cant man up -_-

Death-S · 05-05-2008, 02:29 PM

i've liked this girl for a while and we have been talking and flirting with each other for a couple months. We are really close even though we dont see a lot of each other in person in school mostly we talk on the phone and aim. she trusts me a lot and we tell things to each other that we couldnt tell our closest friends. I think she may like me back and my friends think she does too but i cant man up and ask her out. ever time i see her i kinda freeze and i kick myself on the inside. we kind of brought up the topic of going out but she says she doesnt really want a b/f right now because she just recently broke up with a friend of mine. what should i do?

kick ass dude · 05-05-2008, 02:34 PM

find another girl

BigMoeYa · 05-05-2008, 02:39 PM

Make a move at least so you know what your doing... " what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" Just so you know, don't date a girl that dated your friend, and make sure to don't talk about relationship, if girl tells you that she doesn't want a relationship it doesn't mean anything, it could be a **** test, but if she's attracted to you she'll do anything to win you over.. Seems like you waited too long and your friend zoned.. I would say move on to the next girl, but make sure she knows that your dating other girls.. Jealousy is a killer!

irishjackmp · 05-05-2008, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Death-S

she trusts me a lot and we tell things to each other that we couldnt tell our closest friends

You were friend zoned the minute this happened. She has girlfriends for these types of conversations. If you act like one of her girlfriends tyou will get treated like one. (and more importantly, looked at like one)

Oh... and when she says "I don't want a BF right now"... what she means is "I don't want you for a BF".

OP... don't act like a "buddy" from now on if you want to avoid the Friends zone.

Death-S · 05-05-2008, 03:03 PM

ya im in a weird situation. although it does sound like the friend zone a lot im not actually in it (...yet

) its very odd i think im just gonna go for it and see what happens.

OatSlap · 05-05-2008, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Death-S

i've liked this girl for a while and we have been talking and flirting with each other for a couple months. We are really close even though we dont see a lot of each other in person in school mostly we talk on the phone and aim. she trusts me a lot and we tell things to each other that we couldnt tell our closest friends. I think she may like me back and my friends think she does too but i cant man up and ask her out. ever time i see her i kinda freeze and i kick myself on the inside. we kind of brought up the topic of going out but she says she doesnt really want a b/f right now because she just recently broke up with a friend of mine. what should i do?

lol friends of yours?? negged bro's before ho's

PHX04 · 05-05-2008, 03:49 PM

does she have female friend to talk to like she does to you?

maybe she just wants a lil fling..if you can handle that then, try that...maybe she'll want a relationship soon...

do or try it..before someone else does..

Oratos · 05-05-2008, 06:17 PM

YOu entered the friend zone with her by allways talking so much about secrets and ****... GJ
find another chick and don't **** up this time
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brandur · 05-05-2008, 06:54 PM

You say you talk alot on the phone/aim? and not much in person? That leads into a lot of awkward times when you actually do see her. One time I didn't see a girl for a month because she was in a different state, and I only met her 2 or 3 times before she left. We texted/talked on the phone a whollllle lot during that month and whenever I finally saw her in person, not really sure why, it was super awkward.