Could women deal with the amount of rejection men face regularly?

[KennyK]

This thread is not meant to be sexist in any way and serious.

Most men deal with rejection from women pretty regularly, especially if you're out talking to a lot of women.

That can be quite a bit of negative energy of the course of an existence.

Anyway, i've noticed that women analyze pretty much every encounter they have with a man they are interested in.

asking what's wrong with me, i'm confused etc (yes, a fair number of guys on this board do it as well. lol!)

Ladies do you think you could deal with that much rejection, let's say week after week?

discuss

[joelz54_99]

I certainly dont think so and the reason I say this is because they are way more emotional. I dont think they can comprehend and most will come out saying that they get rejected just as much. Women are groom to sit back and wait for a mate to stop by and she rejects or keeps. truth.

[MIKES3]

This thread is not meant to be sexist in any and serious.

Most men deal with rejection from women pretty regularly, especially if you're out talking to a lot of women.

That can be quite a bit of negative energy of the course of an existence.

Anyway, i've noticed that women analyze pretty much every encounter they have with a man they are interested in.

asking what's wrong with me, i'm confused etc (yes, a fair number of guys on this board do it as well. lol!)

Ladies do you think you could deal with that much rejection, let's say week after week?

discuss

Dude!! Thats why most woman turn into whores. The beautful woman know they can get 90% of the men out there. Most hotties are just dick teases.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

I wouldn't be able to, no. I hate rejection. I hardly approach anyone, unless I fancy him so much I figure its worth the risk.

[mikecart1]

This thread is not meant to be sexist in any and serious.

Most men deal with rejection from women pretty regularly, especially if you're out talking to a lot of women.

That can be quite a bit of negative energy of the course of an existence.

Anyway, i've noticed that women analyze pretty much every encounter they have with a man they are interested in.

asking what's wrong with me, i'm confused etc (yes, a fair number of guys on this board do it as well. lol!)

Ladies do you think you could deal with that much rejection, let's say week after week?

discuss

Hell to the nizooooo. I think I still hold records for 2007 rejection rate: 3-600. 3 is the dates and gf's and 600 is the rejections to the face (serious). I guess being hotter than only ~35% of the male population based on hotornot.com doesn't help either. :/

I wouldn't be able to, no. I hate rejection. I hardly approach anyone, unless I fancy him so much I figure its worth the risk.

Hhaha. I destroy you in how many times I got rejected. Wait... what???

[KennyK]

Hell to the nizooooo. I think I still hold records for 2007 rejection rate: 3-600. 3 is the dates and gf's and 600 is the rejections to the face (serious). I guess being hotter than only ~35% of the male population based on hotornot.com doesn't help either. :/



Hhaha. I destroy you in how many times I got rejected. Wait... what???

the end of '07, beginning of '08, i was getting rejected like crazy. I was ready to jump off of a bridge. lol

[mikecart1]

the end of '07, beginning of '08, i was getting rejected like crazy. I was ready to jump off of a bridge. lol

Yeah when I was younger I used to be proud that my rejection rate was nearly perfect LOL. I only asked out less than 10 girls though up through hs. Then I was like f*** it. Then I remember why I approached so few to begin with LOL. It pays off though. The gf's I have had have been marvelous.

[username19]

Yeah when I was younger I used to be proud that my rejection rate was nearly perfect LOL. I only asked out less than 10 girls though up through hs. Then I was like f*** it. Then I remember why I approached so few to begin with LOL. It pays off though. The gf's I have had have been marvelous.

u look like a pretty decent looking guy (no homo) how was your game when you asked the 600 girls

[suave9]

theres no way in hell haha. Suicide rates would be 10x what they are now.

Great thread btw

[loney]

Hell to the nizooooo. I think I still hold records for 2007 rejection rate: 3-600. 3 is the dates and gf's and 600 is the rejections to the face (serious).

Wow. Read a book on pick-up or something.

600 approaches and only 3 good came out of it? WTF are you doing?

[Jenflower2]

This thread is not meant to be sexist in any and serious.

Most men deal with rejection from women pretty regularly, especially if you're out talking to a lot of women.

That can be quite a bit of negative energy of the course of an existence.

Anyway, i've noticed that women analyze pretty much every encounter they have with a man they are interested in.

asking what's wrong with me, i'm confused etc (yes, a fair number of guys on this board do it as well. lol!)

Ladies do you think you could deal with that much rejection, let's say week after week?

discuss

It would be really hard initially but eventually I'd get used to the rejection and be a pro at dealing with it.
Rejection is hard for both sexes but it's really helpful, but difficult, to learn to not take it personally and to move on.

[tmac4real]

no, they have low self esteem as it is, putting them in situations of regular men would cause a sharp increase in suicide rates/depression.

DEAD SERIOUS.

