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07-23-2008, 12:01 AM #1iNGLISH i SPYK??
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Who in here think your destined to be single forever?
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07-23-2008, 12:31 AM #2Registered User
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Not if I have anything to say about it.
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07-23-2008, 12:32 AM #3Registered User
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I've been single for a while now. Most of the time I am ok with it, but I'd be a damn liar if I said I don't think about a relationship. It just seems harder and harder to make it happen as I get older.
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07-23-2008, 12:46 AM #4Archaeologist
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I've been single for quite a while but I've dated around and had some one night stands. I would like to have a relationship but I'm not in any hurry... I'm always looking for an opportunity, but there's always something in the way. I think my expectations might be unreasonably high. I want someone who is attractive, educated, intelligent, sane, and shares my interests. That's honestly very hard to find, especially in a single woman.
I think another problem is that if I do find someone like that, I get intimidated and think she's too good for me.
Then... see my sig. I'm pretty ambivalent... lol.Last edited by Fidelis; 07-23-2008 at 12:49 AM.
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07-23-2008, 12:52 AM #5iNGLISH i SPYK??
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Originally Posted by Red9
people are shady and play way too many games.
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07-23-2008, 12:56 AM #6Registered User
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That, and like 90% of the chicks who want to talk to me either have a kid, some psycho ex bf, or they smoke and drink like a fish. The other 10% are the good ones that are already taken. lol...Originally Posted by FOXXIE
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07-23-2008, 01:00 AM #7Registered User
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Right here. I only like the first month or 2 of a relationship, then the beast comes out in her and rules my life...........then I move on. Sometimes I hang on longer and my life just becomes miserable.
Single for life........sucks, but its reality.
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07-23-2008, 01:08 AM #8iNGLISH i SPYK??
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Originally Posted by bordrshane
yup....look like the good ones are taken.... apparently. lol
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07-23-2008, 01:12 AM #9Registered User
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I am 100%, that's not even an issue. I no longer want, look, or care to fullfill a relationship of any sort. I just want my career and that's it, in order for me to truly enjoy it I will be single. I may be one of those people who at 30 change my mind, but based on past experiences I doubt it. Plus already due to most peoples past I just don't see anyone as special, or wanting to devote so much time to an individual. It just gets even more complex when you are older. The whole romantic bs is a fallacy in our society now sadly.
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07-23-2008, 01:20 AM #10iNGLISH i SPYK??
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Originally Posted by PatProject
sadly in a emo kind of way.. i agree with this post.
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07-23-2008, 01:22 AM #11Unregistered User
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I think i'm gonna be single as long as I wish to be single. Single is just too much fun right now.
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07-23-2008, 01:26 AM #12Registered User
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Sooo, if you don't mind my asking, how long have you been single for, Foxxie?
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07-23-2008, 01:49 AM #13Banned
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No you don't. Every single girl says the same bull****, "I'm single and I love it", "I don't have a bf because I just love the single life", "Boys are all the same, I think I'm just going to stay single forever". Enjoy looking/waiting for a new boyfriend, because we all know you are.Originally Posted by FOXXIE
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07-23-2008, 01:54 AM #14Registered User
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i've been single for about 2 years now and it's been great, but i'm starting to get bored with it and want a girl i can hangout with all the time and travel with and just get to know and settle down. i'm starting to think finding a girl with all the qualities i look for that's interested and single is near impossible.
i keep getting caught up in flings with crazy ass chicks that always have something wrong with them. they seem like good, wholesome girls until you get to know them a little, damn good actresses. luckily they pretty much leave on their own after you show them they can't run all over you and get money and **** out of you.
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07-23-2008, 02:00 AM #15When The Wild Wind Blows
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Couldnt agree moreOriginally Posted by PatProject
I agree 100%Originally Posted by Red9
yes im aware that im 19
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07-23-2008, 02:02 AM #16not now chief
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Yeah i'm single forever. I've stopped trying, i don't even look at women any more (no homo). It's just hopeless and a waste of time.
