you want due to his work schedule reason enough to let it go?

[Supadude]

What does he do?

[catheitz]

that's how i feel and that's why i'm so hesitant cuz i've been there too

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by Supadude

What does he do?

he does construction and landscaping so bascially he can start at a house but end up planting til 1 am because they do huge ass stadiums too

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by Pandaz619

how big is his pen0r? (serious post)(no homo)

awkward hah but i dunno like 9..10, it's nice really nice

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by Xeon2k

If your not spending quality time together nor dating? But you still have sex? Sounds more like friends with benefits....

i know it does...but it's not like that i dunno how else to explain it i guess

[Supadude]

Do you feel like he honestly has no time or hes using work as an excuse to avoid you?

[Supadude]

Originally Posted by catheitz

awkward hah but i dunno like 9..10, it's nice really nice

WTF...that would be like a horse fuking a chiuaua.

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by -DJ-

He's pathetic if he sacrifices his job for a woman. You can't honestly expect him to do that, can you?

he didn't sacrifice it for me; it was a job he's been meaning to get rid of and he said he wanted to that he didn't need the extra $ and if it meant he could possibly spend more time with me he said it would be a plus but it kinda just backfired and got him more hours at his other job..

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by Supadude

Do you feel like he honestly has no time or hes using work as an excuse to avoid you?

na he's legite busy and when he's not he texts me and calls and attempts to see me; one night i was teaching and i guess he ditched outta work early to surprise me after my shift i know he cares ive been with enough ****heads to know being played over just being busy..i dunno it just sucks

and haha it's not though it's fun as hell and imma tough lil girl :P

[catheitz]

Originally Posted by ryannath

6'11''..5'0''

I have NEVER saw a couple like that. I'm sure it would look ridiculous.

Anyway, if you can't see him much, there can't be much of a relationship in my opinion, but it's your call.

i know right...but for some reason like ppl tell us we look good haha

i know it seems outrageous

the only couple i've everrr seen like that is a family friend and they have 3 kids and they are all differnt heights but all together they look fine it's wierd; almost as if you don't notice? but i hear ya i make fun of him all the time for being sky high

[Supadude]

Originally Posted by catheitz

na he's legite busy and when he's not he texts me and calls and attempts to see me; one night i was teaching and i guess he ditched outta work early to surprise me after my shift i know he cares ive been with enough ****heads to know being played over just being busy..i dunno it just sucks

and haha it's not though it's fun as hell and imma tough lil girl :P

Well I dont think anyone can make this decision for you. Either you like him enough to deal with his work schedule or you find someone with more time.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

He sounds keen anyway, makes a change from guys being alpha and backing off as soon as a girl shows a sign of interest.

Only you can answer the question, is it worth it?

[-DJ-]

Originally Posted by catheitz

he didn't sacrifice it for me; it was a job he's been meaning to get rid of and he said he wanted to that he didn't need the extra $ and if it meant he could possibly spend more time with me he said it would be a plus but it kinda just backfired and got him more hours at his other job..

I had a hard time understanding what you're trying to tell me.

[History in Effect]

Originally Posted by catheitz

i know right...but for some reason like ppl tell us we look good haha

i know it seems outrageous

the only couple i've everrr seen like that is a family friend and they have 3 kids and they are all differnt heights but all together they look fine it's wierd; almost as if you don't notice? but i hear ya i make fun of him all the time for being sky high

so have you come to a sound decision yet?

[BEhave]

Originally Posted by catheitz

awkward hah but i dunno like 9..10, it's nice really nice

woah strong penor. hes even got me beat by a little. how in the hell does that fit in you?

[18gauge]

wtf 6'11??? send him back to Chernobyl

[BIEN_DIESEL]

Originally Posted by catheitz

okay so i was in a really serious relationship..we were going to move to la together and were engaged just couldn't afford rings yet

long story short that ended..had a few rebounds

and now i met this guy; he's in the process of becoming a trainer; he's cute and funny...a bit tall for me being 6'11 but we have fun together, great sex, great company and we really like each other

but

he works ALL THE time and when i say all the time; i mean i train full time, train at another gym on top of that and teach part time; we do live a half hour away from each other so it's a drive but i'm getting really frustrated because everytime we make plans he...kinda just blows me off but not intentionaly

he can't get off work and when they tell him he'll be done by 3 and we make plans he gets stuck there til midnight and they are super strick so he can't call or text me and i know it's not his fault but at the same time i can't help but be a little bitchy ya know?

he was working another job just like that one but quit because he said he worked too much and also wanted us to workout...we've probably made 8 dates and i've seen him twice...but he tells me he misses me everyday and calls when he can

he's a good guy but is it worth my time? i feel so unbelievable frustrated.

ur 5 feet, he is 6'11, sen him twice but already had alot of sex and u was devoted to ur fiance. shakes head, dont ruin urself bc of sex, think about the long run, long term, a new person is always fun atleast till the true side shows

[-DJ-]

Originally Posted by BEhave

woah strong penor. hes even got me beat by a little. how in the hell does that fit in you?

She's probably exaggerating. Girls always get it wrong by like 2 inches.