Who in here think your destined to be single forever?

[RemainDieHard]

I agree and disagree. You don't have to work AS hard. Your looks give you a jumpstart but you still have to follow up from there like any other guy, abs or not.

Plus they're not lining up outside the door because you're a guy and they figure you should chase them down and they're too proud/afraid of being shot down.

Most of the time when someone is "initiating" contact or working their game in the beginning, chances are they will not be shirtless LOL

[GluteStrength]

Most of the time when someone is "initiating" contact or working their game in the beginning, chances are they will not be shirtless LOL

If I was shredded like that I could walk down to the beach and pick up, shirtless. It would just happen, I've seen one of my friends do it several times.

[FOXXIE]

She sure will. Girls always think they'll be destined to be alone and cast in solitude for eternity, but they throw all that out the window when the next guy with shredded abs and swole bi's comes flexin'.

Me, I have no abs or social skills. Plus I am a dude, girls don't just show up at the door. I will be alone forever.

beauty is nice to look at but what really captures my heart is personality.

[infidel4life]

Don't say this often but mother nature screwed up bad. she could've made us in a way that we are attracted to personality more than we are to looks. that way less family problems and all. Not that I've got anything to complain about.

[GluteStrength]

beauty is nice to look at but what really captures my heart is personality.

If there is one thing I've learned, it's that what females SAY they want and what females REALLY want are two totally different things.

I'll bet that you end up with a 'hottie' with a sculpted bod. and crappy personality over someone who's an average joe with a little substance.

[CEO Josh]

I don't. Relationships are fun and pretty good if you can keep your expectations real, be happy with being "content" and can stay away or at least push back unhappy people in your lives.

If the idea of a relationship for you is a fullfilling intresting connection between two people all the time you are out of luck. Relationships are built on the mundane simple, non intresting every day things that happen everyday.

They have random spikes of exictment followed by long periods of being "ok" and thats all you can expect. If you cant be ahppy with that you will never be happy in a relationship.

Imo people forget what a relationship is for and expect it to fullfill other parts of their lives.

[Gr8Ape]

this is a kinda sexist thing to say but most girls, without bf, are bored out of their minds if they dont go out or shop like crazy, basically because they got nothing to do if theyre not in a relationship.

[-=E=-]

Seems to me that you need to learn how to live alone and be happy before you can be with someone and be happy

This is pure bull****. You can't live alone and be happy. Being single requires you to have a lot of friends to make up for the social interaction you're missing not having a family. Humans need social validation to keep a healthy mental state.

So there is no such thing as being alone and being happy. You are either in a relationship, or single with a lot of friends that you chill with very frequently...

If you're single and a loner, then you seriously need to look into finding good friends at the same time as worrying about finding a mate...

Life is complicated... a lot of things need to go right at the same time for you to be normal and healthy and satisfied.

[Beklet]

this is a kinda sexist thing to say but most girls, without bf, are bored out of their minds if they dont go out or shop like crazy, basically because they got nothing to do if theyre not in a relationship.

O'rly????



I'm single and find plenty to do

Go and see films
Go to gigs
Read books
Visit friends
Go to car shows
Party with mates
Make stuff
Sleep
Eat
Fix my car
Surf the net


Just miss the shagging.....

[Gr8Ape]

O'rly????



I'm single and find plenty to do

Go and see films
Go to gigs
Read books
Visit friends
Go to car shows
Party with mates
Make stuff
Sleep
Eat
Fix my car
Surf the net


Just miss the shagging.....

The activities I highlighted are more uncommon with girls....remove that youre left with what? partying and watching movies?


edit: fixing your car???? lol youre awesome

[Beklet]

The activities I highlighted are more uncommon with girls....remove that youre left with what? partying and watching movies?


edit: fixing your car???? lol youre awesome

You don't know the right girls.....

[buttafli]

I have been single for 3 years now and I am ok with it.

[RemainDieHard]

Don't say this often but mother nature screwed up bad. she could've made us in a way that we are attracted to personality more than we are to looks. that way less family problems and all. Not that I've got anything to complain about.

You are incorrect sir. Mother nature made this way to ensure the survival of the species. Who will have healthier babies...... the healthy fit couple or two fat slobs with heart problems and diabetes? Which ones would have been better hunters and would be better at escaping tigers and stuff? THAT is why we want to **** the **** out of a hot girl/guy like an animal.

[LovesMuscles]

this is a kinda sexist thing to say but most girls, without bf, are bored out of their minds if they dont go out or shop like crazy, basically because they got nothing to do if theyre not in a relationship.

No offense but this is one of the dumbest things I've ever read.

[Briangumble]

I feel that way too, but it's only because I don't think I'm ever gonna find another girl that I'll like enough to want to be in a relationship with.

[TooManyMistakes]

i don't TRUST any women. i dont see how i could ever commit to one.

all girls I've known have PROVEN to be untrustworthy.

[Gr8Ape]

No offense but this is one of the dumbest things I've ever read.

ok maybe half

I wouldnt be surprised if most of the girls on this forum arent like that because it has to do with mentality. Girls that workout would have a stronger drive to do stuff by themselves because working out teaches you that (kinda).


