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    so how do you react if someone blows you off?

    So I'd arranged a date with this girl for last tuesday, and she ended up not showing. Luckily there was other people in the bar who i knew, so i ended up having a good time with them. But what pissed me off was yesterday she texted me apologizing saying she had been really busy, and saying we should go out next weekend. Obviously BS, and she could have told me beforehand.

    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
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    Originally Posted by razor ramone View Post
    So I'd arranged a date with this girl for last tuesday, and she ended up not showing. Luckily there was other people in the bar who i knew, so i ended up having a good time with them. But what pissed me off was yesterday she texted me apologizing saying she had been really busy, and saying we should go out next weekend. Obviously BS, and she could have told me beforehand.

    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
    Arrange to meet again and don't show up. Better yet, make it an expensive restaraunt.
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    when i read the thread name i got aroused and got my cok out ..... i was deeply misguided
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    yeh it sucks.
    brush it off. just pretend it never happened give her 1 more chance..
    by showing any anger or emotion proves you made alot of effort this gives her the upper hand as she knows you are deeply infatuated with her and she will play you like a fiddle.
    1 more chance if she dosent show means shes not interested, time to move on brother.
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    Originally Posted by r-ban View Post
    Arrange to meet again and don't show up.
    this is how i react. Following that never answer her call again.

    I wouldnt do this if they rang BEFORE hand to give notice, key word notice, 1 min before is NOT notice either.

    You should just arrange and dont show, theres a 80% chance she doesnt plan on showing either anyway.
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    Originally Posted by razor ramone View Post
    So I'd arranged a date with this girl for last tuesday, and she ended up not showing. Luckily there was other people in the bar who i knew, so i ended up having a good time with them. But what pissed me off was yesterday she texted me apologizing saying she had been really busy, and saying we should go out next weekend. Obviously BS, and she could have told me beforehand.

    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
    Give them the Razor's Edge chico.
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    just tell her you are not interested anymore. that will burn her up inside more than anyhting else you can do.
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    i'd tell her "no thanks" in a text and not talk to her again
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    don't sweat it homie. theres a lot of immature and stupid people in the world. you would be foolish to let there actions rub off on you and ruin your day.

    just chill out , you'll find someone better.

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    Originally Posted by lordsess24 View Post
    Can't miss the second date if there dead, just sayin.
    LMAO. I still laugh at that sh!t every time I hear it.
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    Originally Posted by razor ramone View Post
    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
    I'd try one more time. Just ask her when would be best for her and then you can plan accordingly. And if she does it again, I'd just say **** her.

    LOL, reminds me of a buddy of mine. He used to go out with this girl (no sex) and she used to never show interest in any things he wanted. Like never coming out to bars in his area, or wanting to meet any of his buddies. So eventually he got pissed and decided to leave her completely alone. They didn't talk for a few months. now she keeps calling him almost every night wanting to hang out, and he never has time. He's like man, this bitch needs to get the point.

    Just saying, funny how things can turn around like that.
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    move on further down the bar to the next hot one.
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    Originally Posted by Shadow666 View Post
    yeh it sucks.
    brush it off. just pretend it never happened give her 1 more chance..
    by showing any anger or emotion proves you made alot of effort this gives her the upper hand as she knows you are deeply infatuated with her and she will play you like a fiddle.
    1 more chance if she dosent show means shes not interested, time to move on brother.

    Oh hell no... she stands you up... waits a week... then apologizes via text??? Guaranteed her plans for next weekend fell through so now she is looking for a AFC to take her out and pick up the tab for her night out. Do you really want toa go on a date with a girl who has no respect for you???

    You have a few options here...

    1) Ignore her text.

    2) Agree and tell her you will meet her for dinner... and not show up.

    3) Agree and meet her for dinner. When you get there, quietly have a word with the waiter that you want seperate checks. A decent girl on a first date will try not to order anything too pricey... with the stunt she pulled she does not fall in to this category. As she will be thinking you are picking up the tab, encourage her to order anything she wants... the most expensive drinks, the most expensive dinner, the most expensive desert, etc....

    Then when the 2 seperate bills come simply "play dumb" and act like you were going dutch all along. I read an online article about a guy who did this once and it as hilarious. It was in New York... she "spent" nearly $200 on food and drinks for herself... and didn't bring any money

    Whatever you do, show some self respect and don't just forget what she did... because she ill never respect you.

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    this is why i always say "i'll pick you up" if she doesnt trust me with her address then its a no-go.

    Usually I make them wait.

    One time I was to meet up with this girl at some hotel(ya dont ask), made her wait like an hour and a half while i was driving through traffic and I left late lol.

    Never been stood up like that tho. I bet that feeling would suck driving home, etc.

    tell her ur not interested wit BS games, dont do the high class restaurant thing cause it'll look like u got hurt and u want revenge.

