I am a 30yr old virgin Help!

[tubenoob]

For real I am a 30yr old virgin. I'm not real social(duh). I'll blame that on not being hugged enough as a child blah blah. Anyways I'm tired of being such a loser. Help! Oh my hot or not rating is 7.4 and I joined a local "singles club" online. Very few hits on it but I had a fatty gaming me but I got nervous and screwed it up. I can and will add details as this thread gets replys,I just don't want to bore you guys just yet lol.

[proteinpump]

Prostitute ftw!

[tubenoob]

Thats cheating!

[maori-rap]

For real I am a 30yr old virgin. I'm not real social(duh). I'll blame that on not being hugged enough as a child blah blah. Anyways I'm tired of being such a loser. Help! Oh my hot or not rating is 7.4 and I joined a local "singles club" online. Very few hits on it but I had a fatty gaming me but I got nervous and screwed it up. I can and will add details as this thread gets replys,I just don't want to bore you guys just yet lol.

The best advice I can give is too start conversations with woman, and don't be nervous about it. You don't have to go straight for the dirty talk, just make pleasent conversation and try and build a rapour. Do this enough and you may eventually start to get some positive signs, like invites to meet again...which can only be a good thing. If you got a 7.4 on HON you can't be that ugly, so have faith in your looks, if you DO feel unattractive change the way you dress or look. Mostly its about confidence, if you've waited this long and you're still a virgin ( I am too BTW) its worth taking the time to find the right woman. Hope this has helped.

[kick ass dude]

Prostitute ftw!

QFT

that or suicide

[Chris A]

QFT

that or suicide

u still beating women dude?

[kick ass dude]

u still beating women dude?

i just got back home man. i got arrested

[Johnnie Rico]

Where in tx u live. I'll search for links to hookers.

[Dr.Adam]

honest and sincere advice- Forget about your mission to "get some." Make your mission to really get to know some people of both sexes. Start with making some new friends.

Practice your listening on people. Do things like rephrase what you hear and ask questions.

Lots of good will come out of this in all areas of your life.

Just remember, people want to be around people who make them feel good.

Be sincere, be yourself.

[ispy]

lol @ blaming not getting any on not being hugged as a child. you make datderecelltech/rip chuck look good.

try hitting up emperor's club vip.

[tubenoob]

The best advice I can give is too start conversations with woman, and don't be nervous about it. You don't have to go straight for the dirty talk, just make pleasent conversation and try and build a rapour. Do this enough and you may eventually start to get some positive signs, like invites to meet again...which can only be a good thing. If you got a 7.4 on HON you can't be that ugly, so have faith in your looks, if you DO feel unattractive change the way you dress or look. Mostly its about confidence, if you've waited this long and you're still a virgin ( I am too BTW) its worth taking the time to find the right woman. Hope this has helped.

Thanks I will keep it in mind BTW I played quake 3 with someone named maori...

[tubenoob]

honest and sincere advice- Forget about your mission to "get some." Make your mission to really get to know some people of both sexes. Start with making some new friends.

Practice your listening on people. Do things like rephrase what you hear and ask questions.

Lots of good will come out of this in all areas of your life.

Just remember, people want to be around people who make them feel good.

Be sincere, be yourself.

I am thinking "getting some" will really help with understanding people better.

[dog20]

get an escort

[DKE_GUY]

Stop thinking about it so much. Also at this point what do you have to lose? besides the virginity of course? Nothing. So i would tell some woman your a virgin, make it a joke in a way. They may be curious and help you to get into a more intimate convo. If you do get into something to seal the deal, just put the girl on top and let her work, so you don't have to act weird trying to be dominate, which I think we all know right now you will not be.

And the fatties might be a good road to travel for now. That or Prostitution.

[BlackHermit]

As mentioned before, forget about getting laid. Hire a hooker so you know what it feels like. Seriously, once you have done it, you'll wonder what the fuss is about (not saying it's not fantastic just that its not neccesarily a "magical earth moving thing).

Then get back to concentrating on making friends and talking to random strangers.
The confidence will come from both of those things.

BTW, not convinced your not really a troll.

[andydriffield]

have u ever thought about rape its just a thought

[DKE_GUY]

have u ever thought about rape its just a thought

hahahah....Rep'd

[Ric_Daddy]

Ok start here: http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/

And also join your local lair: http://www.fastseduction.com/lairpage.shtml

You have just begun your journey. Good luck

[tubenoob]

Stop thinking about it so much. Also at this point what do you have to lose? besides the virginity of course? Nothing. So i would tell some woman your a virgin, make it a joke in a way. They may be curious and help you to get into a more intimate convo. If you do get into something to seal the deal, just put the girl on top and let her work, so you don't have to act weird trying to be dominate, which I think we all know right now you will not be.

