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05-17-2008, 12:19 PM
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Ladies: just a quick curious q.
Do yall like it when a guy not stare but look at yall from time to time every time yall workout?
coz there's this gir at the gyml that i really like and i just couldnt help myself from looking and i dont wanna send the wrong signal and yes....im way too intimidated by her,lol.
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05-17-2008, 01:01 PM
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you could smile...say hello...staring blankly had that stalkerish feel to it.
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05-17-2008, 01:17 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by tm29
you could smile...say hello...staring blankly had that stalkerish feel to it.
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I don't like when people watch me workout. But tm29 is right, if you like her then do something other than just stare.
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05-17-2008, 01:19 PM
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I don't really care what other people do...It's their eyes!
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05-17-2008, 01:48 PM
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I don't care who stares at me, I'm too zoned out to even notice tbh
If you're too intimidated by her then you probably don't plan on talking to her, so why bother?
if you Are planning on talking to her, do it before she notices the staring...
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05-17-2008, 01:50 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SexyChic
I don't really care what other people do...It's their eyes!
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STARING!
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05-17-2008, 06:04 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Gorgo
I don't care who stares at me, I'm too zoned out to even notice tbh
If you're too intimidated by her then you probably don't plan on talking to her, so why bother?
if you Are planning on talking to her, do it before she notices the staring...
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lol,i do really plan on talkin to her....it's crazy, when im on my way driving to the gym i could think of all these stuff that i could say,blah blah blah but when the time comes and she's right there in front of me doin her set or whatever..it's like my brain just freezes and my jaw just locks up! lol..i know i suck at this!
GOD,I HOPE SHE DOESNT POST HERE!!
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Last edited by jhem23; 05-17-2008 at 06:07 PM.
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05-17-2008, 06:53 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jhem23
lol,i do really plan on talkin to her....it's crazy, when im on my way driving to the gym i could think of all these stuff that i could say,blah blah blah but when the time comes and she's right there in front of me doin her set or whatever..it's like my brain just freezes and my jaw just locks up! lol..i know i suck at this!
GOD,I HOPE SHE DOESNT POST HERE!!
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can i just say...awwwwwwwwwwwww.
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05-17-2008, 07:08 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jhem23
lol,i do really plan on talkin to her....it's crazy, when im on my way driving to the gym i could think of all these stuff that i could say,blah blah blah but when the time comes and she's right there in front of me doin her set or whatever..it's like my brain just freezes and my jaw just locks up! lol..i know i suck at this!
GOD,I HOPE SHE DOESNT POST HERE!!
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no crazy stalker? you are 27 go up to her. that simple.
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05-17-2008, 09:24 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jhem23
lol,i do really plan on talkin to her....it's crazy, when im on my way driving to the gym i could think of all these stuff that i could say,blah blah blah but when the time comes and she's right there in front of me doin her set or whatever..it's like my brain just freezes and my jaw just locks up! lol..i know i suck at this!
GOD,I HOPE SHE DOESNT POST HERE!!
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Actually, you should walk right up to her next time and tell her exactly what you've typed here.
End your little speech with "If you are up for it, let's get a coffee."
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05-18-2008, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazymix
no crazy stalker? you are 27 go up to her. that simple.
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that's funny coz my friend said the same thing but usually i dont really have any issues when it comes to things like this but this one just really suckin me inside out,lol..
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05-18-2008, 12:13 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jhem23
that's funny coz my friend said the same thing but usually i dont really have any issues when it comes to things like this but this one just really suckin me inside out,lol..
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see i would tell you to go up and talk to her, but i thought about it and if a girl came up to me during my workout, i would be pissed. im not there to meet people.
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05-18-2008, 10:27 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jhem23
that's funny coz my friend said the same thing but usually i dont really have any issues when it comes to things like this but this one just really suckin me inside out,lol..
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just sayin if you haven't done it yet I'm sure plenty of others have.. what is the worse that can happen?
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05-18-2008, 10:42 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by xdxaxnx
see i would tell you to go up and talk to her, but i thought about it and if a girl came up to me during my workout, i would be pissed. im not there to meet people.
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i agree but if he could find the right time, it could work.
and telling her what you've written here would def be the way to go. just PLEASE do not use any of the pick up lines from the other thread, she'll prob drop a weight on your foot!
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05-18-2008, 11:35 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by tm29
i agree but if he could find the right time, it could work.
and telling her what you've written here would def be the way to go. just PLEASE do not use any of the pick up lines from the other thread, she'll prob drop a weight on your foot!
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yeah but i guess the right time would be after the workout, catch her leaving.... .
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05-18-2008, 11:41 AM
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Quote:
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yeah but i guess the right time would be after the workout, catch her leaving.... .
