after 6 months my GF loves me, yet I havent said it and not sure I ever will.

bracketcake · 04-18-2008, 01:10 AM

Sometimes i feel really distnant from her. I wont be happy when Im with her. She doesnt do anything wrong or anything I dont know why I feel like this. Anyone ever gone through my situation and came out of it to be in a happy long term relationship

Frank Drebin · 04-18-2008, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bracketcake

Sometimes i feel really distnant from her. I wont be happy when Im with her. She doesnt do anything wrong or anything I dont know why I feel like this. Anyone ever gone through my situation and came out of it to be in a happy long term relationship

Afraid not. I tried for over a year to make myself love my ex and it just wasn't there.

magnabolt · 04-18-2008, 01:56 AM

Just pretend you love her so you can keep banging her until you find a new gf.

webbyman · 04-18-2008, 03:48 AM

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Originally Posted by magnabolt

Just pretend you love her so you can keep banging her until you find a new gf.

Harsh.. BUT

quoted for truth.

YoungGuns24s · 04-18-2008, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by bracketcake

Sometimes i feel really distnant from her. I wont be happy when Im with her. She doesnt do anything wrong or anything I dont know why I feel like this. Anyone ever gone through my situation and came out of it to be in a happy long term relationship

jus put some dick in her world. tear her *******.

jeffedge · 04-18-2008, 06:20 AM

Most dudes don't mean it. Just say it and keep getting ass until you find someone you enjoy. Getting ass>>>>>>>>>>>not getting ass. Think about it, you can either blow this and go back to your hand, or lie and search. Not cheat, just keep your eyes open you know.

Tiffany Wantsmore · 04-18-2008, 06:58 AM

I feel so sorry for your gf. Like you said, she loves you and you feel nothing for her. Your best plan is to finish it and let her go and find someone who will appreciate her and love her back.

As for you other guys telling him to lie/pretend just so he can keep having sex with her, that's awful. That displays a complete lack of respect for women in general, and also for this particular girl who, in the OP's own words, has done nothing wrong, so why just use her for sex and play with her feelings like that?

beefcake4000 · 04-18-2008, 07:00 AM

stick it in her butt.

she will know you love her then.

bracketcake · 04-18-2008, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Aphrodite

I feel so sorry for your gf. Like you said, she loves you and you feel nothing for her. Your best plan is to finish it and let her go and find someone who will appreciate her and love her back.

As for you other guys telling him to lie/pretend just so he can keep having sex with her, that's awful. That displays a complete lack of respect for women in general, and also for this particular girl who, in the OP's own words, has done nothing wrong, so why just use her for sex and play with her feelings like that?

Thanks for some serious advice, im assuming the other guys werent serious, at least I hope they werent. I guess maybe im not saying it right. I still enjoy being with her but I cant really say im in love with her yet.

Paragod · 04-18-2008, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by bracketcake

Sometimes i feel really distnant from her. I wont be happy when Im with her. She doesnt do anything wrong or anything I dont know why I feel like this. Anyone ever gone through my situation and came out of it to be in a happy long term relationship

I think nearly everyone goes through this situation. Take your time, enjoy yourself, and let the relationship or "love" grow. You have stayed with her for 6 months so you must not be miserable. Do some meditating on the issue, and if you are indeed miserable and don't see yourself ever loving her in return, then you know whats the right thing to do.

-=E=- · 04-18-2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by beefcake4000

stick it in her butt.

she will know you love her then.

Something like this would make me laugh a few years ago... but now I just find it ****ing sad man... WTF? Stick in her ass? **** dude... have some respect for people.

buster_hymen · 04-18-2008, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by -=E=-

Something like this would make me laugh a few years ago... but now I just find it ****ing sad man... WTF? Stick in her ass? **** dude... have some respect for people.

lol stfu ***got