At what minimum age is it considered "weird" to be a virgin?

[deadfingers]

Honestly I don't see the big deal, I'm a virgin, 21. Right now I'm "building" myself up in more ways than one than to worry about sex. Besides I'm holding out till marriage if possible. When do I think it's weird, I suppose if you're in your late 20s and have yet to make a move on a girl or even tried to have sex. Then again everyone is different, a lot of factors to consider.

[roccobladr]

1. You need good looks to be charming. Well, not necessarily good looks, but there are sexy, hott, fiiine, cute, attractive, normal, not attractive, and then busted out ugly (c'est moi)

2. I'm a bitch

3. I'm really negative and that turns people off

4. No

bad attitude FTL. you are at psu and cant find a girl to talk to? cmon man!

[Al_Pal]

bad attitude FTL. you are at psu and cant find a girl to talk to? cmon man!

he plays the oboe.

lol.


anyone who says anything after 20, is likely a virgin. 20 is weird. i dont have a single friend that didnt lose it before highschool ended.

[JennaClaire]

It's not weird if it's for religious purposes, but I lost mine at 18.

[Kiefer 2004]

I'm 22 and a virgin (I've never had a girlfriend). I'm a senior in college (I transferred from a CC first) and I can't find a girl at all that is interested in me and finds me attractive

[Zoupa]

I'm 22 and a virgin (I've never had a girlfriend). I'm a senior in college (I transferred from a CC) and I can't find a girl at all that is interested in me and finds me attractive

do you ask chicks out? too high of standards?

It amazed me how easy it is to get chicks once I lowered my standards and didn't just chase models. I've since upped them again, though, as I'm not desperate.

[Kiefer 2004]

do you ask chicks out? too high of standards?

It amazed me how easy it is to get chicks once I lowered my standards and didn't just chase models. I've since upped them again, though, as I'm not desperate.

Yes, I ask chicks out. I am 0 for 16. My standards are around 6 to 7's.

[kmk25II45]

I was a virgin till 25. Don't think I kissed a girl till I was 23. It was weird graduating high school a virgin and it just got worse and worse to the point that it contributed a lot to me feeling like a f*ckin douchebag. However, up to the time that I lost it, I was in the National Guard for 6 years concurrently with getting two bachelor degrees so I didn't really have getting laid as my top priority. Within two months of graduating, I had the chance to f*ck two girls; the second of which I actually did f*ck.

[bluemarlinO4]

I was a virgin till 25. Don't think I kissed a girl till I was 23. It was weird graduating high school a virgin and it just got worse and worse to the point that it contributed a lot to me feeling like a f*ckin douchebag. However, up to the time that I lost it, I was in the National Guard for 6 years concurrently with getting two bachelor degrees so I didn't really have getting laid as my top priority. Within two months of graduating, I had the chance to f*ck two girls; the second of which I actually did f*ck.

come on man, dont use going to college or being in the military to contributing to you not getting some. If anything, that should have helped.

[sumguy]

20, because by then you've probably spent a couple years in college, military, etc. and had plenty of opportunity.

[deadfingers]

come on man, dont use going to college or being in the military to contributing to you not getting some. If anything, that should have helped.

Agreed, I'm in the military as well and I can tell you that it's very easy. I myself would rather wait though, but that's just me. Go to Korea, you'll get laid fast! Juicy's ftw, or is it ftl?

[wildphucker]

I don't see any age as wierd. Alot of people can't get it in their teens and can't get it in their 20s either. A friend of mine recently confessed that he went 16 months without it and he is a perfectly normal looking guy.

"minimum" age conveys the idea that there is some specific point in time where it clicks over from 'not wierd' to 'wierd'. Where do you draw the line? The exact date of someones birthday?

[7Happy7]

Agreed, I'm in the military as well and I can tell you that it's very easy. I myself would rather wait though, but that's just me. Go to Korea, you'll get laid fast! Juicy's ftw, or is it ftl?

so its easier to get laid in the military/

[Dysfunqtional]

1. You need good looks to be charming. Well, not necessarily good looks, but there are sexy, hott, fiiine, cute, attractive, normal, not attractive, and then busted out ugly (c'est moi)

2. I'm a bitch

3. I'm really negative and that turns people off

4. No

ur not a bad looking dude (no homo) you are just small, keep lifting and getting bigger you will gain confidence.

[OboePlayaz1988]

bad attitude FTL. you are at psu and cant find a girl to talk to? cmon man!

I don't go to PSU, I didn't even apply there (even though I went to state high). . .I'm a student at the Peabody Conservatory of Music in Baltimore, MD

he plays the oboe.

lol.


anyone who says anything after 20, is likely a virgin. 20 is weird. i dont have a single friend that didnt lose it before highschool ended.