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so maybe a little parking lot stalking?
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05-18-2008, 12:48 PM
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so maybe a little parking lot stalking?
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haha, i dont do parking lot stalking...but this coming monday i think she be working out so im gonna double the dose of steroids and go up to her and say HOOOOW YOUUU DOING,lol jk. anyways,ill see this monday if i can somehow workout next to her and hopefully start a conversation or sumtin..
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05-18-2008, 02:33 PM
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Do what I do. Ask the girl for a spot.
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05-18-2008, 04:17 PM
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so maybe a little parking lot stalking?
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i would prefer that over someone interupting my workout... my headphones do not come out of my ears for two hours. dont parking lot stalk just catch her leaving, offer to buy her a smoothie at the smoothie bar 
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05-18-2008, 04:20 PM
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Quote:
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i would prefer that over someone interupting my workout... my headphones do not come out of my ears for two hours. dont parking lot stalk just catch her leaving, offer to buy her a smoothie at the smoothie bar |
i wish there was a smoothie bar at my gym 
my headphones don't come out either. i found a trainer willing to communicate with me through hand signals...lol
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05-18-2008, 05:48 PM
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Trust me, ask her to spot you on the bench press or incline db press. Squat is a little to intimate lol especially if you are sweating. Easy way to strike up a conversation. Even if you don't want to be the one to initiate conversation, just keep asking her for spots until she does. Or eventually you can say something like "Thanks for spotting me, btw are you ever going to ask me my name?"
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05-18-2008, 06:37 PM
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Trust me, ask her to spot you on the bench press or incline db press. Squat is a little to intimate lol especially if you are sweating. Easy way to strike up a conversation. Even if you don't want to be the one to initiate conversation, just keep asking her for spots until she does. Or eventually you can say something like "Thanks for spotting me, btw are you ever going to ask me my name?"
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whatever you do don't be pushy. that would turn me off real quick.
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05-18-2008, 11:18 PM
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whatever you do don't be pushy. that would turn me off real quick.
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No pushiness needed. Just ask her for a spot and keep asking her. Just make sure you don't ask her if she's on the treadmill or in the middle of a set. Maybe she'll ask you to return the favor. But let me tell you, this an easy way to talk to the girl. I've scored all my dates from the gym through this method.
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05-19-2008, 06:30 AM
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Originally Posted by D1-FS-19
No pushiness needed. Just ask her for a spot and keep asking her. Just make sure you don't ask her if she's on the treadmill or in the middle of a set. Maybe she'll ask you to return the favor. But let me tell you, this an easy way to talk to the girl. I've scored all my dates from the gym through this method.
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you're a trainer!
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05-19-2008, 06:38 AM
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Quote:
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you could smile...say hello...staring blankly had that stalkerish feel to it.
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hello 
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05-19-2008, 07:31 PM
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you're a trainer!
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lol so?
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05-20-2008, 06:19 AM
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why hello there to you too.
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lol so?
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so you have a leg up on the situation...you ask for a spot, you say hey i'm a trainer, here are a few tips...just sayin.
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05-20-2008, 11:04 AM
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why hello there to you too.
so you have a leg up on the situation...you ask for a spot, you say hey i'm a trainer, here are a few tips...just sayin.
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I guess you're right, but even before I became I trainer, that's how I used to strike up conversations in the gym with pretty girls. Also, I will never come right out and say I'm a trainer. A girl's first impression of me will either be shark or cocky jerk. I never give fitness advice unless I am specifically asked for it. But you gotta admit, asking the girl for a spot is good way to talk to her and get her attention without seeming creepy. We boys are real sneaky.
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05-20-2008, 11:37 AM
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Do what I do and ask her "mind if you spot me here, I'm attempting my one rep max with 135lbs and I'm afraid to do it alone since there are no bigger guys around" it works every time! She'll laugh and say "135lbs? Are you kidding?" Say "I'm new to this" if she believes you your in baby! She will spot you and after the set say "Whew I'm worn out from all that weight lets go get some dairy queen!"
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05-20-2008, 01:50 PM
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I guess you're right, but even before I became I trainer, that's how I used to strike up conversations in the gym with pretty girls. Also, I will never come right out and say I'm a trainer. A girl's first impression of me will either be shark or cocky jerk. I never give fitness advice unless I am specifically asked for it. But you gotta admit, asking the girl for a spot is good way to talk to her and get her attention without seeming creepy. We boys are real sneaky. |
it is a great ice breaker, i'll give you that. and i've been approached by a few "trainers" at my gym offerring advice, and i def think shark!
you may THINK you're sneaky, but we girls KNOW you're being sneaky, which makes us sneakiest! lol
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