[KennyK]

It would be really hard initially but eventually I'd get used to the rejection and be a pro at dealing with it.
Rejection is hard for both sexes but it's really helpful, but difficult, to learn to not take it personally and to move on.

ironically this thread was based on one of yours. lol

[Jenflower2]

ironically this thread was based on one of yours. lol

Really?! Which one Kenny K?

[mikecart1]

Wow. Read a book on pick-up or something.

600 approaches and only 3 good came out of it? WTF are you doing?

I read books. I also am not a supporter of taking whatever is left i.e. I go for generally hotter looking girls - the ones guys are too afraid to approach. I still suck though but I am getting better.

u look like a pretty decent looking guy (no homo) how was your game when you asked the 600 girls

My game used to suck. Now it is decent. My #1 opener is still "Hi my name is Michael" and then I cheese for a few seconds.

[KennyK]

Really?! Which one Kenny K?

It was a thread where you were asking about whether he was into you or not.

or something to that effect, but you were being very analytical.

I know someone else who is going through something like that and is trying to over analyze the situation.

So it made me think, could a woman get rejected regularly without analyzing every encounter they have with a male they are interested in.

If men did that, there would be zero procreation.

[Jenflower2]

It was a thread where you were asking about whether he was into you or not.

or something to that effect, but you were being very analytical.

I know someone else who is going through something like that and is trying to over analyze the situation.

So it made me think, could a woman get rejected regularly without analyzing every encounter they have with a male they are interested in.

If men did that, there would be zero procreation.

I took a long break from the whole dating/relationship thing, so a lot of it feels real new to me so i'll admit I'm super rusty but gosh I am learning so much, one being to heed the obvious and not overanalyze... but yes handling rejection with ease is something that anyone can learn to do given enough practice, it is not something only acheivable by men...men just get more practice.

[KennyK]

I took a long break from the whole dating/relationship thing, so a lot of it feels real new to me so i'll admit I'm super rusty but gosh I am learning so much, one being to heed the obvious and not overanalyze... but yes handling rejection with ease is something that anyone can learn to do given enough practice, it is not something only acheivable by men...men just get more practice.

lol

point

[captainhorseboy]

they'd all be either dead or bulimic

[JonZ]

No, they couldnt.

Women need encouragement and compliments.

[MiniMachine]

I took a long break from the whole dating/relationship thing, so a lot of it feels real new to me so i'll admit I'm super rusty but gosh I am learning so much, one being to heed the obvious and not overanalyze... but yes handling rejection with ease is something that anyone can learn to do given enough practice, it is not something only acheivable by men...men just get more practice.

i disagree with jennflower2 for 2 reasons.

1- women need alot of attention and usually can get what they want through it.

2- hey if youre single now, ya know, lets get some drinks.

[YoMaMa84]

I dont think so......women over analyze things too much...they're emotions would get the best of them eventually.

[doktordolan]

Men have to deal with rejection from women
Women have to deal with sexual harassment from men.

[johnrich69]

As a whole......NOPE!!!

[stella summers]

From the rejection I've actually gotten (which is not often since I never approach a guy/girl unless I'm REALLY interested and believe it's worth the risk), I never really take it personally. I just shrug it off and move on.

[peng]

lol of course they can't.

They have a 90-99% success rate and they still can't manage to approach.

They would all develop all kinds of disorders if they had to face the level of rejection that we do.

[LovesMuscles]

This thread is not meant to be sexist in any way and serious.

Most men deal with rejection from women pretty regularly, especially if you're out talking to a lot of women.

That can be quite a bit of negative energy of the course of an existence.

Anyway, i've noticed that women analyze pretty much every encounter they have with a man they are interested in.

asking what's wrong with me, i'm confused etc (yes, a fair number of guys on this board do it as well. lol!)

Ladies do you think you could deal with that much rejection, let's say week after week?

discuss

I've noticed that the more attention a girl receives, it becomes ingrained that she can get any guy she wants.

Anyway, guys have it pretty rough. Girls may be complimented all the time, but she won't be able to muster up the courage to approach a guy. So rejection wouldn't happen.

But for myself, it could prove traumatizing lol. Even if I was told time after time that I was the hottest girl, I don't think I'd have the courage.

[fromoe]

ice cream sales would drastically increase

[suave9]

lol of course they can't.

They have a 90-99% success rate and they still can't manage to approach.

They would all develop all kinds of disorders if they had to face the level of rejection that we do.

Well said.. they've got virtually 0% chance of getting rejected if they're a 7 or above... and THEY STILL CAN'T DO IT haha.

Apart of me though, thinks that they are clueless on what to say because they are always on the recieving end instead of the side giving it.

Welcome to the real world gals.

[LovesMuscles]

Well said.. they've got virtually 0% chance of getting rejected if they're a 7 or above... and THEY STILL CAN'T DO IT haha.

Apart of me though, thinks that they are clueless on what to say because they are always on the recieving end instead of the side giving it.

Welcome to the real world gals.

x2

I would have no idea what to say. But wouldn't the guy think I was a whore for approaching him?