Oboists don't have offspring? There are whores and sluts at my school and half the students there aren't virgins, even the Asians aren't. Only prob is they sleep with other musicians (people I do not find desirable at all. . .they're all dorks anyways).

And as far as your friends go, good for them. I really don't care.

ur not a bad looking dude (no homo) you are just small, keep lifting and getting bigger you will gain confidence.

Yes, I am bad-looking. I see myself in the mirror everyday and it's depressing. It's actually in my favor that people don't want to hook up with me. . .I'd be too hasty. Since I'll probably die soon, it's not something that I should be concentrating on anyways.

[bill257]

I'd say 25. Unlike most I think school and work should be a focus during your college years to minimize debt. That leaves no time for social interaction until you graduate at 21-23. If you fail to **** after 2-4 years of just working it is probably weird.

[Dysfunqtional]

Yes, I am bad-looking. I see myself in the mirror everyday and it's depressing. It's actually in my favor that people don't want to hook up with me. . .I'd be too hasty. Since I'll probably die soon, it's not something that I should be concentrating on anyways.

there is your problem right there, no self confidence. Girls will see right through that..

[OboePlayaz1988]

there is your problem right there, no self confidence. Girls will see right through that..

oh gawd here we go with the confidence thing. . .

[wildphucker]

60% of the population is obese so nowadays virginity rates would be higher. I see many gross, pasty, ugly socially crippled people in one day it is ridiculous.


Also there are alot of disorders/mental issues which can make normal social interaction practically impossible, and getting sex the stuff of science fiction. Social anxiety, aspergers syndrome, agorophobia...etc.

I know a guy who is 25 and a virgin and the only thing out of the ordinary is that he is in a wheelchair.

[Lunchbox419]

I think there is no age limit if you're waiting until marriage. If not, then I say 21 is the age you should lose it by. You can buy cigarettes, alcohol, gamble... so why not be able to have sex, lol.

[shreder]

19 i rekon, your out of school, your going out....your missing out.

lost mine at 16 but wan't really having good sex till i was 20

[YUL]

18-19.

20 and above is kind of pushing it into the akward category

[Al_Pal]

Oboists don't have offspring? There are whores and sluts at my school and half the students there aren't virgins, even the Asians aren't. Only prob is they sleep with other musicians (people I do not find desirable at all. . .they're all dorks anyways).

And as far as your friends go, good for them. I really don't care.
.

half the students? more like 98% of them. you are a loser.

[OboePlayaz1988]

half the students? more like 98% of them. you are a loser.

You stupid ass person. YOU JUST MADE MY POINT EVEN STRONGER. hello. . .

you suck at reading, get it together

[bigbondo]

The "weirdness" factor is different for every person, but I'd say it starts to get a little weird by 24 and you've been trying.

[Al_Pal]

You stupid ass person. YOU JUST MADE MY POINT EVEN STRONGER. hello. . .

you suck at reading, get it together

people who have sex arent all sluts n whore your brainwashed ****ing loser.

you just trying to make excuses to justify being such a ***got in your own mind. when the truth is you would **** the next whore who offered you pussy, doesnt matter how many times she has had sex.

[Zoupa]

people who have sex arent all sluts n whore your brainwashed ****ing loser.

you just trying to make excuses to justify being such a ***got in your own mind. when the truth is you would **** the next whore who offered you pussy, doesnt matter how many times she has had sex.

All he said was that there were whores and sluts at his school. He was basically explaining that his school is like any other school in the sex regard. I don't see where he labelled all chicks that have sex as sluts.

[deadfingers]

so its easier to get laid in the military/

Relatively yes, you tend to visit a lot of different countries that don't tend to be as "tight" when it comes to sexual stuff. Not to mention people in the military cheat like crazy, I don't want to get involved with that crap though.

[OboePlayaz1988]

people who have sex arent all sluts n whore your brainwashed ****ing loser.

you just trying to make excuses to justify being such a ***got in your own mind. when the truth is you would **** the next whore who offered you pussy, doesnt matter how many times she has had sex.

Oh whatever I am not brainwashed. I observe reality, and the reality is that there are some people who are . . . . nasty ass

And no I would not **** the next whore that offered me pussy becaues 1) there can't be a NEXT w/o a FIRST (can't get none) and 2) I don't wanna get sick.

Even though this is a public forum, my comment/response was not a signal to get a comment from Al Pal. . .ughh and btw, you're skinny

Take care, have fun *rolls eyes*

All he said was that there were whores and sluts at his school. He was basically explaining that his school is like any other school in the sex regard. I don't see where he labelled all chicks that have sex as sluts.

I told him to get his reading together. . .

[Al_Pal]

cause every sexual active female has teh aids... gtfoh!