Girl and I just became official in our relationship and she told me a couple weeks ago that she would be going with her best friend and her best friends boyfriend to Vegas for one week because he is in a Darts tournament.
We live in Canada and she is 19 so she wouldn't be able to drink or do much there anyways besides tagging along for the darts thing but I'm just worried that someone may take advantage of her since she is so innocent and can be naive.
Should I be concerned that she may cheat on me?
Gonna admit I am kind of insecure and it crosses my mind a lot that she could find someone better, but knowing she is going to Vegas that brings in so many other factors.
I've expressed to her that I'm worried for her sake that someone might try something or spike a drink of hers and that she should be very careful and never go anywhere alone since it's the 3 of them going. She expressed to me that she wishes I could go but I can't because of work.
What do guys? Should I say anything to her to make her stay? I want to her to go have fun and I don't want her to hold it against me in the future that I forced her to stay in town because of me.
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03-02-2015, 05:47 PM #1Registered User
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gf is going to vegas in 2 months (srs)
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03-02-2015, 05:50 PM #2Registered User
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I understand your concerns due to all the horror stories of the things that happen to relationships due to Vegas, but if you don't trust her than the relationship is already done. Basically if she's going to cheat, you can't stop her. You can't control her behavior.
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03-02-2015, 05:58 PM #3Registered User
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1. The dart playing boyfriend has a sweet life
2. This isn't exactly a bachelorette party where she's going to be clubbing all week with da girlz~~~, she's with her friend and her boyfriend and they're probably going to be spending a significant amount of time at Circus Circus or The Orleans or whatever chithole holds dart tournaments hanging around fat, farting pro dart players. I don't think you have too much to worry about.
However, if anything bad does happen don't let her try to play the "I'm innocent and naive!" card she's got you buying into. She knows she's going to Sin Phucking City, she knows what's out there, anything that happens is a choice she's making consciously. But I don't think you need to be worried.~Misc BJJ Crew: Crawl Atop Me and Meet Your Doom~
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03-02-2015, 05:59 PM #4****giest response possible!Originally Posted by BigTimePlayer
Once she touches down in Vegas, you touch down in North Carolina OP
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03-02-2015, 06:02 PM #5Nah mean, jelly bean?
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No you shouldn't say anything to convince her to stay. Either you trust her or you don't, and if you don't why are you in a relationship with her?
She's not even old enough to drink I wouldn't be overly worried.The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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03-02-2015, 06:03 PM #6Registered User
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lol that's misc logic. If it's a genuinely good girl, she won't cheat. If she does, than she wasn't worth it in the first place. And everyone finds out sooner or later. No one can hide it forever.Originally Posted by elshaneo
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03-02-2015, 06:03 PM #7What the cuck?!
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Are you friends with the guy or her best friend? If they're the honest type they will tell you if she strays. If not, then it's not good that your girl doesn't hang around honest people and is going to Vegas.
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03-02-2015, 06:45 PM #8Registered User
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The relationship with my gf and her friends is very new to me. I don't know the best friend or the boyfriend too well yet, only hung out with them a few times so I'm not sure if they would tell me or not.Originally Posted by goodcupcakes
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03-02-2015, 06:46 PM #9Registered User
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I do trust her, but my insecurities come out the most when I get jealous, but I also know how guys can be, especially in Vegas.Originally Posted by FU3L
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03-02-2015, 06:52 PM #10Nah mean, jelly bean?
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It is what it is. It's up to her to make the right decisions.Originally Posted by tranzz
As Boffothe said, don't let her play the 'I'm innocent and naive' card should she admit to anything happening. But aside from that the trip is nothing to lose sleep over, she's going with friends and one of their BF's for a dart tournament. Not exactly party central, especially because she/they are below the drinking age.The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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03-02-2015, 06:58 PM #11Registered User
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This is very true and is the main reason I am keeping calm over the situation. I've never been to Vegas so I don't really know what to expect, and I know they wouldn't either!Originally Posted by FU3L
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03-02-2015, 07:11 PM #12Registered User
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This is just my opinion, but Vegas is not called Sin City for no ****ing reason. Nobody is immune. Going there is tempting fate. If you're single it's an awesome place to party. But if you have someone, and they can't go with you, you shouldn't be ****ing going.