But take your average 18 year old girl that just parties, works and goes to school (yeah there are girls like that, plenty) then having a bf is a big part of their lives. They probably read cosmo too. That ****ing thing brainwashes girls its retarded. Do you read cosmo?

[Beklet]

ok maybe half


But take your average 18 year old girl that just parties, works and goes to school (yeah there are girls like that, plenty) then having a bf is a big part of their lives. They probably read cosmo too. That ****ing thing brainwashes girls its retarded. Do you read cosmo?

I've read Cosmo and it's a bit strange, but I expect the UK version is a bit different from the US version anyway!!

I read Scarlet, if anything (probably the only women's mag I ever read lol )

www.scarletmagazine.co.uk

Ha ha the site is blocked at work oh what a surprise!!!!!!

[Gr8Ape]

I've read Cosmo and it's a bit strange, but I expect the UK version is a bit different from the US version anyway!!

I read Scarlet, if anything (probably the only women's mag I ever read lol )

www.scarletmagazine.co.uk

Ha ha the site is blocked at work oh what a surprise!!!!!!

wasnt really asking you the cosmo thing, as I wouldnt expect a 34 year old women to read it lol......

scarlet looks similar....nvm then, cosmo seems to be for all ages hahahahaha

[Beklet]

wasnt really asking you the cosmo thing, as I wouldnt expect a 34 year old women to read it lol......

scarlet looks similar....nvm then, cosmo seems to be for all ages hahahahaha

Ha ha no plenty of 'older' women read Cosmo though I haven't really read it for years (unless I'm in a doctor's surgery...)

And Scarlet isn't really like Cosmo at all - it doesn't tell you how to get men, it tells you what to do when you've got one.....it's essentially porn lol

This month there's a feature on cannibal fetish (you don't actually eat the person) - very odd but funny to read. People are strange

[Gr8Ape]

the funniest thing I find about these magazines are not the endless ''how-to's'' about sex and relationships, but the quizzes
They basically go:

Are you:

A. Like X
B. Like Y
C. Like Z




if you have answered A, you are like X
if you have answered B, you are like Y
if you have answered C, you are like Z, etc

[smariejohnson]

I think we all are supposed to be single. Maybe it's because society has made it so easy for relationships to end. I think most people who have stuck together through the LOOOOONG years have done so not out of love but because they don't want to be old and alone so they settle for the little bit of happiness they have being with someone. I think my views on it may change as I continue to grow.

[InfectedWithBB]

I think we all are supposed to be single. Maybe it's because society has made it so easy for relationships to end. I think most people who have stuck together through the LOOOOONG years have done so not out of love but because they don't want to be old and alone so they settle for the little bit of happiness they have being with someone. I think my views on it may change as I continue to grow.

You know what. I think you're so correct. I can see these things happen in my family.

There is even a saying "Almost everything you do young is to safeguard your senior citizenship" or something like that.

That was the whole idea of having kids back in the day - the helped out. But what about now?

Question is. Is that what we should do? Are you really going to enjoy your SO when you're old and everything is wrinkled and you're sick, etc.?

[glock5800]

interesting thread

[bryanole27]

If there is one thing I've learned, it's that what females SAY they want and what females REALLY want are two totally different things.

I'll bet that you end up with a 'hottie' with a sculpted bod. and crappy personality over someone who's an average joe with a little substance.

THANK YOU! This is exactly what I hear girls say all the time. They try to convince themselves they want someone with "substance" so they don't seem superficial, yet they end up with the douchebag with a six-pack, who never had a job till he was 26 because his parents have money.

Bottom-line..."I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"

[Gr8Ape]

THANK YOU! This is exactly what I hear girls say all the time. They try to convince themselves they want someone with "substance" so they don't seem superficial, yet they end up with the douchebag with a six-pack, who never had a job till he was 26 because his parents have money.

Bottom-line..."I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"

you are 26 and jacked.....hmmmmm?

[bryanole27]

you are 26 and jacked.....hmmmmm?

haha, don't let the 205 fool you...I could lose a good 25 lbs.

[Jhendi82]

I have been single for a little over 2 years. I was in a long term relationship and engaged but like many other young couples things didn't work. I have dated and have met some great women. But haven't found that someone yet. All my friends are either married, engaged, or have children. Over the last year I have seemed to drift from my old crew and turned into a gym rat loner LOL. There has got to be more to life than work an training. At my current situation I feel I'm destined to be single. I have hobbies and stuff but miss the steady companionship of having someone real. More than just a hook up. Any ladies from Ohio on board lol?

[LovesMuscles]

I like this thread.

I find it so funny that I got **** in a thread I made where I wanted to stay single for a few years. People saying it was a stupid idea. ****ing idiots IMO.

It's deleted. Don't bother.

[FOXXIE]

I miss being in relationship but I guess I just dont wanna get hurt again.

for now... I am satisfied to be single, just enjoying the company of friends and family that care about me and make me happy.