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07-23-2008, 02:05 AM #17Registered User
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unfortunately no, sonja has been putting the screws to me...
looks like ill have to grow up soon
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07-23-2008, 02:07 AM #18Registered User
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X2! Boys are all the same and they keep opening their legs for the boys that are all same.Originally Posted by Brian McGee
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
Elevate your standards and you'll be surprised what's out there.Idiotic and inconsequential people are still idiotic and inconsequential.
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07-23-2008, 02:53 AM #19Banned
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Tits oot fur tha lads!Originally Posted by FOXXIE
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07-23-2008, 04:33 AM #20Registered User
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honestly i've never been in a serious relationship. Ive had(in fact ya don't wanna know) countless one night stands. Sometimes people are comfortable being with themselves. Again though things can change.
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07-23-2008, 05:07 AM #21When The Wild Wind Blows
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Im not happy being single but i dont see that changing very quickly.
Society is extremely flawed and especially many women. Many women dont know what they want from a guy. They'll invest years of their life for some guy who in reality has no real connection with them.. They're too scared of making the "right" decision and end up leaving footprints of a ridiculous past which many will say doesnt matter, but your past will catch up with you eventually. Events that shape your personality and outlook on life stay under your skin and this change isnt necessarily for the better..
Views and tastes are based upon the majority vote with little individuality. Peer pressure and misguided views of other "sheep" leave the human mind following one particular pattern with little use of your own outlook on certain things. This doesnt just apply to relationships but to many things in life.
Those who are fortunate enough not to be part of this "system" will agree with the above..
Sorry for long reply and i know its drifted from the subject of this thread a bit, but i can assure i am right.
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07-23-2008, 05:18 AM #22⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠⎝ ⎠⎝⎠⎝⎠
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07-23-2008, 05:21 AM #23El Guapo
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Never been in a serious/long-term relationship and I don't really care to be at the moment. I just want to focus on everything else that's important in life. If I meet someone along the way then so be it, but i'm not going out of my way to be in a relationship.
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07-23-2008, 05:24 AM #24Registered User
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Recently single but would prefer to be attached. Im one bad relationship after another.
i have dial up :(
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07-23-2008, 05:26 AM #25Registered User
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I can agree with this.Originally Posted by eurtune
I've been single for way too long and now I want a long term companionship: someone to travel with and settle down with and care about and I want to be intimate on a regular basis with someone.
But sometimes I think I'm destined to be single forever and that's why I'm here in this thread.
I couldn't imagine falling in love and actually finding someone I want to marry. The idea is so out of my grasp.
I'm also starting to think that finding a guy with the qualities I look for is near impossible. I'm surrounded my guys who want to date me but I pick them apart like nothing else. I have to stop it and just pick one and go from there.
I have a weird goofy personality, my biggest problem is finding a guy that actually shares my humour.
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He's right here babyOriginally Posted by Jenflower2
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07-23-2008, 05:33 AM #27120kg/264lb DL :D
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Don't know about forever, but I expect I'll spend a large part of my life single. Apart from one pretty long relationship (9 years) the rest have been around 6 months or so.
I generally like being single - I like my own space, and to do my own thing though sometimes I think a relationship would be nice. From my previous history, I seem to prefer a more casual set-up...Misc Perv #65
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07-23-2008, 05:33 AM #28
u sure u girls ain't ugly??
could be a factor.
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07-23-2008, 06:04 AM #29Registered User
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I would fall in that boat and I too think it's better that way as well.
At least for now and for a long time to come. I like where I am at and perfer things the way they are. Single and loving it.ئەنسیکلۆپێدیایFlorida Gators Crewئەنسیکلۆپێدیای
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07-23-2008, 06:08 AM #30R U looking at ma pint?
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Originally Posted by bordrshane
These two posts basically sum it up for me...Originally Posted by eurtune
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