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    Sober/Drunk hook-ups

    So todays topic of discussion at work was the morals involved with a sober person hooking up with a drunk one. In this case, is the sober person taking advantage of the drunk person? Or is the responsibility still 50/50 even though one persons judgment as been impaired?

    This ended being an all-day discussion and was quite entertaining and insightful. Just figured why not open it up to hundreds of thousands of people, it can only make it that much more interesting...

    Things to consider:
    -hook up between friends vs. random hook-up
    -guy sober/girl drunk vs. girl sober/ guy drunk
    -the extent of the hook-up (light making out vs. went through 3 boxes of condoms)
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    **** it if you get drunk you know what to expect, its nobodies fault unless shes ****ing passed out
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    I never drink (in the past 7 years) and I love drunk girls soooooo
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    I don't drink and I don't hook up with drunk girls (feel like I'm taking advantage)
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    just don't be that pathetic dude who goes after the drunkest chick he can find...
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    Honestly, I've never "lowered my standards" and hooked up with people I usually wouldn't when I'm sober. And yes, I've been drunk enough many times. I personally think its mostly BS and just a pretext to hookup with someone you normally wouldn't sober so you can an excuse as to why you hooked up with them.


    Guy 1-BRA WTF YOU HOOKED UP WITH THAT WHALE LAST NIGHT?

    Guy 2-I HAD LIKE 10 SHOTS OF JAGERMEISTER BRA

    Guy 1-O OK, ITS COOL THEN. ITS ALSO COOL THAT YOU TOOK A **** IN MY GRANDMA'S URN.
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    I think if you hook up (PIITB n penetration) and she's drunk and you're sober, that constitutes rape. A drunk person cannot legally consent therefore you just raped her.
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    Originally Posted by straightballin View Post
    I think if you hook up (PIITB n penetration) and she's drunk and you're sober, that constitutes rape. A drunk person cannot legally consent therefore you just raped her.
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    Originally Posted by straightballin View Post
    I think if you hook up (PIITB n penetration) and she's drunk and you're sober, that constitutes rape. A drunk person cannot legally consent therefore you just raped her.
    ...umm yeah. Stay in school; drugs are bad. mmm kay?
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    Originally Posted by straightballin View Post
    I think if you hook up (PIITB n penetration) and she's drunk and you're sober, that constitutes rape. A drunk person cannot legally consent therefore you just raped her.
    Yea bro I've heard to many stories of girls accusing/suing guys of rape because they had sex with them while they were drunk and didn't "actually want" to have sex, and therefore never consented which constitutes as rape.
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    There's definitely variables to consider here...

    -The Level of Drunkeness - The most important variable by far. If a girl has had 2-3 drinks and hooks up with a sober guy, then it would be complete bull**** for the girl to claim she was taken advantage of. Unfortunately though... she could probably get away with it. However, if she's ****faced and a sober guy goes in and makes a move, then that's dirty.

    -Friend vs. Random - That kind of depends on the past of their relationship. If they've never messed around before and then one person is drunk and something happens... could get very awkward.

    -Guy/Girl vs. Girl/Guy - I really don't know many guys who are going to give a **** if a girl takes advantage of them. There SHOULDN'T be a bias one way or another, but it's a much bigger risk if a sober guy is hooking up with a drunk girl.

    -The Extent of the Hookup - Also a very important factor. If you makeout with a drunk girl and you're sober then odds are everyone is just gonna get a laugh out of it. If you end up having sex with her then you're taking a BIG risk as far as reputation/legal aspects go.


    Overall... not a good idea though. There's a few situations that aren't a big deal but you really have to be careful.

    I'm never sober when I'm in situations like this though, so I've got nothing to worry about
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    Originally Posted by dbaz View Post
    Honestly, I've never "lowered my standards" and hooked up with people I usually wouldn't when I'm sober. And yes, I've been drunk enough many times. I personally think its mostly BS and just a pretext to hookup with someone you normally wouldn't sober so you can an excuse as to why you hooked up with them.


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    Guy 2-I HAD LIKE 10 SHOTS OF JAGERMEISTER BRA

    Guy 1-O OK, ITS COOL THEN. ITS ALSO COOL THAT YOU TOOK A **** IN MY GRANDMA'S URN.
    Pppppsssssshhhhhhhhhh!!! I've done it numerous times lol. I didn't really care though, it always makes for a good story.

    And yea... it's an excuse for sure. But a pretty good one
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