Say you know a girl likes you, can you determine if she wants you for sex or for a relationship?
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01-14-2007, 06:13 AM #5
well that depends on how open her sexuality is. if she is open then instead of talking about family stuff and civilized stuff she is usually looking more long term. but if she's touching you and talking about your body alot and trying to find reasons to come by your place then she may be looking for sex.... but that realy isnt a exact science.
01-14-2007, 09:53 AM #6
Now dont take that as she doesnt want a long term relationship as well though.
Now a girl that is interested in you but doesnt just want to use you for sex will show a genuine type interest in you. She will be more interested in your personality and may ask more stuff geared toward "where do you work, what kind of stuff do you like?"
Basically if the woman just wants sex she will not be very concerned about you as a person and your personality. She generally just come on strong physically and her talk will be more sexually oriented.
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Usually just asking... "So what is it you're looking for from this?" is the best way to find out... Guessing tends to lead to trouble and miscommunications and then huge arguements ending in some bitter stupid way.... Ask and you'll know, and you won't come out looking like an ass later on down the road...
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06-29-2013, 01:48 PM #17
If she wants a relationship rest assured she will make it known at some point. Various "talks" will likely be brought up by her about "what are we?". Or perhaps instead she will start playing games to try and trap you. Maybe she will even just come out and straight say what she wants (most aren't this logical however). Whatever the case may be, if she wants a relationship, you'll eventually know.
If she only wants sex then the smashing will just continue without any of the above happening because she is cool with such a situation.
Just keep smashing.
By all means DO NOT ASK HER WHAT SHE WANTS. That is lose-lose. Unless she is extremely cool, she will get mad you made her feel like a sloot if she only wants sex. If she wants a relationship, you now immediately lose dat fuk buddy unless you wife her up.
06-29-2013, 02:01 PM #18
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when she starts wearing your clothes home, when she takes you with her to get a pedicure manicure, when she likes cuddling up next to you after sex and holding your hand in public, when she uploads pics of you two to her instagram... these are all good signs
if you only hear from her a few times a week after 10pm, she comes over and smashes then bounces then im afraid ive got sum bad newz==Front Squat 315x3==
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how long are we talking, realistically? How long have you known said girl? 1 mo, 1 date, over a year? It's all different. I know I'm relationship material, always have been because I don't date or even look at sloots. The girl you've known for a month will have sex with you and then escalate. The first date will tell you she's not having sex with you (but would). The year or so will eventually hint, but reluctantly because she's vulnerable, so give that one time to marinate just a little more.
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