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    Originally Posted by ovoleg View Post
    this is why i always say "i'll pick you up" if she doesnt trust me with her address then its a no-go.
    f*ck her

    I used ot think like this until I went in to law enforcement (Army Military Police) and got to see firsthand how many true nutjobs were out there. 99% of the time if a woman doesn't know you well before a first date she wants to meet you just so she knows you aren't an axe murder first... not so she can stand you up (my opinion)
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    I sent her a text back saying 'yeah sure lets do it next weekend instead then.' And then deleted her number off my phone, i wont be speaking to her again and definitely wont be meeting her .
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    Dont understand why that post didnt send this to the top of the thread list
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    Originally Posted by irishjackmp View Post
    3) Agree and meet her for dinner. When you get there, quietly have a word with the waiter that you want seperate checks. A decent girl on a first date will try not to order anything too pricey... with the stunt she pulled she does not fall in to this category. As she will be thinking you are picking up the tab, encourage her to order anything she wants... the most expensive drinks, the most expensive dinner, the most expensive desert, etc....

    Then when the 2 seperate bills come simply "play dumb" and act like you were going dutch all along. I read an online article about a guy who did this once and it as hilarious. It was in New York... she "spent" nearly $200 on food and drinks for herself... and didn't bring any money
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    Originally Posted by razor ramone View Post
    So I'd arranged a date with this girl for last tuesday, and she ended up not showing. Luckily there was other people in the bar who i knew, so i ended up having a good time with them. But what pissed me off was yesterday she texted me apologizing saying she had been really busy, and saying we should go out next weekend. Obviously BS, and she could have told me beforehand.

    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
    Originally Posted by Shadow666 View Post
    yeh it sucks.
    brush it off. just pretend it never happened give her 1 more chance..
    by showing any anger or emotion proves you made alot of effort this gives her the upper hand as she knows you are deeply infatuated with her and she will play you like a fiddle.
    1 more chance if she dosent show means shes not interested, time to move on brother.
    It's one thing to give her another chance if she actually called or texted beforehand and said that she wasn't going to be able to make it. But since she didn't do either of those two things, I wouldn't even bother wasting anymore time on her and I would just tell her no thanks the next time she asks to hang out.

    It's one of my biggest pet peeves when people do this. The excuse of "I was too busy to call you" is bull.
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    Originally Posted by Spetsnazos View Post
    tell her ur not interested wit BS games, dont do the high class restaurant thing cause it'll look like u got hurt and u want revenge.

    f*ck her
    wut

    if he isn't going to see her again he might as well get reveng. why not pay her back if he is gonna delete her number either way

    I would go to a nice restaurant and order the most expensive food/drinks for myself and tell her to do the same. I would then proceed to eat very fast and say that I hadn't eaten all day. About halfway through my meal I would get up and say I need to use the bathroom. Then proceed to walk out but make sure she doesn't see me walk out.

    sent her a text about 10 minute later saying "I'm really busy I had to go, maybe we should go out next weekend(or however she worded her excuse for not showing up). Thanks for being understanding and picking up the tab "
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    I've had this before, this girl would have lame excuses not to hang out if I said, hey, let's do this now..

    so whatever, after about 3-4 times I gave up... then she asked me to go out, on a weds night or something...

    I text her early in the evening, "hey, what are you thinking for tongiht", no response,

    the next day she texts "hey, sorry, fell asleep, been sick, I feel really bad let me make it up to you come to a house party this weekend with me, or do whatever else on saturday"

    I told her busy both those times but don't worry about it"

    she says "sorry, I hope you don't hate me"

    I said "look, don't worry, if I were mad at every friend who has ever flaked on me, I'd have no friends"...

    she didn't reply to that, for like 4 days, and I never followed it up.. She texts me "hey, I miss you, can we go out this week" I said sure, but didn't force the plans, nothing happened

    the next weekend "hey, what are you up to this week, want to get together?"

    I said "sure, your call when" went out, had a great time, and has been going alright since..


    Pretty much didn't get mad or call her out, was kinda a dick to her at the time, and ready to never talk again... after a few dates we finally hook up (drunk) and she was like I'm so happy we got together, I called her out then saying I was surprised, that she had lame excuses etc... she really had no better reason than "sometimes you're just tired, or not in a good mood"
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    Originally Posted by razor ramone View Post
    So I'd arranged a date with this girl for last tuesday, and she ended up not showing. Luckily there was other people in the bar who i knew, so i ended up having a good time with them. But what pissed me off was yesterday she texted me apologizing saying she had been really busy, and saying we should go out next weekend. Obviously BS, and she could have told me beforehand.

    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
    And you're still think about her? Clearly, you're a pushover.
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    I still think you should have invited her out and not showed up. That woulda been good. But GJDM for not latching on to this chick.
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    I'd just brush it off. I don't really let girls know **** like that bothers me. Though I haven't been fully stood up like this, if she flakes, or something close, I don't react, just react with no big deal, though I don't pursue her after, she knows she's in the wrong, and in this case, if she was truly interested she'd make it up to you. Trying to get back at her by flaking her won't make things progress any further in your favor.
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    Originally Posted by razor ramone View Post
    So I'd arranged a date with this girl for last tuesday, and she ended up not showing. Luckily there was other people in the bar who i knew, so i ended up having a good time with them. But what pissed me off was yesterday she texted me apologizing saying she had been really busy, and saying we should go out next weekend. Obviously BS, and she could have told me beforehand.

    usually i just let things like this go, and be a total pushover, but im trying to change that. What would you guys do in this situation?
    I'd call her an ugly fcking bitch and then stab her to death and play around in her blood.
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