Showing Wife Appriciation

[HARRYBEAST]

I really want to do something to show my wife how proud/happy/thankful I am for how well she is doing with her pregnancy. I want to do something creative and inexpensive. If I buy her jewelry she will get mad at me. So something creative that will get the point across to her. Any suggestions will be appriciated. I put it here instead of the regular misc because I do want a few real suggestions mixed in.

[bambifox]

I really want to do something to show my wife how proud/happy/thankful I am for how well she is doing with her pregnancy. I want to do something creative and inexpensive. If I buy her jewelry she will get mad at me. So something creative that will get the point across to her. Any suggestions will be appriciated. I put it here instead of the regular misc because I do want a few real suggestions mixed in.

Buy her a "day" at a local "day spa"...she'll get manicured, pedicured, massaged, new hairdo, etc. Only costs anywhere's from $200-300 bucks! But being pregnant, it would probably be met with great appreciation (the relaxation and beauty of it all!) Hope this helps!

[HeatherAC]

Hmmm.....it's apprEciated..LOL

Baby is a girl, so......what does your wife like? Hobbies? Interests?

Edit:
OOOHHH - I totally agree with the spa thing - how about once before baby comes and once after?

And why will she be mad if you buy her jewelry?

[Crazymix]

I say you 2 both go to a spa and get the couples treatment nice, relaxing, interment.. then take her home to dinner cook a nice meal over candle light, great conversation and passionate love making.

[HARRYBEAST]

Buy her a "day" at a local "day spa"...she'll get manicured, pedicured, massaged, new hairdo, etc. Only costs anywhere's from $200-300 bucks! But being pregnant, it would probably be met with great appreciation (the relaxation and beauty of it all!) Hope this helps!

This is a good idea but I did this whole thing for V-Day.

Hmmm.....it's apprEciated..LOL

Baby is a girl, so......what does your wife like? Hobbies? Interests?

Edit:
OOOHHH - I totally agree with the spa thing - how about once before baby comes and once after?

And why will she be mad if you buy her jewelry?

She will be mad if I spend too much money because she is scared to death that the baby is going to cost us millions of dollars and that we cannot spend money anymore. I would actually like to do something on May 13 which is the anniversary of our first date (6 years)

[bambifox]

I say you 2 both go to a spa and get the couples treatment nice, relaxing, interment.. then take her home to dinner cook a nice meal over candle light, great conversation and passionate love making.

Ooooohhh ME LIKEY!

[HARRYBEAST]

I say you 2 both go to a spa and get the couples treatment nice, relaxing, interment.. then take her home to dinner cook a nice meal over candle light, great conversation and passionate love making.

Passionate love making is hard to do with a wife that is 8 months pregnant.

[HARRYBEAST]

I am thinking about suprising her by taking off the day and taking her to get a couples massage and then a nice dinner.

[Crazymix]

Ooooohhh ME LIKEY!

oh hai

Passionate love making is hard to do with a wife that is 8 months pregnant.

well then just cuddle the night away rub her feet down tell her how speical she is.....kiss her like it the first time your lips locked.
sigh this is making me sad. ( no homo)

[bambifox]

Passionate love making is hard to do with a wife that is 8 months pregnant.

Uhhhhhh....NOT! Woman are at their "hottest" while prego! Just work out the legistics...ya know? I really like the whole cooking dinner and just having a you and her day though....cuz when the baby's here...it'll be harder to do that!

[HARRYBEAST]

oh hai


well then just cuddle the night away rub her feet down tell her how speical she is.....kiss her like it the first time your lips locked.
sigh this is making me sad. ( no homo)

I was having my doubts before you put the (no homo)

No that's a good idea though

[HARRYBEAST]

Uhhhhhh....NOT! Woman are at their "hottest" while prego! Just work out the legistics...ya know? I really like the whole cooking dinner and just having a you and her day though....cuz when the baby's here...it'll be harder to do that!

Woah there! You misunderstood me. I still think she is the sexiest woman on the planet. It is just hard to get her in the mood when I have to position her just right. Cooking dinner is not that big of a deal to her I cook 5 days a week for her. The foot rubs are also a daily thing. Maybe this is why thinking of things to do is hard. I may spoil her a little.

[bambifox]

Woah there! You misunderstood me. I still think she is the sexiest woman on the planet. It is just hard to get her in the mood when I have to position her just right. Cooking dinner is not that big of a deal to her I cook 5 days a week for her. The foot rubs are also a daily thing. Maybe this is why thinking of things to do is hard. I may spoil her a little.

Damn!!! You got a brother? sweeeeeet!

[fastdraw]

Do the laundry (if you don't already).

Sorry I'm not very helpfull, single military guy here.

[HARRYBEAST]

Damn!!! You got a brother? sweeeeeet!

No brothers sorry. She puts up with my constant joking around and my misc like behavior though. I am willing to take on a few more wifes though if you can talk her into it.