Like, are you kidding me? Strip clubs, casinos, hookers, drinking, all the bachelor and bachelorette parties and drunk horny people in the same spot, temptation and peer pressure x900000000, really?
Also, a 19 year old dude might have a hard time buying drinks but a 19 year old girl surely will not.
That's just my opinion though and I haven't read any replies ITT. I can only tell you that if my friends invited my gf to Vegas and I couldn't go, I don't think she would, and if she did, she'd DD. Otherwise she could get ****ed by whoever she wanted because she'd be single.
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03-02-2015, 07:15 PM #13Registered User
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No one's gonna care that she's 19. If she's attractive, she'll get drinks and hit on plenty.
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Not everyone is out to cheat if they are in a happy relationship.Originally Posted by jasonpourne
I have went to Vegas 3 years straight for work (electronics expo/show). These were held at Mandalay Bay each year and we all had our own private suits at The Venetian.
These expo's have plenty of hot waitress passing around cocktails, Half naked models are hired to mingle and bring attention to booths and exhibits. So from 10am - 4pm, plenty of chances to cheat...from 4pm-till morning plenty more. Not once did I think about cheating or cross the "relationship line".
Was the opportunity there? Very fuarking much so, I'm above average in looks with a nice build, dress nice and had cash to spend.....no temptation was enough to cheat. No 30 mins of new puss was worth risking my relationship over.▪█───█▪ Everybody wants to be a bodybuilder, but nobody want to lift no heavy-azz weights. ▪█───█▪
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03-02-2015, 07:57 PM #15nom nom nom
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Originally Posted by BigTimePlayer
These 2 sum it upOriginally Posted by jeffl1980
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03-02-2015, 08:13 PM #16Registered User
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She's going to spectate a Dart's tournament and probably sight see for that week. So not worth worrying about.
Just because it's vegas doesn't mean she's going to snort ******* off a bouncer's schlong in a night club toilet.
Just kidding that's exactly what she's going to do.Stay natty cuz
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***Update***
Got asked to go to Vegas with them literally 30 minutes after posting this thread. I appreciate all the replies and reassurance. I knew I could always trust the miscers.
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04-06-2016, 02:26 PM #18Banned
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We don't delete posts so stop reporting g them or I'll sticky them.
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04-06-2016, 02:35 PM #19Registered User
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Once you adopt the mindset that you should have literally zero influence on her and her decisions, it will make your life so much better. All you do is sit back and watch what she does and how she does it. If you see or find out she is doing things you do not approve of or don't accept, move on. Life is beautiful that way; woman will take themselves right out of your life.
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04-06-2016, 02:47 PM #20
1. Go to Arbys
2. Purchase a roast beef sandwich
3. Proceed to have intercourse with the sandwich
Pretty much what her pussy is gonna be like after she gets back from Vegas
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04-06-2016, 02:55 PM #21Registered User
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All you can do is work on building a strong healthy relationship. Support her and be glad she is going on a sweet trip and hope she don't **** around and tear your heart out.Originally Posted by tranzz
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04-06-2016, 03:00 PM #22Deal with it.
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04-06-2016, 03:18 PM #23Registered User
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my friend (a girl) went to vegas with 4 other girls.
All went clubbing to XS or hakkasan i forgot and one of the girl (shes cute) found a dude and was making out with him.... shes in a 3 year relationship with a dude back home in canada and my friend had to yell at her and stop her from going to the random dudes hotel room for sex
so yea.... that says something about sloots gonna sloot
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04-06-2016, 03:36 PM #24mic dropper
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You guys act like everyone goes to vegas to cheat. Like it's some kindof 24/7 orgy haven. Have you ever been there? It's a normal city that just doesn't shut down at the end of the day.
If a sloots gonna sloot, then she's gonna sloot. The location doesn't matter.Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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04-06-2016, 04:02 PM #25What the cuck?!
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Thread was from a year ago guys.
Originally Posted by Iceman1800
I'm guessing OP wanted to delete this thread because either
1) He got cucked by this girl
2) He's gonna marry this girl and doesn't want her to find his posts doubting her loyalty
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04-07-2016, 06:05 AM #26Registered User
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Ughhhh....you are so insecure bro. She asked you to go, this is a good sign. Tell her to be safe, have fun and enjoy herself and don't let her sense your insecurity because then she may cheat.
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