Needs a womens opinion

[selliott0331]

So I have this girl that I have been interested in and today i decided to ask her to hang out here is the text messages:

ME: Hey I wanted to see if you would like to hang out tonight?

Her: Im working all week and have a full plate right now. Thanks though.

WTF does that mean?

[marathonman2]

She's not interested.

[Jaw-Knee]

Not that hard to figure out there, chief.

[selliott0331]

Well she has been sending some really odd signals then.Oh well OVER IT!

[tm29]

move on. it's not happening.

[Crazymix]

So I have this girl that I have been interested in and today i decided to ask her to hang out here is the text messages:

ME: Hey I wanted to see if you would like to hang out tonight?

Her: Im working all week and have a full plate right now. Thanks though.

WTF does that mean?

you red head her gun=

[dunkonu9]

If you were 14 I would explain. Your 24 it is not hard to figure out. I can just tell you she may have not turned in the restraining order but she has the paperwork filled out.

[BlueShoe]

Sorry. That sucks. She was trying to let you down without having to actually say "no."

[tm29]

If you were 14 I would explain. Your 24 it is not hard to figure out. I can just tell you she may have not turned in the restraining order but she has the paperwork filled out.

laughing out loud!

[*dwest*]

Sorry. That sucks. She was trying to let you down without having to actually say "no."

She saying forget it, leave me alone.

[selliott0331]

God I love you guys (serious)

[Jaw-Knee]

God I love you guys

Well... To be perfectly honest, dude, you should've been able to figure that out by yourself. Hell, she didn't even really bother trying to let you down gently. I'd even say she was pretty blunt about it.

[D1-FS-19]

If she doesn't bother to tell you when she is free, then forget about it.

[U295]

Well... To be perfectly honest, dude, you should've been able to figure that out by yourself. Hell, she didn't even really bother trying to let you down gently. I'd even say she was pretty blunt about it.

sometimes the heart just need some reinsurance before it's completely over , i think thats what OP intention was anyway....

[*dwest*]

Tell her it's okay you just heard she was an easy piece of ass.

[Tootella]

i think you've got a good shot.

give her this

[sif]

it's been said
she's not interested home slice

[selliott0331]

So I went with your guys advise, and she ends up calling me and asking if I want to go out. So we went and saw Indiana Jones. Went to dinner had then had some drinks everything went awesome.

So, that was Saturday, Sunday comes and since its memorial day weekend I decided to go out drinking with some friends. I see her at the bar making out with this other guy (who I know) all over him, she sees me and starts apologizing leaves the other dude and starts hanging on me... She wasn't even that drunk either. Now its not like we have committed to anything and I don?t really care, but any ideas what her intensions are now? She wants to hang out tonight I am reluctant to just say no.

[Finner]

So I went with your guys advise, and she ends up calling me and asking if I want to go out. So we went and saw Indiana Jones. Went to dinner had then had some drinks everything went awesome.

So, that was Saturday, Sunday comes and since its memorial day weekend I decided to go out drinking with some friends. I see her at the bar making out with this other guy (who I know) all over him, she sees me and starts apologizing leaves the other dude and starts hanging on me... She wasn't even that drunk either. Now its not like we have committed to anything and I don?t really care, but any ideas what her intensions are now? She wants to hang out tonight I am reluctant to just say no.

Oh. Honey. . .this may sound harsh, but I've seen this before:

RUN. . .RUN. . .don't WALK. . .RUN.

LOL. All kidding aside. . . there are so many girls out there. Why mess with someone who seems so difficult from the start? Sure, you weren't exclusive or committed or anything, but from the impression I got from your post, drama has already reached it's maximum level for this early, early period of your dating/relationship/thing.

Just say no.
Just say no! LOL!

Or say yes and commit yourself to loving every minute of the madcap hilarity that ensues!!!!

On the other hand, I could be just being judgmental. If I appear that way, I apologize. I'm just still reeling from a friend of mine who dated some Borderline Personality Disorder freak who had him ARRESTED for "Harassment/Stalking" charges. . .when she was the one calling HIM every hour of every day.

I'm allergic to drama.
Highly allergic.

[Tony_S]

ouch


that was painful to read

[selliott0331]

Oh. Honey. . .this may sound harsh, but I've seen this before:

RUN. . .RUN. . .don't WALK. . .RUN.

LOL. All kidding aside. . . there are so many girls out there. Why mess with someone who seems so difficult from the start? Sure, you weren't exclusive or committed or anything, but from the impression I got from your post, drama has already reached it's maximum level for this early, early period of your dating/relationship/thing.

Just say no.
Just say no! LOL!

Or say yes and commit yourself to loving every minute of the madcap hilarity that ensues!!!!

On the other hand, I could be just being judgmental. If I appear that way, I apologize. I'm just still reeling from a friend of mine who dated some Borderline Personality Disorder freak who had him ARRESTED for "Harassment/Stalking" charges. . .when she was the one calling HIM every hour of every day.

I'm allergic to drama.
Highly allergic.

Noted I am done with this chic.... NEXT?? LOL

[tm29]

good call...she had drama queen written all over so badly she should walk around with a tiara.

[Crazymix]

good call...she had drama queen written all over so badly she should walk around with a tiara.

most are

[sif]

Heh what a douche
say No.
and then proceed to tell her why ie. she's a Hoe ( no Ludacris)

[Crazymix]

Heh what a douche
say No.
and then proceed to tell her why ie. she's a Hoe ( no Ludacris)

i doubt he has the balls to do so...

[sif]

give him a little bit of credit
besides, that will just make her want him more ( not true)

[tm29]

most are

easy there!

alright, i guess you're right....

[selliott0331]

Heh what a douche
say No.
and then proceed to tell her why ie. she's a Hoe ( no Ludacris)

I told her no, she said why I said because I have a full plate right now... See my Original post to get that.

[Finner]

I told her no, she said why I said because I have a full plate right now... See my Original post to get that.

Dude!!!! That was an awesome comeback!!! You managed to get one in without looking like a classless jerk. (As I think calling her a 'ho would've done. . .would've made you look like a no-class fool.)

Good on ya!

Keep looking. As you said "Neeeeeeeeext!"

[Dangerousd37]

So I went with your guys advise, and she ends up calling me and asking if I want to go out. So we went and saw Indiana Jones. Went to dinner had then had some drinks everything went awesome.

So, that was Saturday, Sunday comes and since its memorial day weekend I decided to go out drinking with some friends. I see her at the bar making out with this other guy (who I know) all over him, she sees me and starts apologizing leaves the other dude and starts hanging on me... She wasn't even that drunk either. Now its not like we have committed to anything and I don?t really care, but any ideas what her intensions are now? She wants to hang out tonight I am reluctant to just say no.

Dude she's a drunk low self-esteemed, classless, desperate girl- why bother with her. She's getting her self-esteem from being at the bars drinking and getting male attention. I think thats whats called a bar wh*re.She showed her true colors- move on. Just ignore her she'll get the picture-- if not then be rude and crass.