And the fatties might be a good road to travel for now. That or Prostitution.

Well should the virgin thing be said jokingly through aim or in person? Oh and resorting to a hooker is just as bad as being a virgin to me(no hate just how I feel). Thanks

[tubenoob]

As mentioned before, forget about getting laid. Hire a hooker so you know what it feels like. Seriously, once you have done it, you'll wonder what the fuss is about (not saying it's not fantastic just that its not neccesarily a "magical earth moving thing).

Then get back to concentrating on making friends and talking to random strangers.
The confidence will come from both of those things.

BTW, not convinced your not really a troll.

Thanks even tho it may not be an earth moving thing it's still an important part of life to most people so it's important to me. I'm not a troll but I dunno how I can prove that.

[tubenoob]

Ok start here: http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/

And also join your local lair: http://www.fastseduction.com/lairpage.shtml

You have just begun your journey. Good luck

I'll check it out thanks. I have watched the pick up artist and some other pua stuff. Very interesting.

[m_risinger]

you must not drink either or you wouldn't be a virgin

[roblow123]

im 16 and not a virgin but i dont have much experience lol. And as you get older i can imagine that i must be harder to find women. But the only thing you need to do is be yourself but be a more confident, try not to be too nice, and make sure you make it clear to her that you want to be more than friends, and you will be fine.

[NIUNIU_SAN]

Being 30 years old and a virgin doesn't mean anything is wrong with you at all. Social stigma I assume is really dogging you down consciously, and you have perhaps put up mental blocks that are making you nervous around women. Best thing is to do is re-assert yourself by taking a good look at your strengths. Focus, and be your best.

Anyone you meet who doesn't approve of you being a virgin can F*uck Right Off. Just to repeat - they can F*ck Right Off. That's what you got to get into your head.

Be strong our good man, and try making a journal about it here - updating it often. It's only Miscers, but you can get a good angle on stuff by just writing about it.

Got your back!

[jungalist]

For real I am a 30yr old virgin. I'm not real social(duh). I'll blame that on not being hugged enough as a child blah blah. Anyways I'm tired of being such a loser. Help! Oh my hot or not rating is 7.4 and I joined a local "singles club" online. Very few hits on it but I had a fatty gaming me but I got nervous and screwed it up. I can and will add details as this thread gets replys,I just don't want to bore you guys just yet lol.

you really are a tube noob

[tubenoob]

Being 30 years old and a virgin doesn't mean anything is wrong with you at all. Social stigma I assume is really dogging you down consciously, and you have perhaps put up mental blocks that are making you nervous around women. Best thing is to do is re-assert yourself by taking a good look at your strengths. Focus, and be your best.

Anyone you meet who doesn't approve of you being a virgin can F*uck Right Off. Just to repeat - they can F*ck Right Off. That's what you got to get into your head.

Be strong our good man, and try making a journal about it here - updating it often. It's only Miscers, but you can get a good angle on stuff by just writing about it.

Got your back!

Wow really good post and yeah I have mental blocks I'm sure. I will keep posted tho only "online dating" right now(I have a cold) I will be hitting the clubs soon.

[Jonken]

Go to clubs and partys, get drunk, talk to people - repeat untill something intresting happens... You will also find new friends, could count as an bonus maybe. Btw alcohol will kill your mental blocks you talk about =)

[PetethePianist]

i dont mean to be rude, but an escort service might be the way to go.. just to kind get your confidence up and hit the real world

if you're near Waco, I know a lot of loose girls at Baylor U.

[tubenoob]

Well today I've been online goofing off. This one chick on myspace dated my friend so I added her way back but our chats always dull small talk. Then she makes a point of telling me out of the blue that she has a bf so she does this like 3times my reply.
Yeah you keep saying something about having a boyfriend and I don't know if it's because you wanted me to hit on you and I didn't or if you want me to pass that tid bit to John lol. Oh if it's the hit on you thing then maybe this will help. Your 3year old pics really get my engine running baby Now how about that boob shot?
her:
lol d ur soo funny lol.. nah i dont care if u tell him or not.. but i really do have a bf..
I then joke about the boob shot thing abit,she didn't say no so I said you can wait till my six pack comes in this summer and I'll send you a pic. She said something about me bringing the sexy back to summer then I went with the virgin thing well that turned into you should try club x so I'm now trying to get her to go there. She's cute but a practice target cause she knows people I know and thats getting "Jerry Springerish"

[Chris A]

man you're even worse than kalagan. Oh well i guess getting laid isnt all that matters in life. I'm still a virgin but hopefully ill have lost it b4 im 30 lol.