this is what you do. since youre going to dinner tonight, go and dont give her any hints. be nice and act normal. then when its time to leave she'll walk you to her door or to your car and you look deep into her eyes and say "well this is it, its time for me to go...(pause/hug or kiss)... goodbye (insert ex's name)." since when do people call their bf/gf by their names? they dont. they usually say babe/baby or a pet name. that will make her think. if she calls you out on that right then and there just smile and leave. thats when you ignore her forever.
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dont drop hints at dinner. i find that dropping hits at least, sometimes, can lead to too much info being put out there on the table. i would stop all contact with her whenever you are ready to do so. i mean, dont do it before dinner
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Leave her a single lined note saying, "I know you are cheating on me, goodbye." Her guilt will eat her alive, and she will do everything to contact you. Then you ignore her completley.
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i wonder if the OP is having dinner right now. its been a while since he's posted
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go back a page. its up, and quoted
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you should just completely empty the place.. your stuff, her stuff. everything. burn her stuff or put it in boxes at the curb.
save a couple things that mean alot to her and every couple months send a picture of one of the items so she'll never forget...
or buzz her head when she's sleeping then piss on her then walk out.
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Figured it was time for an update! (sorry, havent been around a computer much at all w/spring practice and class).
Went to a concert together on wednesday night--had fun w/normal group of ppl before we went in and concert was great. I acted as if nothing was wrong and couldnt be better. After the concert was over and I was dropping her off at home, we were talking for a bit. I said "you know i'm understanding and forgiving, but one thing i could never forgive is someone looking me in the eye and lying to my face" She agreed, saying she would be upset if she found out I had done the same. Looked her in the eye and asked if she had ever cheated on me. She said "no, I would never do that to you. If i made a mistake and did it, I would have told you."
I smiled and said "whew thank god. I figure I can give this to you now!" I pulled out the message (yes i printed it off haha), and handed it to her. She smiled slightly and asked what it was, and began reading it. As she got a few sentences in, tears started coming as did the apologies, asking how i found it, etc.
I told her she didnt have to lie about it--that she should have said something a few minutes before when I gave her one last chance. Since then it has been a lot of missed calls from her, messages from her and her friends etc. Voicemails and txts and msgs from all of them saying how dumb she felt, and that it hadnt happened since the once back in Feb., that she knew it was wrong and its only me she wants etc.
I didnt really handle it like a lot of you said--as hurt and upset as I was, I didnt want to do anything to go over the top w/the situation. Would rather just leave it and be happy that I didnt put any more time into the relationship. If she learns from this, she will be great for some guy; that guy wont be me.
Sorry I took so long updating everyone (if there was even any interest). I apologize for not following everyones thoughts and directions here. Figured what I did was better than putting myself in an argument/yelling/etc--(didnt want a fight, just wanted to be over).Last edited by AppleCat; 04-19-2008 at 11:41 AM.
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