Girl is confusing the **** out of me.

[Murrayjb]

So we were supposed to hang out about 4 times. SHE instigated it every time as well. She is the one that would come up with the ideas to hang out.

And when the time comes to actually meet, she either:

1.) Doesn't show up and doesn't pick up her phone.

2.) Texts me at the last minute and says she cant come, but maybe tomorrow.


People tell me that she likes me, and she flirts with me a lot, and even asks me to hang out. But, when the time comes to actually do it, she bails at the last second.

What does this mean? I can't piece anything together, does anyone know what this might mean. Or possibly anyone experience something similar?

[Kevintensity]

some girls are nervous too, maybe thats it

why cant girls be straightforward instead of playing games is what i'm screamin

[dazzlepecs]

she is 18, probably telling any guy she half-fancies to go and do stuff with her then flaking




man up and just move on, might even help your cause

[209vaughn]

Ya thats crap. Call her out on it. If she asks to hang out again, remind her what she did last time. If she gives a lame excuse, move on. If you can accept it, then give it one last shot.

[mrbrndn15]

ask her to hangout then don't show up...then ask her how it feels

[Sach]

Originally Posted by Murrayjb

So we were supposed to hang out about 4 times. SHE instigated it every time as well. She is the one that would come up with the ideas to hang out.

And when the time comes to actually meet, she either:

1.) Doesn't show up and doesn't pick up her phone.

2.) Texts me at the last minute and says she cant come, but maybe tomorrow.


People tell me that she likes me, and she flirts with me a lot, and even asks me to hang out. But, when the time comes to actually do it, she bails at the last second.

What does this mean? I can't piece anything together, does anyone know what this might mean. Or possibly anyone experience something similar?

she wants to go out with you, but also wants you to initiate things.

[PlateSlammer]

Bullsh*t. Time to get alpha on her a$$. She flaked on u...no excuses bro. I say stop talking to her and move on. But first...dont forget to call her out on it. Please i beg u do not listen to the excuses she gives...they will be lies lol.

[darknessesedge]

Originally Posted by Murrayjb

So we were supposed to hang out about 4 times. SHE instigated it every time as well. She is the one that would come up with the ideas to hang out.

And when the time comes to actually meet, she either:

1.) Doesn't show up and doesn't pick up her phone.

2.) Texts me at the last minute and says she cant come, but maybe tomorrow.


People tell me that she likes me, and she flirts with me a lot, and even asks me to hang out. But, when the time comes to actually do it, she bails at the last second.

What does this mean? I can't piece anything together, does anyone know what this might mean. Or possibly anyone experience something similar?

ignore her man and move on.
this will either get her to actually show up or show you she isnt into you at all.

[jts]

u should move on, i used to have a girl like that and she didnt change at all when we started goin out, it annoyed the hell out of me....i didnt get ne pussy

[Kuno_happosai]

Originally Posted by Murrayjb

So we were supposed to hang out about 4 times. SHE instigated it every time as well. She is the one that would come up with the ideas to hang out.

And when the time comes to actually meet, she either:

1.) Doesn't show up and doesn't pick up her phone.

2.) Texts me at the last minute and says she cant come, but maybe tomorrow.


People tell me that she likes me, and she flirts with me a lot, and even asks me to hang out. But, when the time comes to actually do it, she bails at the last second.

What does this mean? I can't piece anything together, does anyone know what this might mean. Or possibly anyone experience something similar?

the problem is she views what you guys are doing as a "date"

girls dont like to go on dates

only older women, or matured girls, like dates

you need to try and make it as clear to a girl as possible that you arent going on a date, you are just friends and nothing more than friends, and you are just chilling as friends and stuff.

then once you actually pick her up u can kiss her (go for lips first) and take her to your place for sex.

[Scarface2883]

Originally Posted by Kuno_happosai

the problem is she views what you guys are doing as a "date"

girls dont like to go on dates

only older women, or matured girls, like dates

you need to try and make it as clear to a girl as possible that you arent going on a date, you are just friends and nothing more than friends, and you are just chilling as friends and stuff.

then once you actually pick her up u can kiss her (go for lips first) and take her to your place for sex.

vegeta you're back

[4THRILLS]

Dear god a flaker / double booker = no go. not worth your time buddy becuase its getting wasted now and will continue until you just call her out on it and say i dont want to see you.

But if are a headcase yourself and you wana try say you will pick her up then theres no excuse, but then she just probably wont be home and you will get angry and then see above.

[CBR007RR]

I agree with some of the guys here, move on...if a girl is truly interested she will make time. the only times I've put a girl on hold is because I was with another one. just saying.
and usually when you pay less attention, she will want more.

[Ridge4120]

Give up on it man, sooo not worth it. She's obviously shady and probably playin the field with a few other fellas.

[user904904904904]

It sounds to me like you're her backup plan.

Some girls will make plans with multiple people and then when they work out, choose who she would most like to hang out with.

This comes from her being insecure about herself - she thinks people won't make the time to be around her so she makes plans with multiple people so that she for sure has someone to hang around with.

Forget about her. Spend your time on a girl who actually respects that your time is precious.

[joelz54_99]

Originally Posted by Murrayjb

So we were supposed to hang out about 4 times. SHE instigated it every time as well. She is the one that would come up with the ideas to hang out.

And when the time comes to actually meet, she either:

1.) Doesn't show up and doesn't pick up her phone.

2.) Texts me at the last minute and says she cant come, but maybe tomorrow.


People tell me that she likes me, and she flirts with me a lot, and even asks me to hang out. But, when the time comes to actually do it, she bails at the last second.

What does this mean? I can't piece anything together, does anyone know what this might mean. Or possibly anyone experience something similar?

It can be numerous things.
1. She is uncertain about you.
2. She has someone else.
3. She likes to play games.


The best thing to do is to call her bull****. Ask her whats up.

[luckylynch]

Originally Posted by Murrayjb

So we were supposed to hang out about 4 times. SHE instigated it every time as well. She is the one that would come up with the ideas to hang out.

And when the time comes to actually meet, she either:

1.) Doesn't show up and doesn't pick up her phone.

2.) Texts me at the last minute and says she cant come, but maybe tomorrow.


People tell me that she likes me, and she flirts with me a lot, and even asks me to hang out. But, when the time comes to actually do it, she bails at the last second.

What does this mean? I can't piece anything together, does anyone know what this might mean. Or possibly anyone experience something similar?

wholly how u get so much muscles ?

and that chick ....sounds like she is nervous....or shy...

so your game plan is to:

1) break down her def

2)make her feel comfortable

3)u got to pretend to be interested in her

4)play it cool

5)make her laugh---thats your def breaker

6)spend 6 months getting to know her

7)gl if you want to get married