[Crazymix]

I was having my doubts before you put the (no homo)

No that's a good idea though

STRONG NO HOMO....

[HeatherAC]

She will be mad if I spend too much money because she is scared to death that the baby is going to cost us millions of dollars and that we cannot spend money anymore. I would actually like to do something on May 13 which is the anniversary of our first date (6 years)

What did you do on your first date? Could you recreate it and pledge your unending love all over again????

Corny, but cute. Just like you.

[ctgblue]

dark chocolate and a foot massage, followed by the ultimate wife porn, YOU cleaning the entire house....

[tm29]

You can pamper her yourself. Give her a mani pedi in her living room....order in whatever food is calling her name and turn the phone off.

She'll appreciate the effort, and the fact that it doesn't cost hundreds of dollars.

[HARRYBEAST]

What did you do on your first date? Could you recreate it and pledge your unending love all over again????

Corny, but cute. Just like you.

We went and saw the first spiderman movie. Not very romantic. I thought about writing about how I felt that day in a cheesy romantic letter version.

dark chocolate and a foot massage, followed by the ultimate wife porn, YOU cleaning the entire house....

I almost negged you until I saw the mod part and the fact that a neg from you would barry me. Its a good idea there but I am still trying to use the excuse that I don't know how to clean, if she finds out I know how she will expect it all the time.

[HARRYBEAST]

You can pamper her yourself. Give her a mani pedi in her living room....order in whatever food is calling her name and turn the phone off.

She'll appreciate the effort, and the fact that it doesn't cost hundreds of dollars.

of course because every guy knows how to give good manicure/pedicures.

[CoffeCanSlayer]

of course because every guy knows how to give good manicure/pedicures.

Its not rocket science man. You DO have the internet at your disposal dont you?

Research Pedicures, here i'll do it for you:

http://www.lindisima.com/beauty/pedicure.htm

Bam!! Took like 3 seconds.

[solstice]

Do everything around the house for her for Mothers Day (next Sunday)- dishes, cleaning, laundry, make meals, rub her feet, run her a bath... She'll appreciate the sentiment Also- if you can- book a 'Babymoon' getaway- even just one night away somewhere special before the baby comes- show her what you've got planned when you do the rest of the stuff. Or- and- consider hiring a doula for her labor/delivery- talk to her about it and see what she thinks- but a good doula is worth their weight in gold And the point that *you* thought of it- something to help her in that situation- will be much appreciated.

(And yes- for alot of women- a man doing housework IS like porn. At the very least it's EXCELLENT foreplay! Even- perhaps especially- for a pregnant woman! ) <-- (I say that as a mother of two LOL)

Hope something in there helps! You're a sweetie- she's lucky to have you!

[BlueShoe]

dark chocolate and a foot massage, followed by the ultimate wife porn, YOU cleaning the entire house....

I like the way you think.

How about you clean in your underwear. That might get her in the mood.

Just saw you don't want to give away your cleaning abilities. Well, YOU could give her the massage that way you wouldn't have to spend money. My bf sometimes gives me a massage during sex especially if I am not in the mood. I get what I want and he gets what he wants and usually I end up getting into it somewhere in the middle of things.

[HARRYBEAST]

I am getting some good input but I still need some more good ideas. I will post what I do for her after it is done.

[PLANETGETLOW]

How about a gift certificate to a day spa or a professional massage

Renew your vows

Weekend getaway

A simple letter with details

A picture collage board (you make it)

Reunite her with an old friend or family member

Send flowers

Send a singing ********

Setup something with a cool cop and have her arrested, then you come rescue her (this one's kinda on the border, hope she has a sense of humor)

[HARRYBEAST]

How about a gift certificate to a day spa or a professional massage

Renew your vows

Weekend getaway

A simple letter with details

A picture collage board (you make it)

Reunite her with an old friend or family member

Send flowers

Send a singing ********

Setup something with a cool cop and have her arrested, then you come rescue her (this one's kinda on the border, hope she has a sense of humor)

Very good suggestions. I like the last one and know a few cops, but since she is pregnant emotional I don't think it would be the best idea. I am thinking of both an artsy thing and a letter for starters

[PLANETGETLOW]

Very good suggestions. I like the last one and know a few cops, but since she is pregnant emotional I don't think it would be the best idea. I am thinking of both an artsy thing and a letter for starters

ahahah........yea, might not want to shock her too much. Get her arrested another day (or in the bedroom

[morgansd12]

Buy her a foot spa machine and give her a foot rub at the house and a glass of champagne or sparkling Cider if she is paranoid about alcohol.

$50
http://www.drugstore.com/products/pr...ELAID=61267939

[phikappa]

Flowers and a nice card work for my wife. However, you need to put some thought into the card. Don't just write "Love, Hubby" at the bottom. Tell her how you really feel. It doesn't have to be a book, but you need to get your feelings across.